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you can call me tori.im fourteen- but know alot for my age.
im taken& he means the world to me.
i love helping people with their problems
and since i've been through a lot it's easy
for me to help& understand.
i have alot of fake friends.
im not even close to perfect.
i hate when people lable.
i like straight-up, outgoing people.
hating me isn't proving anything.
i love to smile.(:
hopefully i'll help most of you
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My best friend.. I don't know what happened. But I can't stand her. There's seriously no jealously or drama .. anything going on. But lately she has been bothering me. I don't know. The things she does irriates me sometimes. Like when she tries to make me feel guilty for not sharing/buying her something. She would never repay me back anyways. She would always ask me if I was emo [that bothers me so much] whenever I didn't smile for a second. Is it just a phase? I don't know. She keeps throwing so many questions at me and I can't face her. I don't know. I feel like I'm taking care of her sometimes. I'm not her mother... My other best friend has noticed the distance between us. I really don't like her clinging onto me sometimes. I dont know why I'm suddenly feeling like this.
well she might be able to feel the distance so she is trying to ask all the questions to feel close to you again. but you need to let her know that she is bothering you before you stop being friends because that wouldnt be good. you dont have to be mean but you dont have to be super nice either just try and say it to where she understands where your coming from.
im 14 and me and this girl have been friends for like ever. and suddenly she just started crap. she told the people i sit with at lunch i was talking about them behind their back. WHICH I WASNT! and now all of them hate me. and i play a sport and two of the girls from the lunch table are on the team. at one of our games, she had people crowding around her and saying i was being a total biotch! and all she does is make up lies. i tried to tell the people i didnt do anything but they dont believe me. please help.
she might have heard stuff that maybe you were saying abour her even if you werent! maybe another close friend got jealous of how close you were and wanted to end it so they started stuff. if you want to get to the bottom of it just confront your friend and ask her why she is acting like that and try to talk to her and explain everything to her also try doing that with the other people. it almost sounds like your friend coulda been jealous of something you did so she had to make herself look good. and if you two have been friends for a long time talking to her shouldnt hurt even if you do fight a lot of friends do and they get over it. if she still wont listen to you then she wasnt a true friend all along which kinda sucks =/
You give wonderful advice ( ;
we should probably hook up sometime.
haha just kiddin
hah. thankss
Hello. I am 13/female. I am not sure or not; but i believe i have an eating disorder :( I don`t eat as much and when i do i eat hardly anything. My mom asks me all the time if i need help because she too believes i have it. I think it may be because of all the family issues i have been having in the past year and the challenge of trying to impress people around me. They have said that family problems at home can lead to this. But i also try to stick out. And i love to hear people tell me how skinny i am. I feel i have to be the smallest person or i get sick to my stomach! If i eat a hamburger, i feel like i`m fat and i don`t eat until i am forced. I eat a little lunch; and a little dinner. and that`s it. Half the time i don`t eat any dinner. I also worry that my friend may be skinnier than me. Which bothers me. I wish i could go back to normal, but i fear i will become fat..... i no i could eat whatever i wanted and not gain a pound; but for some reason i don`t feel comfortable eating. It makes me feel horrible; and a couple of times i felt so bad i almost made myself throw up. I know how bad this can get, but i am afraid to ask for help, because i hate asking others for things. It`s harder than it looks :(
well to tell you the truth i almost had an eating disorder myself& like you i loved hearing i was skinny. it doesnt seem like you have a full effect on it yet& you might want to tell your mom these things so she will know to get you some help. what helped me was looking at models that were anerexic and i relized that it was pretty at all& all i really wanted was people to worry about me and get attention. dont compare yourself to your friends just be happy& take care of yourself and most importantly eat. if you want to stay healthy just eat the right foods& stay away from the fast food resturants; work out maybe to get muscle and regain everything. if you dont feel right talking to your mom talk to a close friend or a teacher just anyone you feel comfortable talking too that will make it better.
if you need to talk more just write me back. i hope i can help you& please try to eat
so theres this kid eh...
and we went out for EvEr and then broke up cuz he liked my best friend. but after that we started "hanging out" more than we did when we were going out and this time he tells me he loves me. but anyway....
he then tells me out of the blue we cant "hang out" anymore cuz he likes someone else(s. and then...
i go to his party where one of the girls he likes is there. so all night he flirts with her. then she leaves and, i think out of old habit, starts on me. but luckly my dad came and once i went to leave, he hung behind every1, to kiss me. but i ran ahead of the crowd and out the door.
i mean i like him still,i cant get him outta my head. but what should i do now?
it sounds like hes kinda teasing you. and he might be testing you to see if you still liked him or not so leaving that party before he could kiss you was probably the best thing to do. you need to talk to him and make sure he would stick to only you and if not then take time and find someone else who will (:
k so i like this guy and i have been trying to figure out if he like me back. all my friends say he does but that would be too good to be true. Anyways one day i was in the class where we all hangout and he was with his friends and i was with mine. well he fatted(i know great guy choice right?)lol anyways one of his friends was yelling my name "________!_______! did you hear what your boyfreind just did" and then i was like well hes not my boyfriend or whatever and another one of his frieds was like 'dude i dont even know why she like you". Now everytime i am around his friends like when they are telling me a story or something they refer to him as my boyfriend. Do I take this as a hint or just messing around??? pleezzeee help!!!!!!!
well you might what to ask him because they might just be joking around with you knowing that you like him. dont take it serious yet if you& him havent made it offical because you dont want to get hurt
Well i am 15/f i was dating this one
boy for awhile and well now we arn't
together,now he is dating one of my
friends and i still love him alot
i just don't know what to do, i want to
tell him how i feel but i just can't
that would be bad towards my friend
but right now i am not happy and i feel
like i won't be happy until i get him back.
it sounds like a really tough situation and it probably hurts to see them. but dont feel like you wont be happy until you have him back; you have to tell yourself that you dont need him and that your going to find someone else even better even if it doesnt feel like you will for awhile. that's what i had to do because you probably feel like no one can take his place but really someone out there can; you kinda have to force yourself to feel this way for now but soon it will just take over and you will feel that way naturally take a break with the whole boy thing and wait for someone special to find you it'll make it alot easier on yourself. have fun with your friends and dont think about him he's not worth it. and dont tell him how you feel because it would make things very bad with you and your friend and try not to make it weird for your friend to be around the both of you at once; try writing a letter and act like your going to give it to him but really just get it all out then burn it or hide it where no one will find it because i've done that also and it helps alot more. you can also try focusing on other things& dont think about the past just go on with your future. i hope everything goes is alright& write back if you still need to talk
I am thirteen/female & the boy i like is thirteen also, & obviously male. i 've known him for about a year now.. but i never thought he would consider me as a person he would like/date. well he sits infront of my in our world history class & he flirts with me alot- my friend who sits across the room from us said she has noticed alot of the flirting that goes on between us, she has said that it is obvious that he likes me, but i don 't want to seem too forward by asking him if he likes me or not. I obviously like him a great deal. But how do i ask him/find out if he has any feelings for me with out apearing too forward/ desperate?
it seems like he does like you& if he has known you for about a year he's gotten to know you. most boys flirt but not alot so there must be some interest there. hint around that you like him first and show interest back& see if he still flirts the same way; if he doesnt then he wont be worth it but if you see that he does then start talking to him about hanging out or going to the movies. if your nervous you could have your friend do it. i hope everything works!
i'm moving to a new house and want an awesom new room. I'm a prep, but i don't want it to be too preppy..kinda sophisticated tho...any ideas?
well if you like the color pink you could make the walls pink or like a bright color. make sure the bedspread will look good with you age you dont want something kidish. if there is enough room you can put in a chair and make it comfortable when friends come over. try looking at different stores with bedroom sets then mix and match.
hey. i'm 13/f and i think he is 14 and obviously male. we like a lot of the same things and i really like him, although i only met him last week and we only spent 3 hours together, we seemed to have a lot in common. the thing is i don't know if he'd date me since we live in different towns and he's a year older. according to my friends he was flirting with me a lot, but i saw an equal amount between all three of us. how can i try to flirt with him a little more and make him like me a little more without seeming way desperate?
well if he really likes you then he wont care about the distance or the age difference and try to make it work out. and as for the flirting thing just kinda giggle at the little things he says but dont make it look too obvious and start busting out laughing at something little. smile and him and maybe talk about hanging out he
should get the point
This is going to sound stupid,
but I'm 16/f I've never had a boyfriend yet,
never been kissed.
Its pathetic right?
I'm one of those people who crave a relationship, to be loved and to love.
All the guys I meet seem to just be 'good friends' and a lot of them actually, have feelings for my best girl friends.
I usually can solve or potentionally solve all my problems with answers from myself or others.
But I dont know why I cant find a boyfriend,
I have a lot of guy friends, but none seem to be interested in that way.
I dont even know how to attract them anymore,
I'm just so confused. And I'm lonely.
I know I'm young, but can any of you relate, and if so, what happened so far?
I just feel like something is wrong with me.
no nothing is wrong with you. boyfriends are great but sometimes it's just better to be single and have fun with friends; dont rush into love.
but you have to ask yourself is there any guy that seems interested in you or you find yourself interested in. you just need to take it slow from there because you dont want a heartbrake. maybe if your still feeling lonely ask one of you friends how they are attracting the guys
I'm 5'8" and I weigh 127 I would like to be 117 because i'm just not happy with my figure. How can I lose the weight? I don't eat half the time and that doesn't work. I also work out everyday I play volleyball and basketball throughout the week so I'm not just sitting around.
well that sounds like a pretty weight for being tall. but you just need to work out like you are and if it seems like you are gaining more weight it's because muscle weighs more than fat so your actaully healthy& just get healthy foods. look on the back of the food wrappers because you start to eat it, it would be much healthier than not eating because your stomach will just grow more once you start to eat again& plus thats not good.