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heyyya.
okay; i'm going to tell you about what i'm going through right now. i'm so confused on who to choose, so maybe you can help me. :( or give me a boost to the right direction.
there are 3 guys, and let me give you each story. [R; D; B;--is what they'll go by]
D;-i just started going out with D like 12 days ago. i honestly jumped into the relationship without getting to know him at all. i talked to him one night on the phone for like 20 minutes, then the next night he asked me out &i said yes. there was one mistake. then he told me he wouldn't break up w/ me..&i told him the same. [another mistake] i do honestly like D, but i just don't know much about him. he's really sweet, and i don't want to hurt him. i just don't know what i should do.
R;-it started out about 4 years ago, when i met him. i just knew there was something about him, and i've liked him ever since. well, he's never given me a chance because ''he doesn't date chicks more than 2 years younger than him'' [as of right now; i'm 15 &&he's 17. he'll be 18 in august] the other day, he came down to my house without me asking him to. [which is suprising, because he barely comes down anyway] and we were talking and stuff, and he mentioned something abut me oweing him something. [kisses from a few months before.] i told him i couldn't give him those kisses, then he knew i had a boyfriend. long story short; R told me that on wednesday we would talk about being together. [wed-my15bday] well, we talked and he told me not to break up with my boyfriend, just to go out with him. R even promised me that there would be another chance for us. :( but there are bad things about R. [drugs;use to be playa;quit school]
B;-i just met B at the beginning of the 2nd semester. after spending alot of time with him, i grew to like him. we had said during summer we were going to a concert/show together and hangout some. i would always flirt with him and stuff, and he would flirt back. i kinda thought that he might like me, but he kept talking about other girls. then i heard he was talking with a chick named amber. anyway; during the end of the school year, B started to talk to me less. i asked him what was wrong, and he told me he didn't want to intefer with me &my other guys. [i don't know what he meant by other guys] come to find out; B likes me. he told me he thought that he was going to end up being my boyfriend, and stuff. he told me that we wasn't going to hangout this summer or anything, because i had a bf. i told him he wasn't interfering &&i still wanted to hangout. now that school is out; i haven't talked to him since.
so there are the guys.
i like them all.
1st R; 2nd B; 3rd D.
i don't know who to choose to be with.
because i'm so confused about stuff.
i hope you can give me a little advice.
sorry this was so long.
thank you. (link)
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You don't sound like you like your boyfriend very much. At least not enough. I don't think it's fair for either of you to be in a relationship with each other right now. Your heart isnt completely in it, and sooner or later you are going to break up with him because of it. If you let it draw on too long, he will be even more hurt. Don't lead the poor kid on. It seems like you rushed wayyy too fast, which is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
AND OH MY GOD I LIKE BAD BOYS TOO. =]
But R sounds too dangerous. He's trying to manipulate you, and if you let him all that is going to happen is that you will get hurt. I know this because it's happened to me before. I know that it's a turn on that he's into you because of what he said before about age differences... and because you've liked him for so long.. bad boys are hotties, yeah? But they don't make good boyfriends and they arent very trustworthy.
I THINK YOU SHOULD GO FOR B. He sounds like a gentleman that is honest and doesnt want to make a mistake and was trying not to confuse you. [while R was..] He doesnt want to get involved because he knows that there is a line when you have a boyfriend and he doesn't want to get close to you and either cross the line or get hurt as he watches you, the girl he likes, but cannot have.
the end.
go for B
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what does chicken wrap mean? and what does it mean wen someone say that they have figgity fat pockets?! and wats chicken salad? and how do u have an erection and how do u spell the word "TV" i just cant figure out how to spell TV (link)
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FIGGITY FAT POCKETS = helluv rich.
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I've been with this guy for 1 1/2 years and i really do like him alot. But you know the saying that the bestfriend always wins... well i guess tat kinda happend to me... or iss in the process of happening. We dated like 2 years ago for a few months and broke up to be friends... well now we hang out ALOT and i guess that you could say that im falling hard for him. But IDK what to do about my boy friend. I like him alot but im really starting to like my friend too...
what should i do?
please help me (link)
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I feel like I am in the same situation.
It is possible to love two people at once. Which sucks. But the truth is, you always love someone more. And you know who it is.
Think about the things that you like about both guys.
Think about the reasons that you like them.
I don't know how to solve your issue, but think about how you would feel if you broke up with your boyfriend for your best friend. Think about your reputation and whether or not it is all a good idea and worth it.
And then think about both boys.
You are going to end up either hurting your boyfriend or leading your best friend on.
Which do you want it to be?
This isn't turning out to be very good advice, I'm just asking helluv questions .. . . .
sorry.
I hope all goes well.
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what are some things that aren't really dirty that my girlfriend and i can do while making out? (link)
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i'd say touch each other.
put your hand down her shirt, or even just under it. rub her back, her stomach, grab her boobs.
move your hands up and down her thighs. rub her crotch.
let her touch you.
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