I've been with this guy for 1 1/2 years and i really do like him alot. But you know the saying that the bestfriend always wins... well i guess tat kinda happend to me... or iss in the process of happening. We dated like 2 years ago for a few months and broke up to be friends... well now we hang out ALOT and i guess that you could say that im falling hard for him. But IDK what to do about my boy friend. I like him alot but im really starting to like my friend too...
what should i do?
please help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? NikkiM answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 8:16 am: Well i think you should wait for a while..i mean do u know for definate your friend wants to be more than friends..yer u 2 are hanging out alot but to him that might not meen anything. You should talk to your friends before making any decisions. Also..you have to think about the friendship with your friend..would you reck it by dating him ? Also..if your with your bf you can stil always hang out with your friend..but if you start dating your friend..could you ever see your bf ? Just make sure you think about it carefully before deciding what to do =) Good Luck x x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
Nervous answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 4:38 am: I feel like I am in the same situation.
It is possible to love two people at once. Which sucks. But the truth is, you always love someone more. And you know who it is.
Think about the things that you like about both guys.
Think about the reasons that you like them.
I don't know how to solve your issue, but think about how you would feel if you broke up with your boyfriend for your best friend. Think about your reputation and whether or not it is all a good idea and worth it.
And then think about both boys.
You are going to end up either hurting your boyfriend or leading your best friend on.
Which do you want it to be?
This isn't turning out to be very good advice, I'm just asking helluv questions .. . . .
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