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im not sure about my friends
ok well i have alot of friends but i dont know if they truly like me.. because they will be all nice to me one sec and then ill hear one of my so called freinds telling me something that my other friend said about me. i have even witnessed it.. i was pretending to be somebody else and i was talking to my friend and all of a sudden my friend start talking s*** about me saying i stalk them and im ugly and she doesnt want to be my friend. and its way confusing because then she come up to me and start hugging me acting like i dont know what she did.and huh *sigh* i want to be her freind but i dont know if they want to be mine. help me please
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people are like that sometimes, and people like that aren't worth it. if you ask me shes a two faced friend and you dont deserve friends like that. I don't think that she's worth your time. i hope i helped (:
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Well from what your saying it sounds to me like their not your friends at all :S I meen friends dont act like that to eachother..i think yu should consider hu your friends really are !:) Good Luck x x
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There are a couple different reasons that a girl could be talking behind your back.
One, it could be that she really doesn't like you, or doesn't like something that you do, or some way that you've acted. She acts all nice to you in person because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or seem mean, so she pretends to be your friend. If you think this is the case, you have two choices. You can take a good look at yourself and see if there is anything you've been doing that would make someone not like you, and then try to change it. But if you don't think you're doing anything wrong, or you don't want to change, then forget that girl, move on and find friends who will like you for who you are.
OR... it could be that the girl really does like you, but she isn't mature enough or self-confident enough to stick up for you when someone else is dissing you. So she talks about you, too, to seem cool in front of other people. If this is the case, and you want to keep that friend, you might want to tell her in a nice way that it really hurts you when you hear she's been talking about you. And try to understand that she's learning how to be a friend, and might mess up sometimes, and try to forgive her.
It's basically true that TRUE friends don't talk bad about each other behind their backs. But everyone makes mistakes sometimes, especially in middle school and even high school, so if it only happens once or twice, try to be forgiving.
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