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I am so confused!!!!
k so i like this guy and i have been trying to figure out if he like me back. all my friends say he does but that would be too good to be true. Anyways one day i was in the class where we all hangout and he was with his friends and i was with mine. well he fatted(i know great guy choice right?)lol anyways one of his friends was yelling my name "________!_______! did you hear what your boyfreind just did" and then i was like well hes not my boyfriend or whatever and another one of his frieds was like 'dude i dont even know why she like you". Now everytime i am around his friends like when they are telling me a story or something they refer to him as my boyfriend. Do I take this as a hint or just messing around??? pleezzeee help!!!!!!!<3
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well you might what to ask him because they might just be joking around with you knowing that you like him. dont take it serious yet if you& him havent made it offical because you dont want to get hurt
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First of all, his friends are really being jerks. If he DOES like you, then they're not helping anything to happen here; they're embarrassing him and virtually guaranteeing that he'll never make a move. If you want to find out his real feelings for you, you're going to have to take the first step yourself.
Find some way to talk to him alone - WITHOUT his friends around. Then, you should just be honest with him:
"Obviously, you've heard rumors that I like you. Well, the thing is, it's true. I'd really love to go out with you sometime. I know your friends are giving you crap about it, saying you're my boyfriend and all that, and it's embarrassing and I wish they wouldn't do it... but the truth is, I really DO like you. I don't know if you feel the same way, but... just think about it, okay?"
The next move needs to be his. If he's not willing to make it, then he either doesn't feel the same way, or he's letting his friends make the call for him. Either way, that's not someone you want to be dating. If it's actually going to work out, he needs to have the character to ignore his friends' juvenile teasing and ask you out anyway, because he wants to and they're not going to stop him.
Good luck!
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Hun i would take that as a hint
why else would his friends be doing that?
Trust me this guy likes you but
he is to intimidated to ask you out.
Hope i helped :]
~Jenna~
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