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i dont have a problem not eating fat foods..its hard for me but its working out i dont know what to do. i want to slim my thighs and waist. is their some good exercies that i can do anytime during the day that will work fast if i do them daily?

well cruunches will give you abs. pull ups will give you tricept muscles. but for losing weight on your tighs and your waist you should try doing bear crawls..

here are the instructions for doing it:

CRAWLING ON YOUR LEGS AND ARMS, WITH THEM ALMOST PERFECTLY STRAIGHT.

WALK AROUND ON YOUR LEGS AND ARMS.. for a long distance.. YOU WILL FEEL THE BURN.. BUT IT PAYS OF BIG TIME.

I do that in off season. it works like a charm =]


Hope I helped.=D

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Any term you see in red below is not allowed:

hi, i am 13 years old and i have a bad reputation at school. everyone calls me a slut...in fact ive been given the title \'the unofficial class slut\'. a slut is a girl who sleeps around with people and im a virgin, so why am i being branded like this. i used to hv a lot of guys who were friends, but since the grls gve me this name theyve cold shouldered me. it really hurts. ive made sum bad decisions but i really dont deserve it. plus, ive got a big bust, so people make snide comments abt them, which are really nasty. plz give me sum advice on how to cope. all advice is appreciated!!

You dont sound like a slut, AT ALL. but yeah a lot of girls get called sluts (and they dont do anything sluttish) becuse of the clothes they were. Or if they tend to flirt with guys, other girls will call you a slut because they are probably jelous. Its weird but its only a sign of their insecurity.=] Be nice to everyone and dont get mad and show how sad they are making you when they call you this. Just smile and say "whatever" or "ok?" and they will eventually stop and relize its doing absolutely nothing.


Hope I helped. =D

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can somebody pleaswe go step by step how to put a platlis of songs onto myspace...dont search google and tell me to do that..thnx

There is a bar at the top of your screen when you log into it. Click music and search for the song you want in the search box.. when you go to the bands myspace, click add song when its playing, it says add song right next to the song name in the play box.


Hope I helped =D

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There's really not a category for my questiion so I appologize in advance. Anyway, I've had freckles on my face for as long as I can remember. As a kid, everybody thought it was cute, including girls, but I didn't want anything to do with them obviously in 2nd grade or whatever. Now that I'm in college, I don't think that people, including myself, really think freckles are cute anymore. I dont have problems with acne, and I'm in pretty good shape. Do any girls out there think that freckles are a cute thing?

I THINK THEIR ADORABLE.. well anyways if you are self concious about your freckles then you can always try using some nice concealer from sephora. it covers your freckles completely and makes your skin look completely natural=D

Here is a good product:
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P109931&categoryId=C108


Hope I helped!

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i have a couple dark mustache hairs around my mouth. what would the best way to get rid of them - pluck, cut or die? if dying is the best way, what kind of dye can i use? and what should i do about my happy ttrail?

there are special razors for unwanted hair. I think you should try using Nair. Supposedly its good for hair all around your body, and it doesnt grow back for months... Or you could try getting it waxed every few months.

Nair---> http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=315082&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?ActiveCat=499^Query=nair^Click+to+go+to+search+results..x=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results..y=0^Click+to+go+to+search+results.=submit

try looking at that.


Hope I helped. ♥

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14/f

I usually just wear band shirts and jeans...studded belt or checkers. i have black hair but its natuarally dirty blond...

So i want to wear more stylish clothes...like hottopic or almost anything except for holister or abercrombie. i like american eagle and stuff too. i just dont know what to wear that would go well with my boddy type...any advice?

Well since you have black hair I think you should try wearing darker colors, just not completly black. Like for example a cute and comfortable navy blue sweater (v-cutt) and skinny jeans from pac sun or abercrombie and fitch (there jeans fit very well)

Here are some other stores you might like to shop at..

Old Navy.

Pac Sun.

Aeropostale.

Urban Outfitters.

American Eagle Outfitters.

Wet Seal.

Bui-yah-kah.


those are all really cute stores



And since you are coming from shopping wearing band shirts and studded belts (hottopic style) i think you should try wearing urban clothing, like urban outfitters. Its really stylish and cute. YOU SHOULD TRY IT. =]

Hope I helped

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So about a month or so ago, i tried cutting myself just to see what its like and i wanted to see what people get out of it. Strangely...i sortof liked it. I havent done it at all since the third or second day but i WANT to...

What should i do?

WELL i personally dont think its not a good idea. People might get a bad impression of you and that wouldnt be goood at all. So i think you shouldn't cut yourself.Find other ways to solve your problems other than hurting or cutting yourself. You might like it now but it will effect you in the future. Like maybe not being able to get into college or get into certain activites if they see your arm and its all scratched up. I dont know I just really dont think its a goood idea! I dont want to sound mean about it though, so i hoped i helped.





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Ok...SO...
Im FEMALE...

And ive never been kissed...
But i had this dream the other day that i was makin out with this guy and it brought up this question...

TOUNGES. Do they go in eachothers mouths (like mine in his and his in mine...) or just one mouth ...

I know its a wierd question but its probably something id wanna know .

Yes, well for making out. Making out means you use your tounges, and yes put it in each others mouth. haha and when you "kiss" someone that usually means either a peck or a "passionate kiss" meaning it lasts longer. AND if you have never made out before, if you bend your tongue backwards in your own mouth thats whaat it feels like

okay hope i helped.

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Well this kid and I "hooked up" a while ago (just kissed) and we used to talk a lot and we obivoulsy liked eachother. But for some reason his parents said i was too young for him!?!! how odd. but anyways...we still talked a lot but now he barly ever talks to me, i'm pretty much just getting the cold shoulder from him?

Well it might be true that his parents really think you are too young for him. OR maybe he is giving you a sign. but there is only one way to find out. Be honest with him , ask him if he still has feeling for you and make sure he knows how you are feeling about his "parent's decision" and how you have the cold shoulder about the whole situation. That is the easiet and probably the only wy to find out=]


Hope I helped.

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what type of perfumes like are the type that smell good and stay on longer then others
and what are some just good smelling perfumes??
also, what deoderente should i use that stops sweat stains, because i get them alot in school in the summer and its gross.
xoxo

Well there are a lot of perfumes that smell really good. I really like the perfume midnight by Britney Spears and I also like pink sugar.. but the ones that stay on really well tend to cost more =] Sephora has A LOT of perfumes.


Deoderant that I personally think works.. is secret gel(anti persprate) and as weird as this sounds i wear mens deoderant becuase i think it smells really good and it protects from sweat and stink VERY well.=]

hope i helped ♥

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In the movie The Holiday with Camoran Diaz, what job does she have?

I just saw that movie.=]

I think she is a movie trailor editer.




I LOVED THAT MOVIE it was so cute.

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okay, so prom is only a few months away and i have no idea what dress to look for. i know what dresses i like...but i have no clue for which styles to look for for me. okay so im 5'4', have pale skin, dark hair, pretty skinny(naturally that way) and kinda flat. any ideas for what kinda dress i should wear? what colours? shape? what would be flattering to me? any piece of information would be helpful! thank you so much!

I think you should, with your body type and figure, try looking for a slim dress that fits your body(slim and sleek). If your flat try using a push up bra to help hold your dress up. Colors for your skin and hair color would probably be brown, tan or light pink. Using black or really dark colors can make you look REALLY pale. But do whatever you think looks great. you should wear something you feel looks best.=D


Hope I helped.

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I have a lot of acne and stuff on my back, any way to get rid of that, fast without getting prescribed something from a doctor?

Look for not oilly body wash. Like Neutrogena works very well with acne problems. Take a look at this website and try to find what you are looking for.

www.neutrogena.com

You can find this wash in cvs or walmart or almost every grocery and pharmacy.

Hope I helped =D

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well im 5"1" and 144 lbs.
i hate it. i get picked on for being fat.
i have stratch marks on my boobs and thighs.
when i wear shirts you can see my chubbiness.
and then if i were pants below my belly button a roll of fat hangs over.
its real gross.


am i over weight for my age.
im thirteen.?

No you're not over weight.. usually girls (at the age of thirteen) get a little bit "plumper" before they hit a huge growth spert. That usually means that you are going to be tall and lean! But if your really self concious about your appearance (and im sure its really not that bad) you can go on a healthy diet.

www.weightwatchers.com

DONT WORRY!! thats exacually what happened to me when i hit my spert!


hope i helped=D

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Ok so there is this guy....I like him and I think he likes me but I am not sure. Two weeks ago we were out at the club and he tried finding me but never didn't, so he got my phone number instead and we have hung out 2 times already. He hasnt kissed me only hugged me. Does it sound like he likes me or what?

Well, maybe he is the type of guy who likes to take it slow. Usually when they take it slow it means they like you and they want the relationship to last. =]


Hope I helped

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female/17


everyone keeps talking about "veginas"
what are they and who has them?
what are there purposes?
do guys and girls have them?

please help i feel so clueless

thanks

It's a females body part. The rest I think you should ask a doctor or a close friend or family member

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What are some things girls do that guys find 'cute'?

sometimes its the way you smile or laugh that can be cute to a guy.

hope i helped
--tori

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Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you like for me to do from a girl's perspective? Thanks

Okay well from a girl's perspective, I think you should write her a note if your too nervous to go up and talk to her. I know how you feel. I am usually too scared to go up and talk to someone I like. But just keep in mind.. going up to her really isn't a big deal if you think about it. This maybe the only chance to get to know her and possibely date her! So i would defentely take talking to her into consideration.=] Who knows, maybe she is into you to. If you want to approach her, then I suggest going up to her and say "Hey, whats up?" Maybe ask her what classes shes taking. and most likely you will start a really good conversation and get to know each other. BUT be sure to smile a lot and make eye contact! Smelling good is also great=). Just to throw this in there... girls like it when guys use cute and nice to describe them (usually not hot or sexy) haha.


Okay well I hope I helped!

Tell me how it goes!:]

--Tori

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I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, and we've been together for about a year. The only way we can talk is through the internet and on the phone (but only on weekdays when I'm off) and his birthday is coming up this week and I don't know what to do!

I can't buy him anything, cause he wont be back til late this summer, and he won't tell me what he wants anyway. So what's something special and sweet that I can do for him?

Thanks!!!

AWW. I think you should make a sweet and cute card for him. Make sure it says how much you love and miss him. I am sure he will really like it if it's from down in your heart. To me, I would rather have something someone made for me than have something someone bought.=]


good luck!

tori

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See I realy like this boy that go to my school and I need to know how to turn him on at school?

smile! Try to act and look cute and flirty, laugh a lot. be nice to people especially when your around him! make him notice you and he will surely like it.

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