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hi, i am 13 years old and i have a bad reputation at school. everyone calls me a slut...in fact ive been given the title \'the unofficial class slut\'. a slut is a girl who sleeps around with people and im a virgin, so why am i being branded like this. i used to hv a lot of guys who were friends, but since the grls gve me this name theyve cold shouldered me. it really hurts. ive made sum bad decisions but i really dont deserve it. plus, ive got a big bust, so people make snide comments abt them, which are really nasty. plz give me sum advice on how to cope. all advice is appreciated!!
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You dont sound like a slut, AT ALL. but yeah a lot of girls get called sluts (and they dont do anything sluttish) becuse of the clothes they were. Or if they tend to flirt with guys, other girls will call you a slut because they are probably jelous. Its weird but its only a sign of their insecurity.=] Be nice to everyone and dont get mad and show how sad they are making you when they call you this. Just smile and say "whatever" or "ok?" and they will eventually stop and relize its doing absolutely nothing.
Hope I helped. =D
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Hey. :]
dont listen to what those girls have to say. they just assume your a slut for the stupidest reasons. you shouldn't let that bother you. besides, they're probably just jealous. so whatever you do don't let it bother you, & definetly don't show that it does. they'll continue doing it as long as you do.
just ignore them & tell them to shut up w/ a straight face. maybe they'll take you seriously. but if not then just ignore them. they should get a life & they have better things to worry about.
id suggest maybe making some new friends who dont belong in their group & who arent mean like them. you'll find someone. trust me. :]
hope i helped
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that is really mean what those girls have done. just try to ignore it . find a friend that rally undrestands you, like make a new friend who isnt a "mean girl" and tell her the truth so you know that one person really understands you! hope our advice helps C&L=)
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I dont think that you should care what other ppl say
If they really hurt you, then you should probably tell them how you feel
i have had some bad reputations, but when i tell how much the names hurt
I generally got left alone
There is always gunna be someone there that
is going to make fun of you
But you should just tell them to stop..or brush it off
im sure that you are not a slut
And no one deserves to be called that or anything else
I think that you should ask the ppl
why you got that name
You probably dont deserve it at all
I really hope that this helped
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hey
don't listen to what people say.
if people call you a slut, tell them to stop. but you have to be direct. for example if some guy goes up to you laughing saying "ha-ha-ha-ha unofficial class slut" look him dead in the eye and say "stop. it's not funny." and trust me it works. but you have to keep a straight face.
if a group of people you walk by give you a dirty look, smile at them. i swear to god. they'll get so confused and they won't bother you anymore. but all these things have to be REALLY direct. and you have to maintain eye contact.
if you don't want to do the things listed above, just hang out with people who respect you for who you are and what you look like. cause that's all that matters. people are mean, lying animals sometimes.
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All I have to say is that what you have just said is a classic problem for a lot of girls. And all it is is Jealousy do NOT let it bother you rememeber; "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" Always remember this. My guess is the girls just want to BE LIKE YOU so just act like you usually do and dont let it fathom you hun xxx
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Unfortunately this type of thing happens all the time. And it usually happens to the most undeserving people. Just because they have big breasts, or a larger butt, or just because they hang out with alot of guys girls will get called a slut.
Try not to let it bother you. Because you, and everyone calling you a slut, knows you really are not. They are probably just jealous of you because of your larger chest and ability to have alot of boy friends!! And if all else fails you can throw a nasty name at them the next time someone calls you a rude name ;)
Good luck, I know it's hard to hear stuff like that day after day. I hope my advice helped out and I hope everything goes well for you!
-Katie
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