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boy likes me & my best friend
there's this boy at my school and he likes me AND my best friend. unfortunately we both like him too. but i have liked him before she has, and she has known i liked him for a really long time. anyway i was invited to a party tomorrow night and my friend wanted to go to so i said i would drive her there. he's going to be there i guess & i just wanted to know, should i talk to him? would it be wrong in front of my friend? i really, really, like him, he's such a sweetheart. i know she is probably going to try to talk to him so should i try first?
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I don't see any harm in striking up a casual conversation with him. Perhaps you could start a conversation with the three of you so she won't be left out.
But really, you and your friend need to have a long talk about this boy. In situations like these, it can really tear apart your friendship. What's important in the end is that you two are still as close as you were before you two even started liking this boy. If you feel he is starting to come between you, talk to her about it. Boys aren't worth risking friendships.
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Talk to your friend (if you didn't already).Don't let a guy get in the way a a great friendship!! If he is really a problem then let her have him!
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Just say hi or hey. If he answers back thats fine. But before you do any of that, talk to your friend. Make sure she is OK with you talking to this boy. It wouldn't be wrong if you just talked to this boy. I mean, you are only talking to him. I talk to people I don't even like. It shouldn't be a problem at all. If your friend is truly a friend she'll accept this decision.
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