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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??
Whats more important paid bills or your boyfriend and dignity... I would never even consider doing that and not just im not that pretty.
Your gunna hear all the same answers
STOP SENDING PICTURES!
Which is as blunt as possible..
Can any of your give me some recommendations of some good books to read? I really like Sarah Dessen but I've read all of hers. I love books like The Lovely Bones, Girl, Bloom, etc. Any that you guys recommend? Preferably not Peaches or any Clique/Private series. Thanks!
Sammy Keyes has got me hooked, and another series is realy good and the begining of the series is Cross My Heart Hope To Spy, and I dont remember the seond one.
I was on birth control like 4 or 5 years ago. i dont remember the side effects and the doctor that put me on them assumed i knew them. my problem is: im having like hot flashes.. randomly. and its not the clothing that i wear. (i wear like .. tshirts in snow) so i dont know if that is a side effect or i should go back to the doctors?
I don't think these hot flashes are a side-effect of the birth control.
I started birth control when I was twelve and my side effects was hardcore moodyness. The doctor told me it was because of the horomones in the pills.
I would call the doctor office or look up what causes hot flashes and see what comes up
=]
ok, so i am a virgin but i think i am ready and so i want to have sex with my boyfriend... the problem is, i dont know much about it, i am scared about the bleeding part, and how much will i bleed. and i am not on the pill but will i get pregnant, even though he wears a condom??
i just need like basic information on sex for the first time, any tips would be great, and apparently its VERY painful, is it??
thank you so much.... any info would be appreciated!
I know that this probably wont help you, but I'm going to say it anyway.
I donno how old you are and It would be helpfull with this kind've questions but Don't have sex.
Don't.Im not trying to scare you, but this guys only your boyfriend.. Maybe you've gone out for 20 years or 1 I donno [[this is where age comes in]] If your able to get married and have gone out for a long time and by the way sex is a commetment its not a one time shot. If this guy isnt into marrying you-- no sex.
Why give him the milk for free when he can buy the cow?
and if your like 15 or underage why are you even thinking about having sex.
Thinking and actually being ready are two VERY diffrent things.
I wouldnt but thats me...
Sorry If I Didn't Help.
i just wanted to open your eyes slightly.
ok so im a tom boy and i say im pretty freakin awsome im 15 and im girl you might of figured that cause you would hope that a boy acted like a boy any way the freakin stupid kids at school are always saying stuff like you should wear make up you are lesbian and shit and stuff i get in fist fights all the time i dont care my theme song is bad reputation one day i got backed up into a wall because of this group of "popular" girls and they were like why are you a tom boy you should act like a girl why dont you wear make up and one girl got out a bag of make up and she was like i put some blush and lip stick and shit on you and you will look great and i punched her and ran and then one time i was invited to a sleep over and a bunch of girls were there and they all were tryin to get me to look nice and shit and i hit a girl and her brother came in a gave me a black eye and one day 2 boys followd me home and when i got to my yard they beet me up and i cralwed through the door coverd in blood and my parents had to call the police i am so tierd of people doing stuff to me and calling me lesbian and making me fuckin mad I AM SO FUCKIN TIERD OF IT HELP ME PLEASE
Go Tom Boys!
I'm 14 and a female-- I wear make up and all that but I wouldn't amke fun of someone who didn't! By how you started tis you sound wicked confident that you rock, so screw 'em! I know that there a big danger with this because there going as far as beating you up, but haven't they noticed you haven't changed your clothing? Tell them to go get a life and stop trying to mess with yours, or get a could hobbies because jeez!
If another mob of girls trys to put makeup on you scream your lungs off! I don't know where your coming from on hat because im my school we don't have bulling. Not as hardcore as that but.. yeahh bullying. Don't get in fights. Im telling you right now I was you. Not the whole tom boy thing but I had a bunch of guys making fun of my weight.So one day this kid said something and I snapped- I know you can't help it it happens so fast and then it's over and you feel something in your stomach that's like wow.. I just did that? Or atleast that happens to me.
Ignore Them
And I realise that in big groups you can't ignore every single one.. I'm fat. Im told im fat everyday so I tell them why are you pointing out the obvious? you think it's funny?? Wow get a life you need one..
But just think your 15-- what 3, 4 more years and the odds of seeing any of them again together is slim to none. Dont worry about what anyone says-love yourself. Yup corny little fortune cookie but still you know you rock who cares if those preppy lil girls want you in make-up tell em to go gunk some more onto there face! Personally I just wear eyeliner and Im not the girliest girl in my class. Just try eyeline i know some pretty hardcore tomboys who just wear it and it's fine.. Im not saying give them what they want. But in the future dont worry about what they say I hear im fat practicly daily- or someone makes a crack at my neck[[which is black]] laugh it off. Tell them that any girl lucky to have you go down on them-- no dont...
Okay this is getting pretty long-- but please I have soo much more I can say with my personal experiences with kicking butt and Im not done
If you have AIM mines gdbj999.
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Lol and if I answered your questions good I was hopeing this like 20 paragraph answer Lol
i want to find a song about friends not being there for you, you know- sort of being let down by them. any genre is cool, just preferably not like HXC metal or rap.
Well From First To Last -
Secretes Dont Make Friends
Kinda emoish and a little Screamish but if u look up the lyrics and just listen to it You'll love it!
LoveHate Hero
Goodbye My Love.
I donno just really good lol
LoveHate Hero
She puts the Ho in homewrecker
Good too.
i just finished my book, and need a new one for my english class. what are some good teenage girl books? i like pretty much all typical drama filled trashy teenage years type books, if you know what i mean. i also like books that deal with music and the whole music lifestyle.. sex, drugs, rock and roll. any titles would be greatly appreciated. thanks!=]
I'd tell you I love you but then I'd have to kill you.
LOVE THAT BOOK!!!
The whole Uglies Series which is 4 books are all great! and i read then in like a weekand there like 400 pages each soo its so easy to get right into.
Perfect is a short story about bilemia.. really good.
Me being me enjoyed Eragon not very teenagE but still realy good.
HARRY POTTER lol me and my fantisy but Romance does play a roll
Hope I helped.
Ok, so the guy i mentioned before, Jim, and i have been getting closer and closer. We talk all the time online, and he calls me, and we text each other all night. I told my best friend that i like him and she got mad at me for a few days, but got over it. About jen, shes still his bff, but shes been getting so jealous about me and jim.
he tells her about us, and shes always like, "Shes desperate, Dont hang out with her" and stuff. Well, i was too afraid to tell jim i like him because he said that he doesnt want a girlfriend until he can drive, i mean its 2 years! so now i have new troubles. What do i do about jen? and how can i get jim wanting a girlfriend?
Sorry its so long, and thanks in advance for listening!
Wow Jen sounds like a good friend huh.. You need to tell him that what she's saying isn't true and that Jens just being a cunt.
And about his girlfriend problem.. if he likes you he deffinetly wont wait 2 years! Tell him, take a deep breath and just say it. I know it seems huge but you never know.
It's kindalike if you take Door One- Wait two years to tell Jim you like him and through those two years indore everything Jen hasto say OR Door Two- Tell him, take a risk and possibly find out he has the same feelings for you and be able to tell Jen off which any girl would want to do =D
Its big I know I like someone and telling him I like him sounds like death, but it's sooo much easier to tell someone to then actually do it. So maybe tell your best friend to tell Jim kinda not flat out say but mention and see what he says. that sounds SO much better!
and if he says he doesnt like you he's def SOL! ans wil be wishing in the near future he'd actually been truthfull ;)
My little neice "Sally" well call her, is turning eigh next staurday. Great! But me and my bff are in charge in planning the activities (its a sleepover) But Sallys being really bossy about everything and she "wants an enterance" and shes entering and dancing to that song 'fabulous' from HSM2. Shes acting like one of those girls on "My Super Sweet Sixteen". She really thinks shes hot stuff. "I want this and that NOW!" Its so crazy and selfish its actually funny. Me and my bff are doing this out of the kindness of our hearts. Any ideas on how to please Sally?
Threaten.. not death but if she's being really demanding and if your doing this out of the kindness of your hearts then tell her she's going to like what you give her.. and if not tuff shit.
okay i live in cleveland ohio and im really sick of not having a job so i saw a freakin mcdonalds sign and it said they were hiring so i just want to work there i guess money is money? i was just wondering how old you have to be and what stuff you need to work there? im 15 right now.
your a minor. Its good you want a job, but most people dont want a minor to watch after.. wait a year or two and then you'd be able to get a job there.
but if they really need the help they might, they did with my brother scott at Dunkin Donuts.. but it helped that we knew the owner
ok..so... theres this boy at my school and i really like him...but theres a problem...were really good friends and its cool like this and all but i want more....last year i liked him to and he thought i only liked him cause he gave me attention..so i was mad at him for a long time and were now really good freinds again and the other day he found out i liked him again some how i have no idea how he found out!! and so im afraid hes going to think something like that again. im so confused i really like him but i dont know what to do can you please help me?
Last Year was Last Year..
Maybe he liked you then but didn't know how to tell you so made up something dumb, to runaway from it.
If he tries it again catch it before it happens.
If you don't want him toknow tell him you don't and who ever told you needs to keep there mouth shut for things they dont know about
And if you do want him to know don't denie it..
be like soo?? Or give him reasons why.. and explain that attention hass nothing to do with it.
Hope I helped
alright ok sorry for one of these "does he like me" questions lol.
alright so i like this guy and he's in one of my classes and lunch.
my friends say he's really quiet;;;which i could totally see...except for when he's in my cultural geography class...he kinda talks a lot.
except see we've never talked before
i have a MAJOR problem talking to guys i like.
i overanalyze EVERYTHING i say and get sooo self-conscious
my friends say he always looks at me & it seems like he likes me even though we;ve never talked lol. i even sometimes catch him staring.
ok so the problem;;what should i do to get my confidence to talk to him or whatever?
thank you :]
Don't worry I lovee this question =D
Okay.
You think he likes you, along with a lot of your friends. So if you concer your fear with talking to guys you like and tell him how you feel and he feels the same.... =) Both would be hapy.
If you never concer your fear and dont tell him how you feel and he feels the same way.. both would be sad!
When your about to talk with him take a deep breath.. not like hyperventilate. In through the nose out through the mouth and walk over with your head held high. Guys love a confident girl. If you have long hair fling it over your shoulder or something cute you can do and tell him.
Just nonchalontly be like "Hey (his name here)I like you and... because your the lucky guy LOL smile with that like a joke. i was wondering if you'd wanna go out out Saturday night?
Make the last part sound shy, but smile sweetly =D
Good luck
does anyone else think it is dumb how girls wear low-cut tops and expect guys NOT to stare? they get offended when they do but theyre the ones that are like trying to get their attention??
Im a girl
I love low-cut shirts.
I let guys look, but it's a lot cuter if they only glace... if another girl complains you need to say if you dont want people looking COVER IT UP!
Im a girl.. even i think that.
but it is cuter when the guy trys to contain himself... it really is lol!
But dont mention it. Dont be all Wow... your hot and be staring to the point were a coment to destory the eart and you wouldnt notice stare. dont even mention shes hot. Girls dont like that wait sorry getting off topic. But you get what im saying.
It is retarted. its like going in for a hug then bitch smaking them.. some girls are like that.
then some like me.... actually sometimes wears under shirt. next time girl thinks to much of herself buy he and under shirt and say
YOU need it =D
hahahha id love to see that!
My friend and I like the same boy. I dont know what to do really. Does anyone have advice for me, because i don't want to hurt her but i really like him. My age is 14 and I am a Female.
well if you have a clear shot at him.. like he likes you back, sit her down and explain it to her before someone else has the chance.
if he's ifyy.. and ur not really sure how he feels wait until ur posstive!No reason ruining a friendship over a guy that never liked u.
NOY SAYING IT WILL
but if it does get her angry explain it more. and dont bring this up ina casual conversation.. maybe cry a little. might help
when i had my period it was black in colour and it lasted for 10 days, worried about it
Well if it was ur first one its understandible.
But if not it might just be your system flushing something out. Id wait for you next period and if it has the same color tell your Mom, or go to the doctors to get it checked out.. just to be on the sure side.
My partner and I want to have sex. I am a virgin, and I was wondering is there way for him to break my hymen without me bleeding?
No, like the other person said, when your a virgin its impossible not to bleed when having sex for the first time.
Okay so I want to know when my true love might come along. Because I've been searching and no guy is right, I always find a flaw in every guy. I want to find that one guy that makes me happy and doesn't turn me off. Not a lot of guys want to go out with me. I don't think it's because I'm ugly. People tell me I'm pretty all the time but it's just I'm 14. So am I too young to have a boyfriend? If so then when is it time???
Personally, because someone has to be told when there ready to date is a sigh that your not ready. Like dating is the next step in growing up and if you have to be told slow down the ageing process at just let things happen. Don't be in such a rush to grow up, because when you are you wish you were a kid again..
Don't go looking for a boyfriend, because you'l always have expectations which most fo the time guys arent perfect. They have something wrong with them and if you go scoating you'll notice it in no time. Just get a bunch of guy friends, to ge used to being near them. just chill and see what happens and I garentee you someone will notice you.
Ohh and the girl you see now dating any guy they can for the sheer point of being able to say "Omg I have a boyfriend!" aren't people you wanna be around or become. The gossip.. and if they can gossip about other people it probably doesn't stop them for talking about you, when your not there.
Hope I helped.
I have a ZIT! and my acne isnt really bad but it will go away a little bit and then it worsens at other times. It sucks! I have tried proactiv and nature's cure and nothing clears my skin! I use toothpaste sometimes but it doesn't always work. I've even been to a dermatologist and it wont clear my skin. It's not really bad but it is noticeable! And school starts next week! How can I clear my skin even a little bit? Any tips help! Thank youu!
I use Noxzema.
I've used it ever since I got my first zit.. and I have baby smooth-skin, and haven't had a zit since. It doesn't dry out my skin and I do it every other night, just incase, but maybe because you actually get zits you might want to use it every night when you like brush your teeth and stuff. I get it at Wal-Mart in a kinda like mediun blue jug. It's like 6.99 and works wonders. I've even gotten my friends using it and my medium size jug last close to 4 weeks. So it worth it. Theres directions on how to use it and I put in on right before I go to bed, and you rinse it off afterward too. I can't live without it and I garentee it will do something for your ACNE problems..
Hope I helped.
Katieee
okay so i don't know i'm like so worried about what i look like and wear. i can't help it so please don't call me stuck up or anything.
but i got like 8 new shirts for school and i have some shirts from last year to wear but like is that okay to wear stuff from before?
and what are some ways i can play up like just regular tee shirts? i just bought all short sleeved tees and i have some plain tanks. the shirts all have somehintg on them. i like wearing the shirts with just jeans. so yeah how can i dress up the tee or make it loook a little different from the way i wore it before.
thanks so much =]
-It is okay to wear stuff fromthe previous year.-
T-shirt and jeans, comfortable, cute and your signature. Well there really isn't much but you could wear like beads that match the colors and stuff. Just like wear sandals, and other excessories that match the T'Shirt.
Hope I Helped!
School starts in a couple weeks but i want to plan my first day back to school outfit soon. I really want to make a good impression but im not sure what to wear. Im pretty preppy. I love matching things together like headbands and stuff. I love looking cute because it just makes me feel better about myself. Im not sure excalty what i should wear. Any suggestions?
Well I kinda knew what I was going to wear when I went actual shopping :D I went to Kohls and bought this skirt and Im wearing a shirt with like 2 under shirts. Im not preppy really so Im not exactly sure, but I've seen preps soo :) Well wear like jeans, or a mini Skirt Like meee with legging. Then whichever color leggings or if there rainbow or something wear and undershirt the same color\colors. And then a cute shirt.
It will show I don't wanna be here, but I am and I'm looking pretty good..
Hope I Helped.