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Am I too young to do this???
Okay so I want to know when my true love might come along. Because I've been searching and no guy is right, I always find a flaw in every guy. I want to find that one guy that makes me happy and doesn't turn me off. Not a lot of guys want to go out with me. I don't think it's because I'm ugly. People tell me I'm pretty all the time but it's just I'm 14. So am I too young to have a boyfriend? If so then when is it time???
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Are you too young to date? Not really.
Are you too young to be looking for something serious? Definitely.
At 14 you are changing. I know you've probably heard it before, but by the time you are 18, you will be a completely different person. By the time youre 22, you will be a completely different person from who you were at 18.
It starts to stretch out from there. But you are changed by the things that happen in your life, and right now someone whom you are compatible with you almost certainly wont be compatible with later.
My parents started dating at 15. They got married at 20.
I can tell you, without a doubt in my mind, that was probably the single greatest mistake they both made in their lives. They got married too young and probably to the wrong people.
I mean, I dont exactly wish I werent born. But purely from a "what was right for them" staindpoint, they should have waited a few more years, and they probably shouldnt have gotten married at all.
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well i dont think your to young..just unsure..since ur only 14 dont worry about your true love just yet..youll know when you find that special person. so for right now dont get to serious..just have a good time. and in the next few years youll realize youll be getting alot more attention from guys..have fun with it..just try and be mature about your actions and dont let people pressure you into doing things your unsure about.
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like alot of 14 year old girls,youre looking for true love.i cant blame you for that because im 14 too and im also looking.
but you have to remember that no one is perfect and every guy has his flaw.if youre looking for the perfect guy,you may never find him.its great to like a guy for all of the good things about him,but you have to learn to accept his imperfections.
in my opinion, youre not too young to have a boyfriend. most people start dating around 12-14. i dont really think it matters what age you are, you just have to be ready to have a boyfriend. you cant really predict when its time,but when its right youll know it.
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Personally, because someone has to be told when there ready to date is a sigh that your not ready. Like dating is the next step in growing up and if you have to be told slow down the ageing process at just let things happen. Don't be in such a rush to grow up, because when you are you wish you were a kid again..
Don't go looking for a boyfriend, because you'l always have expectations which most fo the time guys arent perfect. They have something wrong with them and if you go scoating you'll notice it in no time. Just get a bunch of guy friends, to ge used to being near them. just chill and see what happens and I garentee you someone will notice you.
Ohh and the girl you see now dating any guy they can for the sheer point of being able to say "Omg I have a boyfriend!" aren't people you wanna be around or become. The gossip.. and if they can gossip about other people it probably doesn't stop them for talking about you, when your not there.
Hope I helped.
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