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me & this guy
alright ok sorry for one of these "does he like me" questions lol.
alright so i like this guy and he's in one of my classes and lunch.
my friends say he's really quiet;;;which i could totally see...except for when he's in my cultural geography class...he kinda talks a lot.
except see we've never talked before
i have a MAJOR problem talking to guys i like.
i overanalyze EVERYTHING i say and get sooo self-conscious
my friends say he always looks at me & it seems like he likes me even though we;ve never talked lol. i even sometimes catch him staring.
ok so the problem;;what should i do to get my confidence to talk to him or whatever?
thank you :]
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Okay.
You think he likes you, along with a lot of your friends. So if you concer your fear with talking to guys you like and tell him how you feel and he feels the same.... =) Both would be hapy.
If you never concer your fear and dont tell him how you feel and he feels the same way.. both would be sad!
When your about to talk with him take a deep breath.. not like hyperventilate. In through the nose out through the mouth and walk over with your head held high. Guys love a confident girl. If you have long hair fling it over your shoulder or something cute you can do and tell him.
Just nonchalontly be like "Hey (his name here)I like you and... because your the lucky guy LOL smile with that like a joke. i was wondering if you'd wanna go out out Saturday night?
Make the last part sound shy, but smile sweetly =D
Good luck
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Honestly I think a great way to transition into talking to him is to glance at him and make sure he sees it. So he sees you're interested, too, maybe that'll give him that push to talk to you, first.
I'm currently having that problem too, so I can sympathize. =O
But I figure I really want the guy, so I pay attention to everything he says in case I can get some word in. So like, if he needs a pen or something, lend him one and say he can give it back to you the next day. That way, he HAS to talk to you another time to return it! From there, try conversation, or joke around with it, like, "Oh I completely forgot you had that!" And giggle. Use your charm! Good luck!
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okay lil story time. i liked a guy, couldnt talk to him, so wrote him a note. it is easy to talk to him through one of those. i wrote like 50 notes before he ever got one. so just write it, give it, and it is said and done. hope i helped!
xoxo
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Lol this is quite a common problem. The solution is simply talk to him. Yes, it's much easier said than done. Trust me. I just recently had the same thing happen. It turned out that he really did like me! If you catch him staring, and it happens more than once, that's a clue that he might have feelings for you. Just remember not to seem nervous, or self-consious. Be really confident. Just talk to him. Maybe say something like, Hey, my name is...and then go from there. Once you get into it, it's not as scary as it seems. Good luck hun :] I totally believe in you!
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