about

Hey guys!
Name*Mallory aka *~MALLY~*
From*Cali~!
Status*Taken, by the worlds BEST b/f FRANKIE (MUAH)
Hobbies*I love to shop, and i love n e thing to do with fashion! SO please if thats where you need help im definetly here for ya! I also play golf and cheered~! So im kinda well rounded!

Well i just graduated from high school (and am going to cal poly...GO MUSTANGS!), so i think i could help alot when it comes to drama and friends, because i have been there! I also have the haha Well im really excited to help everyone! SO please ask me all the ?'s ya can k!I know what its like to wanna talk to someone but ya dont know who~!Well enjoy guys! xoxo Hopefully i will be talking to ya soon!

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i need a new sn but i can't think of one...i am a tall girl and i like o play basketball....can anyone give me an idea?

BaSkEtBaLlBaLlA, GirLyBballPlaya, BaSkEtBaLlIz4GrLs, BaSkEtBaLlIZLYFE
Hope those will work! if ya give me more stuff ya like it easier to mix em! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Has anyone out there ever used Herbal Essences dye kit? And if so did you like it and it was easy?

Also is going from like a alburn color to 44 Radiant Ruby a good choice?

um i used the black color and my b/f and it was very easy and turned out great! It hasnt faded at all either!!! xoxo good luck~!
*~MALLY~*

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what are some good ideas for gifts for my boyfriend (of 5 months) birthday?

HmMm... concert tickets for you two, get him a wallet and fill it up with g/c to places like jamba juice, starbucks, blockbuster..etc, clothes, a watch.... I hope that helps xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Hey! im 13 female and about 5`2 and weigh about 125... i was hoping to lose about 5 pounds before school which is September 7, 2004. Can you tell me what i need to do in order to lose the weight? Food and exercises please THANK YOU

PS. Am i overweight?

i dont think ur over weight @ all! HmMm to lose 5 pounds that quickly is going to be kinda hard i think, but u can do it if you put ur mind to it! Excercise wise you need to start running every other day(or as much as possible) I would get a Pilates dvd also! You can feel a difference in toning ur body pretty quickly, if you do it about 3-4 times a week! Or you can look into kickboxing classes, yoga, or piilate classes somewhere! FOr food, you young to go on a diet i think, so just make sure your drinking A LOT of water, and eat healthy ya know! instead of a candy bar grab a fruit, and try and not eat as much bread and carbs! good luck girl! ask me more ?s if ya need mor help! xxoo
*~MALLY~*

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I am starting college in September, seeing I will be meeting a whole bunch of new people and not knowing that many of them. Any ideas of how I can get a lot of friends?

Im going away too for college this year! Im just going to be myself! You have to out going and introduce to yourself to everyone! Try joining clubs and stuff! Sororities are also great ways to meet people! Youll be fine! there are sooo many people there youll meet pleanty of people just like you! xoxo GOOD LUCK and have fun!
*~MALLY~*

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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

OMG for sure! If you have the guts go for it and good luck! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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hey! well i have blonde hair, and about a year ago i got highlights just to make my hair color a little bit lighter, and i got them redone about 4 months ago. but now my hair is growing in darker, so its a light brown, and my roots look really bad cuz there is like a line where my hair goes from blonde to brown. well i dont know if i should just get more blonde highlights, or if i should get low lights(brown hightlights) so that it blends better. plx help! thanx

I would say do what ya want! Obviosuly the brown would be easier to keep up if you dont wanna get your hair done every 4-6 weeks ya know! But im sure if you to your hair stylist they will tell you which one will look better~! GoOd LuCK!
ps...y dont u do both! and highlights and low llights~!
xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow.

If i were you i would cut it! I think change is very refreshing! and its JUST hair! haha i promise it grows back~! But its fun to change it up a bit! xoxo good luck
*~MALLY~*

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how do you become a moderator? for levels 1,2, and 3?

this page explains it all...
http://advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=faq

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Anyone know where I can sign up for good and free webpages?

WEll it matters what ya wanna do! i know geocities.com is free web pages, but if you want like a journal type use xanga.com or livejournals.com GOod luck! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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My brother and father are moving down to North Carolina. They are leaving my mother and me here in New Hampshire. I'm going to college in NH and I'm living there. My boyfriend is going there too. My father and brother are going to build a house for my family to live in. They are expecting it to be before Christmas. I don't want to move at all cuz I don't want to leave the college I'll be going to, my friends, or my boyfriend. I'm 18 years old too. I don't have the money to have my own apartment or anything along those lines and I can see myself marrying my boyfriend. I don't think if my family moved to NC that I would be able to be away from them for that long. Please help what should I do?

HmMm well i think you should talk to your parents about it, if you already havent, ya know! also there are sooo many scholorships and student aid things out there for you to apply for that will pay for college! THe student aid youll have to pay back later in life but at least it will get you through! About living, dont they have dorms on campus???? Im going to be in a dorm this year and am WAY excited to meet sooo many new people!!!! WEll good luck n i hope it all works out but talk to ur parents! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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what would be a good healthy lunch for me to eat while i'm at home?? i'm trying to lose some weight and keep healthy. thanks so much!!

a salad would be the best way to go...if your going to have a sandwhich make sure its on like a whole grain or wheat type bread with not a lot of stuff! thats where the calories are added! If ya tell me what you like i could find ya recipies xoxo GoOd lUcK!
*~MALLY~*

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i'm going to be a freshman, and just got my braces off, and my teeth are kinda yellow. i heard that some of the teeth-whitening products don't really work & are too expensive. what should i do?! i can't go to highschool looking like this! please help!

Just go out and buy the crst white strips they really do work! But you have to do them for 7-14 days! What i did that worked and was a quick fix was use Rembrent 2 hour whitning kit! You can get it at your longs or whatever drug store you have! They both work! Also use a whitning toothpaste! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean??

haha my eye ALWAYS does this...ok there are a few reasons one is you have too much caffinne, or you are not getting enough nutrients like vitamin wise!~! so either cut back a lil on the sodas, and make sure your having all the vitamins you should be taking! xoxo good luck!
*~MALLY~*

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

I guess it matter is you REALLY care what everyone thinks about you....If you have feelings for him, then why not go on a few dates with him, if your friends make fun of you or give you a hard time, first you need to consider if thats the kind of people you want to be friends with, they shouldnt judge you like that and second do u want to be with people that shallow, and become shallow YOURSELF because you wont date someone that is the same status as you.....Good luck! I would say go for it! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.

There are pills you can by at a drug store that are meant for those sort of things...they are by like all the tylonal and stuff, i dont know the name but its for boat sickness and everything! Good luck and have a great time in VeGaS! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!!

When you are working on a movie they have an on set teacher that makes sure you do all your school work! Your only aloud to work a certain # of hours a day, and you have to be tutored a certain # of hours a day...if u are a child star you should know that~! My sis was in things and they had to do that! good luck xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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does anyone know how to make a skirt out of an old pair of jeans???

http://www.makingfriends.com/jean_skirt.htm
THat web site tells u step by step, annd here is another one....

take our the stiching around the bottom of the waistband, and detach it from the rest of the pants. then i cut off the legs from the crotch, and shortened them to around the length i wanted. then, i took out the stiching in the seams that did not have the stiching showing(for visual purposes) i sewed these endges together, adding a bit mor denim in between, but i sewed these on the outside, so that down the side of the jeans is a frayed fringe.then, just sew the waistband back on, belt loops and all. you may also want to add a zipper, because it's to hard to get on.
i also found the cooles thing at fabricland, Denim thread! it's a special gold coloured, heavy duty, thread that looks like the kind they use a lot on jeans now.

Hope that helped! Good luck~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???

average people liker......

Wow well it seems to me your friends are shallow! Tell them that its not their choice who YOU go out with! Tell them that you go for a personality and someone who cares for you over just a hot guy! Im pretty sure they will understand and if they dont maybe you should re-evaluate why they are good feinds to you girl~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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ok im 16 and i was best friends with this girl and it always seemed like she liked every guy i liked.. i really liked this kid and of course she liked him too and he liked me but he didnt think i liked him so he asked her out instead.. she started to ignore all her friends for him and now she has no one but him practically... they have been dating for almost 8 months and he isnt "allowed" to hang out with any other girls because she will get mad but lately he has been hanging out with me again behind her back and he says he likes me and he always talks about "us" (me and him) and when he breaks up with his girlfriend how he wants to be with me.. i like him but i dont know what i should do because i think that it looks really bad on my part... if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or no? whoever he picks- me or her someone will get hurt in the end.. so i just dont know what to do.. please help sorry its so long and confusing

Ok, this is definetly a sticky situation! You just have to weigh How important your friend is, compared to a boy! Now the boy, to me, doesnt seem like someoone you should be intrested in! He is already going behind his g/fs back for u, and who is to say IF you got with him he wouldnt do the SAME thing with another girl ya know... Iwould say that you shouldnt go out with him, because that would break your friends heart even more! Even though she hasnt been around lately maybe give her a second chance...its up to you because i dont know how much you value yours and this girls friendship, but if its important to you at all, i wouldnt go out with him because it could ruin you two! Good luck sweetie! And im sure youll make the right choice! xoxo
*!MALLY~*

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