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ok,i have a friend,call her terry.well,this may be confusing,but anyways... My friend terry,a girl,is friends with a boy.We'll call him bob.Bob likes me,and terry is telling me to go out with him.Shes saying how hot he is,but i've never seen him.[[only in a picture,and hes seen me only in a picture]]. Well,im not the pretty girl type,im fine with that, but...danm this dude must be desprate!! His whole pro on aim is all about me...were not even together.Hes 16 and im 13 1/2.I dont know what to do in this situation.Can anyone please help me?
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dont worry,it wasn't long lol. i think you should go out with him and see how it works out. make him happy and go out wit him!
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Okay so ive got this problem. theres this guyi think i like now. hes a freshman and im a sophmore. i met him like a month ago but we never really talked til just recently. but its not like talking on the phone or anything, its thruogh text messages. he came and sat with me at lunch otday but didnt really say anthing bc hes really shy. he supposidly drinks a lot and has done a lot with girls, except i find it kinda hard to belive, bc hes so shy! i think im really stratin to like him, but idk if its the person through the texts i like, or him, i mena theyre the same person, but he just acts different. well i think im really startng to fall for him. like i like him a lot, do you think i shuld tell him i like him and hope for the best or should i sit it out until he strats talking to me in person? thanks... i rate! (link)
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i think next time you tex you should ask him y hes shy around you. if he starts to show he likes you a little then you should go for it. but if he doesnt show it i think you shouldnt tell him cause then he'll really be shy around you. i hope i helped and i hope things work out for you!
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ok... my best friends and i were sitting at lunch and we had to move because other ppl were sitting there. so when sarah got her lunch she went and sat at her old table. so i said " hey, sarah why aren't you sitting by us? she said in a attitude idk i just don't want to sit by you guys. so i assumed maybe she was mad at one of us . i said SORRY I ASKED! she said what did i do wrong .? i was so mad right then! so i turned around and started talking to my other friends. then in an attitude she said don't flip your hair at me! i was about to scream. ! i was so confuused and mad. is she mad or not? Please help
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i dont think she's mad but you should ask her and make sure everythin is alrite.
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how do i talk to a girl that i dont know and i wanna get to know her but im a bit shy? (link)
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start to hang around the person more and talk to her friends. and if your not close friends with the person's friend just try to talk to her. i hoped i helped!
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I am a guy who has liked the same girl for a very very long time. We used to be real close, but then she found out that I liked her and things got weird between us. She would never talk to me, ignore me, that kinda thing. So I made up a lie, I posted on my xanga that I didnt like her anymore although I think she still suspects. Anyway, we've been getting along ALOT better ever since I said that. Should I just go ahead and come out? If I do come out, should I ask her out? (link)
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I think thats cute!! yea u should come out and tell her. and tell her that you dont wanna lose her friendship like you almost did the last time she found. see how it goes for like a week and see if she kinda likes you mare than a friend. you shouldn't hesitate to tell. I hope it works out and i hope i helped!
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I have many friends that live in Belleville, Illinois. They all miss me when I am in St. Louis, Missouri. I go to Belleville with my best friends father and all of us are really close. I go there maybe 1 to 2 days every week. Maybe every other week. Should I leave my friendships behind over in Belleville? I hate missing them so much and I have went out with a couple of them. And of course I still have major feelings for a few of them. I want to forget the past and go on with the future. Hard part is that I dont know if I want all of them in my future.Can you help? (link)
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you shouldnt try to 4 get bout the futeur. dats one of the best times you will have in your life espelly if you went out wit sum of them and made friends there. even though you miss them a lot you shouldnt push them aside. i'm sure you are lucky 2 have them like they are lucky to have you. i hope i helped!
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ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing??? (link)
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dont worry you did the rite thing. he's being immature and you should have told him. but may be things will get better soon. i hope i helped!
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Hi.
Well, my friends have all fallen out and I'm finding it really difficult to not take sides. Friend A said something nasty about friend B and friend C took friend B's side. This means that A is mad at C because she didn't take her side.
However, the nasty thing that A said was, in my opinion justified...
No-one is A's friend and I try and stick up for her because I don't think it's fair that B and C just slag her off behind her back all the time, but that makes them hate me. I want to take A's side even more when they do that. Plus friend B is SO annoying and is always doing weird stuff like humping us (seriously...everyone thinks we're lesbians or something) and messing up our hair and all this crap. So I should take friend A's side, right? Wrong. Friend A has said some really mean stuff over the years, none directed at me but I can't deny that it makes me wonder what she's thinking about ME. All their arguing is driving me crazy and I have to do something, and I don't want to take sides but it feels like I'm being forced to - B and C are horrible to me every time I talk to A. What can I do? (link)
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you could try 2 make all your friends together again. all of u should sit down and talk bout all da negative things about each other that ya dont like and work it out. but if you dont really like what they are doing tell them an d tell if they dont stop fghting your not gonna be friends with them no more.i hope i helped!
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On Wednesday in school I asked my friend if she wanted to go to the movies afterschool on Thursday. She said she'd go home and ask her mom, yada yada. Well, on Thursday she didn't know if she could go for sure, so she told me to call her when I got home. When I got home, I called her and she couldn't go because she said 'her mom was going to a party'. Well, later that night..thanks to her other friends away messages, I found out she was at her other friends house. I know for a fact this girl invited her over that very day, and I had invited her on wednesday. Wtf is her problem? Should I confront her about it, or what..cause that just pisses me off. And, she's ALWAYS doing stuff with this girl, she has no freaking time for anyone else. (link)
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you could tell her how you feel. and tell her that if she's really your friend she will have time 4 u 2 and wouldn't lie 2 her. if she countines 2 lie 2 u and ignore you i dont think she's really your friend. another thing you could do is ignore her 4 about a week or 2 and see if she cares. if she notices tell her that's how she makes you feel (mad). and if she doesn't notice then she isn't your friend. i hope i helped!
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well whenever this kid i like, matt, stands near me or walks by i always feel like i have to be talking to one of my friends. what does this mean? (link)
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2 me itmeans you dont feel comfortable aroud him yet. hoped i helped!
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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges? (link)
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tell your self if you really want 2 b a cheerleader you will show what you got and not mess up. or you could practice and practice in front of your family or friends until your sure you could do it in front of the judges
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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz? (link)
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FIRST:dont look on the negative side of things always look on the positive side
SECOND:have some hope! pray...if your christen
THIRD: have a lot of people in your school sign a card
i really hope i helped. and i hope
he feels better!
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well i have this teacher he is realy mean and yells at me when im not even talkin wat should i do (link)
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you xould ignor it and countine to do your work and pretend you donrt care. hoped i helped!
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im boring how can i make myself seem or be more fun? (link)
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you could try to let lose once in a wild or do sum thin dat your friends think you would never do but they'll do(but don't go overbord lol) hoped i helped!
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When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it? (link)
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you should sit him down and tell him when he tries 2 go "2 far". tell him ur not resdy but you really like him it's just dat your not ready. i hope i helped!
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well i have this boyfriend and he is so nice and he likes me a lot but this girl natalie she is one of my really good friends i think she likes him a lot bcuz my boyfriend jacob always hangs out with her and she always calls with jacob on the line sometimes i wanna talk to jacob by myself ya kno and she has to tag along while we talk and things its like he is mine not yours!!!! (link)
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hey! i'm glad you came 2 me! lol. i think you should tell your friend that you wanna spent time with YOUR bf sometimes. tell her how you feeel. if she's your friend she'll understand. let me know how it goes!
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My 'friend' is ruining my life!!!!!!! She talks crap on me and ALL of my other good friends all the time! She spreads rumors that arent true! She is a SLUT and she is pround of it! You just can't stop her she is like this bug you just can't kill and I don't know what to do! What can I do to make her stop doing this?!?! She has new friends now, and I know she is going to ruin their lives as well. I dont want them going through the pain I went through because of her. THey say they don't like her at all, but they still are nice to her and hang around her. I know if they keep making her think that they are freinds that she will go around and screw them over jsut like she did to me and my other good friend. What can I say/do to make it stop before it happens? Thanks! I RATE HIGH! :) (link)
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sounds 2 me that she isn't your friend. it sounds like she's using. maybe you can get ALL her friends to stop talking 2 her 4 like a weeek. then the next week get all her friends together and let them tell her why they aren't talking to her. or make her feel the way she made you feel. i hope i helped!
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My boyfriend, Linds, and I have been together for about a year and half. Well, I still like him and want to be with him. But, there's a problem. There's a guy in my Physics class that I tend to flirt with ALOT and he flirts back. I know that I don't like this guy; I'm just extremely attracted to his looks. He's not a bad guy or anything, he's actually pretty sweet and nice but Linds is so much more than that (hott too! :D). I always tell myself that I'm not going to flirt with him before class but of course I do.
Well, this past weekend, we were at the same party that Linds wasn't at and we almost kissed. I stopped myself and I'm glad I did. I don't know how to stop this and I don't want to ruin such a good thing with Linds. I have no idea what to do. I try to stay away from him but it never works. Any help with this situation is really appreciated, thanks.
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if you no you really like lindS YOU WOULD TRY 2 CONVINCE YOURSELF THAT you shouldn't flrt with the other guy. i no it's hard but you gotta try and if you can't do it tell yourself your not cheatin that it's just playin or havin fun. i hope i helped!
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okay well my schools formal was the other night, and i have a problem. well i hang out with my brother and his 2 friends. well im going out with the one, and when he thought i didnt like him before we started going out, he said yes to the formal to this girl who asked him. so it ended up that i had to go with the other friend. and while we were there we won the prince and princess thing, and i ended up saying all this stuff to him how it was his night with me but i wasnt going out with him, i was going out with the other kid, and even though were all good, i think hes still mad at me. (link)
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ask him if he's still mad at u. but 2 me you should be mad at him cause he said yes to ANOTHER girl while ya were going out. hope i helped!
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My friend JD and I just got into n argument the other day. We have been doing that a lot lately. He has been coming to me and a couple of my friends with his problems, and we have told him what we feel what he should do, but when we go up to him with problems, he he just says sorry, i hope you feel better.He is there for us, but that didnt feel good enough. Well, ever since Ive started to like his brother, he hasnt been supporting me. They get along sometims, but they pretty much hate each other, and he says that if I go out with him, Ill ruin my life. I have supported him with pretty much everything that hes done except for once that can remember. I dont know what to do, and he has been too good of a friend to get rid of, or so I thought, I guess. I just want ot know how I should deal with us hardly not talking anymore and not worry about it because of my other friends. But if I go out with his brother, its going to be hard to avoid him and shit. But thats not the whole story, thats just where its the problem between me and him and a couple of other people. If anyone wants to know the full story, drop it by me in my inbox. Thanx! I rate good. (link)
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you could tell me the whole story. but dis is wat i think: you should tell him dat he hasn't been a good friend lately. and tell him dat if he is your friend he will support u likin he's brother. i hope i helped!
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