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My name is Kacie and I'm 16 years old. It's always good to get another person's opinion on your problems and maybe an outsider will have more insight on the situation! Hope I can help you out.
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Hey Hey You guyZ- well i have a really high metabolism- and after every meal i eat even if its a big meal i feel hungry again- i eat alot even all my friends say i do- im 5"5 and weight 103- any suggestions on gaining weight? or will i gain weight as i get older and my metabolism slows down. Ive tried protein shakes but they didnt work-:/
Don't worry about it. If you are healthy that is all that matters. Work out & eat right and make sure you feel good about yourself and it shouldn't matter if you are smaller than other people. **Kacie**
Hey, I was just wondering if you have ever used the lemon juice method to make your freackles lighter. I don't want it to completely go away but I just want it to be lighter. Thanks
Well i've heard mixed messages about wether or not it actually works but some people say it does so I guess it depends on the person. Try rubbing the lemon juice on with your fingers but don't even attempt it if you have sensitive skin. Try it and see if it works for you.
**also**
Increase your Vitamin C intake! It makes your skin less sensitive to the sun.
**Kacie** lemme know if you have any more questions!
Hello, over the summer a few of my freckles got REALLY dark on my face, and I don't like the way it looks. I heard that lemon juice works... is it true? How much would I put on? And how often?
I don't think they will go away completely but you can lighten them. I hear that you can rub them with a fresh cut eggplant .. but since i doubt that most people would have that i also have heard that you can use cucumber skins to rub on them! The more sugar that you eat, the darker your freckles will be .. so cut out alot of the sugar in your diet and it should help out alot. ** Kacie **
Anyone know how to get your face any thinner? Kind of a dumb question but are there any excercises to thin out the face? Thanks!
You can make it appear your face is thinner by adding height at the roots. Ask your stylist to add texturizing or layers around your crown area to add height. If your hair is naturally thin or fine use a volume enhancing shampoo to add fullness. Add a root lift solution or volumizing gel to the roots and use a brush to lift while you blow dry. Remember to direct the airflow from the ends to the roots for even more volume.
**also**
Add slenderizing vertical lines to your hair through well placed highlights or lowlights.
MAKEUP
Buy two shades of blush, one of a deeper shade and one that's lighter. Apply the lighter shade of blush in circular motions onto the apples of your cheeks. THen, following the line of your cheekbones, apply the deeper shade of blush.
Hope that helped, if you have any more questions, just ask me. :) **Kacie**
Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks!
It pretty much has to come naturally but not neccessarily. I used to hate dancing because I would feel so dumb doing it but when you look around everyone else looks the same as you they just aren't as worried about it! Watch your friends dancing and copy them. Or even a stranger .. just someone around you. It really isnt as hard as you make it out to be in your head, but if you never feel comfortable doing it don't worry about it there's plenty of other things to do than go dancing. And dances can be fun even without dancing! **Kacie**
me and my ex boyfriend were one of those couples where we were exact opposites. he was kind of "Wigger-ish" and i was moare "Skater". he would even call me a skater .. and then he'd say how much he hates them. it always affended me so he would add "Except for you" but it didnt make much of a difference. when he found out my favorite color was orange, he got all weird like "Holy fuck, you're only supposed to like black". who the hell tells their girlfriend, let alone anyone .. what colors they can like? it really pissed me off, and we broke up later that night for other reasons, and he just moved here over the summer (thats how i met him). now hes going to my school where no one knows him, and he's going to be in most of my classes. i really liked him even though we were different. and im shy around guys so i probably wont talk to him. what should i do if i want to be with him again, but keep him from treating me like shit?
That really sounds like the kind of teasing that he wouldn't notice that you were upset by it. Like he probably thought he was just joking around, you know? So if you want to get back with him the 'treating you like shit' is probably going to continue because I think that's his personality, that kind of joking. Either get along with it, tell him how you feel about it, or forget him as a dating possibility. **Kacie**
i really like this one guy but hes going out with a girl... and it seems like this guy likes me and he calls me almost everynight and when were together he always wants to like make out and things liek that but then if he liked me why would he be going out with his grilfriend? so i don't know what to do anymore just go with the flow or try and work things out and just be friends with this guy...
Well I don't think you should even want a relationship with him because when he wants to make out with you he is cheating on his current girlfriend and what is to say he wouldn't do the same to you. But yeah I would suggest NOT going with the flow because that is not right for any of the people involved. Either just be friends or distance yourself from him! **Kacie**
hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)
Girls: Abby, Alexis, Ariel, Celeste, Ella, Lana, Lita, Morgan, Reese
Boys: Addison, Blaine, Kyle, Lee, Mason, Quintin, Royce
This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?
There is no best age. THe best age is when you are mature enough to handle the outcome if anything should happen. Think about the possible situations and if you would be able to handle them. Also the best age is when you feel secure in your decision to have sex. If you have any doubts than you aren't ready! **Kacie**
do guys prefer blondes or brunettes?
Depends on the guy. Do you prefer blondes or brunettes in guys? Same thing .. varies by person. Sterotypically it's blondes though.
I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated!
That area tends to leave razor burn but a guy's razor works much better. Try it. **Kacie**
Can anyone either explain (or refer me to a website) which explains the theory and logic beinh the HTML hex code color names?
I know that is has something to do with shade, saturation, hue... something like that. I looked for something online but couldn't find anything.
I don't want a listing of all the colors and their codes.
http://www.ludd.luth.se/users/vk/docs/about_colours.HTML
Let me know if that answers your question! **kacie**
hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it
REgardless of wether or not she's okay with it ... she SAID she was. So if it messes stuff up later or she brings it back up you always have that ammunition. And when that comes around, which it might .. tell her that you took what she said to heart and you thought she was being honest with you but if you had even once thought she wasn't okay you wouldn't have done it and you're really sorry she feels that way.
You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.
Don't they have medicine for that? Like the ones you would take when going on a boat ride. Look into it. Motion sickness medicine or something. **Kacie**
What does it mean when u wake up and find clear gel stuff on ur underwear (im a girl)
It doesn't neccessarily mean that you're gonna get your period. It happsens all the time. It's natural. **Kacie**
What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out!
Dress the same way as them ... get into the same activities. Try to find someone in a class of yours or something that has one 'popular' person in it maybe .. who has no one else to talk to. And be that person they can talk to so that way you have an 'in'. Ummm can't really think of anything else off the top of my head.
**Kacie**
Popularity isn't everything!
At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee
Talk to them! If you prove that you are a nice girl than people will want to get to know you. So just start out with conversation and pretty soon you'll be making tons of friends. **Kacie**
Brad: u goin to the BBQ
me: oo yeah u??
Brad: i might have to make an appearance
Me: how r u getting 2 the bbq
Brad: miself - most likely
Brad: i can ask madre if i can drive you .. if you would like- im not suppose to drive but she knows i cheat
Brad: just let me know if you need a ride
Me: yea so wuts been goin on in the life of brad lately...??
Brad: busy busy little booy
Brad: :-P
Me: eww put that tongue inside ur mouth
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Me: nasty
Me: nasty
Brad: SHUt it
Flirtin or Talkin?? Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend??
I'd have to say it could go either way because guys pretty much flirt, all the time. But yeah it was definitely flirting! **Kacie**
ok i met this guy online and said i was 15..that was 2 yrs ago and now im "17" im really only 14 goin on 15!!! well this guy is really amazing hes sent me pix of him n salutes saying he real....we talk on the fone and everything...i told him a diff name...diff age...and sent him fake pix...he thinks its me..and hes coming out to where i live in 2 yrs for his senior trip...he sed hes told him mom about me and wants to bring me back where he lives!! i wish i was erally who i said i was bc i want him!! he even told me he loves me and thers no other gur like me!! hes totally in love with me and wev been talkin for 2 yrs now!!!!!!!! WAT DO I DO?? do i jst delete my fake screen name and everything...i cant tell him!! he mite call me and that wuld freak me out bc hed b really angry...he picked to come out to see me for his senior tip in stead of goin to the bahamas and im not even real!!!! WAT DO I DO?? =\
You could just delete it and don't talk to him anymore ... or you could tell him you don't feel comfortable meeting and you want it to continue to be an online only type of thing. **Kacie**
i don't have a father figure in my life. my dad is a jerk..he tried like almost killing me before..and i don't see my step-dad as a father! do i need a father figure in my life? please help! i rate high!
You don't neccessarily need a father figure. I'm assuming you have a mother and that should be a suitable parent in your life. Also you can look to other people you trust with things you need help with. Maybe a relative or a friend or something. **Kacie**