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Q: There is a guy who i really like and he is so cute. I talk to him a lot and he like me back but when i try to like hold his and and stuff. He also never makes any attempt to like hook up with me but i know he wants to becasue my friend found out. How should i deal with this? (f/15)
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just wait and see if he asks. maybe he isant asking because he doesnt want to ruin wat you guys have as friend. maybe he wants to be friends with benifits? that is what he prob wants. if you want try asking him if he wants to go out with you and see if he wants to and maybe you guys will be good to each othe. hope i helped
~jonelle *rate me
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Q: i still like my ex boyfriend..how can i get over him and move on?
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go out and find other people you are interested in and see if they like you too. it is hard to move on when you really like someone. i am having the same problem but i think i found someone else i like but now i just need to see if they like me and if they dont keep trying. i hope i helped.
Rate me* ~jonelle
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Q: my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo
SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME??
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tell her to shut up. tell her it annoys you and tell her you dont care. i no this is mean advice but that is what i would of done.
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Q: okay i really really really really still love my x but hes a major playa we went out twice and both times it didn't work out but we still talk alot online and stuff but its not the same. i still like him alot but i try to make it sound like i don't care everytime his name comes up in a convo wit me and my friends but i really do care and i really do have feelings for him still! and i knoe that i can have almost n e guy i want i mean a lot of guys like me so y do i want him soo much???
please help me out asap!!
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all i was saying is that you are like oh yea i can get ne guy i want but sry i wasnt trying to make you look or feal stupid
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Q: My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
Signed,
Fed Up
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you need to tell her so sje knows waht is going on ebacsue some how it is going to turn out that you did have phone sex with him when you didnt. explain to her you dont like this kid he likes you and he is acting very wierd about it. just dont let him get into your friendship and change everything around. just ignore him and stay away from him and hopefully you will be ok.
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Q: okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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listen. if you say he is a player than all he prob wants from you is sex cuz he knows you like him and he thinks you will be ready and willing. you should wait untill you feal comfortable because you shoukldnt do it so a guy will like you. ask him if you could wait untill you feal right and if he says no now then just dont do it unless you feal ready but sisnce your 13 i recomend you dont because since he prob had sex with other girls then you could get a sex related desies such as AIDS ot STDS.
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Q: my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do?
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you should tell her that it bothers you and you want it to stop. Tell her you want your friend s to be honest to her and you don't like when she lies to you or anyone else. and if she doesnt stop then the best thing to do is find another friend because noone wants a friend who lies to you. but hey thats just my advice
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Q: i feel like when im playing sports i have certain expectations to look up to cuz my sisters are all awesome at soccer and basketball and then there me and i think im not that good. but all my friends disagree. idk...wut do i do?
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just do somthing you like and something you are good at. you dont have to be like them in sports. just do things that you like not the things they are good at.
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Q: okay..my friend.she gets treated soo bad..and her boyfriend just dumped her and seh cried for like a whole day..and other people..there so mean to her..and im just bout sick of it..i hate seeing her like this, and now..sehs saying that seh cuts herself..and seh does all this stuff..and ive tried talking to her..she just says that everythings messed up and will never be the same..she just does all of this over a boy that doesnt like her..ive talked to her plenty of times..i just dont kno what to say to her anymore..what should i do?
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try finding someone better for. try finding someone who will treat her right. she shouldn't be doing that ot her self over someboy. i was going out with this guy 4 almost 4 months and then he deciedes he doesn;t want a girlfriend. i was depressed for like 2 days. it sucks but the i reailzed how much a a jerk he waas and moved on and you need to show her that she doesnt need someone who treats her like crap. and for everyone else who is making her life suck try to show her the good side of things like how you are a good friend to her and show her all the plus sides to her life. and for the cutting.... inflicting pain on yourself does not make anything better it just hurts you and leaves scars of all the things that make your life stink so when you look at them you will remember how your life is. hope i helped
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Q: My and my friends are setting eachother on a blind date but do u know where the best places to go would be.......?Remember were only 13 LOL
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that sounds interesting. try going to the movies or to a icecreme place or if there is a party coming um somewhere make them go there
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Q: i have a problem with trusting my friends. i know it sounds weird but its tru. i mean like i know i can trust them sometimes but then they have times when they are so hyper they tell everyone everything about me and wut i have told them. wut do i do? i dont think i should trust them anymore but i want to.
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i just had this problem a little bit ago. i can't trust my friends even if i i tried. i can't be trusted much to my friends either but when they really need me i can be there for them. Since you can't trust your friends, try getting a penpal and tell them the stuff you wanna tell your friends or try a diary and write down everything you need to get out and say. that is what i used to do.
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Q: okay...me and my friend are addicted to stealing. when ever we go somewhere like to the gas station or clothes we steal. we always steal candy and we steal undies. we try to stop and we just cant it is hard. and it is uncontrolable! what should we do?
theives
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maybe you should think about what is going to happen to you. My friend got caught by her mom and he mom was so mad and hopefully her mom will forgive her!
peace jonelle *rate me
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Q: I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..?
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been there. you may think that but you never no so take a chance and ask him and see what he says. and if he doesn't like you i that way then try to be friends with him and maybe as he gets to know you he will like you, if this doesn;t work then try to find someone else you like and if there isant one other person.. keep trying. adventually he should start to like you.
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Q: I have been really stressed out.....and i get jealous when im Ex-Girlfriend talks or hangs out with guys but then i am starting to like this other girl but i still really like my Ex-Girlfriend! What should i do??????????
P.S. i am 14 years old and a male
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i am right where you are. Except i am a girl. listen... the best thing to do is just stay good friends with your ex and just go tot the other girl you like. That is what i did and i still like my ex but going on to other people helps me take my mind off of them.
the jonelle ~rate meah!
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Q: I HATE MYSELF AND WANT TO DIE UNLESS SOMEONE CAN SHOW ME Y I SHOULD LIVE! HELP ME PLEASE.
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i feal the same way tell me wut makes ur life suck
~hope i helped~
`~*~jonelle~*~
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yeah!
~hope i helped~
~*~jonelle~*~
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Q: Hi, my name is Genna. I'm 14/f. Well...I gotta boyfriend that I've been going out for about 7 months now with my boyfriend Tommy. And well...I think I like this other guy David because me and him have been bestfriends for about two years and i have felt the same way about him for 2 years! And I know my feelings for him arent gonna change. And I honestly feel that me and tom are better off as best friends. And if I tell him i wanna break up with him he'd be heart broken. And I kinda know that David feels the same way about me because he told me that he would of asked me out if i wasnt going out wit Tommy, and if he wasnt going out with Amber. Its so confusing and I always think about David more then Tommy!
Please write back ASAP!
Signed...Confuses
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ok i am in the same situation. sorta but talk to david and see if he likes you more than amber and then if he does ask him if he still wants to go out with you and then tell him that you like him and you wanna no if he likes you the same way and if you break up with tommy ask him if you wont be making a mistake because you like him and then call tommy and tell him that you just want to be good friens and if he asks tell him why and if yu dont wanna be a "hoe" then wait like a weeek and then go out with david.
~hope i helped~
*~*jonelle~*~
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P>S> write back and tell me what happened if you went with my advice!
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Q: im 137 pounds and 5foot 3 inches. and im going into 8th grade. am i fat? I play sports softball, volley ball, and soccer. my dad tells me im supposed to be like that cuz i play all these sports. but theres other girls that play that sports and that are good and there small as a tooth pick! I try to do sit ups and crunches but i dunno how many i should do in a day and how long it'll take cuz I really wanna be thin
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you are not fat you just gotta a lil baby fat left on ya! and as you get older it will come off. just keep playin sports because then you will be in good shape and if you feal fat watch ut for carbs and calories that is what makes you fat. my sister thinks she fat so she went out and got tapes and stuff so she can stay (fit) try it get a couple movies on exersize and stuff.
~hope i helped~
*~*jonelle~*~
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Q: i think my cat is mentally retarded!! is that possible?? i need to take her to a vet! oh yeah, can animals get aids?
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they arent crazy they just smoke to much can tip and they cant get aids!!!
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Q: what is fingering? and how can i do it?
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it is when a guy takes like 2 fingers and inserts in to the vagina and you can have it done to you or you can do it to someone.
~hope i helped~
~*~jonelle~*~
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~ScReAmIn It: jonelle
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Illinois Occupation: Student Age: 15 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: June 30, 2004 Answers: 86 Last Update: June 16, 2006 Visitors: 7573
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