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Ok, heres the deal.

Almost a year ago two months from now I met a girl on the net over an MMO. She's young like me, 17, and has a very addicting personality. We became friends quickly, and we talk about alot of things together, and swap alot of pictures from good times we've had with friends, family, etc. I found her to be attracting, but foudn it strange too. I've not met her in RL at all, because she lives states away... but the most freaky thing is that we're going to that state this summer break, very close to her area..

So, what if, when I meet her, I /do/ like her? My parents know that we'll be meeting, and they don't have any negative feelings about it. What should I do, try to let her know and then maybe during or after college make a move?

follow your heart, that's all i can say!

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every1- i have a huggeeeee prob with my school dress code. for gradutiation and confirmation were expected to dress up. as for the dress, it has to cover shoulders! ive looked EVERYWHERE for a semi-formal dress with some kind of sleeves...plz tell me where to find one! 14/8th grade/f

find the perfect dress whether or not it has sleeves, and then put a shawl over it!

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ok. So I met this girl on the internet, shes really nice, my age, lives near me etc.. but just a little while ago, I rang her up.. and she sounded like a guy.. I mean, I'm not shallow or anything, but it kinda just freaks me out, And now I don't know what to do.. should I give her a chance, or not bother?

BTW I have another girl I aslo likes.. she is also really nice, 15, fun, and yeah...

signed, Confused 17/m

never try an imternet relationship unless you're kip dynamite!

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Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.

~Nokomis~

Try to do things with him, and then after a few tiems tell him that you are interested in being more than friends. i'm sure he'll see it the same way!
~mandy

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I've got shoulderlength fine brown hair. I was stupid and my round bristle brush got rolled up in it and i can't get it out. How do i get it out

PLEASE HELP ME!! I rate 5's to EVERYONE who gives me a CONSTRUCTIVE answer ON SUBJECT!!

slowly pull out your hair from the brush. whichever way you turned it, turn it the other way.

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Hey! some of you might know already that i am making a power point thing full of memories for my boyfriend. I need some Love quotes guys!! Please help!!

THANKS!!!!!!!

*-KeLs-*

"you're the cutest thing sometimes, you know that?"
-the unbreakable

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does it mean someone is gothic if all they wear is black? and they dyed their hair pitch black?? thanks

umm, well, basically, unless they just really like black. they can still be christian though, and just be like punk.

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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do?

don't give him one more speck of your attention. if this guy can easily cheat on that g/f of his, what's keeping him from cheating on you. i know that you're flattered and like that attention, but open your eyes dumbass

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hey im 13 and i live in pennsylvania around pittsburgh... i want to start thinking about what college i want to go to.. i want to become a psychologist or a lawyer... what are some good colleges to look into?

i would try texas tech, or ucla, or ohio state, or tcu!

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I want to buy a pair of vans from a website and I'm wondering..do they run small..big or just regular size?

vans supposedly run 1/2 a size too small! but, the best thing to do would be to go to a store, try on any vans and figure out your size!
~mandy

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i use soft and dri gel and 1. it doesn't seem to work very much cuz i still have these sweat circles under my arms on my shirt 2. it doesn't really dry quickly so whenever i put my shirt on theres stains on it cuz it touched my armpits.. kinda embaressed to ask this buh does anybudy have any recommendations on like really strong deoderent and if not, wut i can do about the gel stains??

use a dry stick deoderant. it may not feel as comfortable, but it's the best. you should use 'brut' deodorant. i believe it's specified for men, but it's ok. it smells good and works well. i use it and i like it. try it out. i mean, just don't use gel deodorant! lol

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Im about to go on a school nature trip in New hampshire in 2 days! Were going to be there for 5 DAYS and i just got sick last night ..my throat feels SO scratchy and im just weak all over. MY head hurts and i feel nauseous but i really wanna go on the trip on Monday because it cost like 200$ and my friends really want me to go. !! I need help how do i get better fast?? Im going to be outdoors all the time even to sleep so i gotta get better!

you should bring a back full of losenges, and drink a lot of hot cocoa/tea as possible, if not water and gatorade are good. i mean, just the basics. and about the throwing up, don't eat any dairy products and try to drink a lot of fluid to get whatever is in you out!
~mandy

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Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what?

confront him and ask him what's goin on.

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ok, so I saw the shining like a while ago, but I really dont understand what the ending means. like when they zoom in on a photograph with the dad in the center of the picture. does it just mean that he was at a party in the hotel, or does it mean something more?

It just means that he was a psycho and he wasn't in love with his wife, and just all the things that happened in the movie

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(15/f) My neighbors music is so loud I hear it on the opposite side of my house from the side that he lives on. I don't want to go to his house, and my parents are home so I can't blast ours that would def. be louder. He is around 40 something? Any ideas?

move.

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ok this question is for guys only unless a girl would know but neway what exactly turns you on and what do u like for a girl to do to you? i know you guys are probally thinking what the hell but its for my health class on hormones and i have to survey guys on what turns them on! thanks bunches!

i'm a girl, but my b/f said that he likes it when girls where cute clothes and just say hi alot and smile, and that gets a guy interested, but to turn him on, you gotta touch sensor spots on a guys body. look it up

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i think my brother smokes with his friends cuz when he gets home he smmells like cigarettes but im not sure if its him i know for sure his friends smoke but im not sure if he does i dont want to tell my parents because my parents will just tell him that i think he smokes my parents warn him alot but i dunno if smokes or not what should i do
confused...

smoking can kill, so don't just sit around. tell your parents of your suspicions, then wait till you find evidence. you'll trap your brother, and then when he is 'caught', he can get some help and quit this killing habit. just remember it's a very complicated issue, and it's not totally your business.
sry if it's harsh.
~mandy

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ok.. so i totally screwed up talking to this guy i liked at skool... see im fine when i talk to guys but i get tooooo shy when i like them. so the plan didnt go so well to tell him that i like him.. and now i feel so embarassed because i was soo shy and im all mad at myself and stuff... soo tomorrow i was debating on weather or not i should go to school and i want to but i dont kno wut i would do or say so if i do go to skool and run into him what do i do or say? or should i not even go to skool? pLEASe HelP!! i rate high!

being a guy, he proly doesn't even know that you like him, so i wouldn't worry. and guys like it when you're confident and stuff, so just randomly say hi to him and smile. he'll notice you. it's like a pyramid, really. you gotta build your relationship up. like, first say hi with a smile, and act confident, 2nd, ask him waht's up, 3rd have a real conversation, 4th ask him to do something with you just as friends, 5th just wait, he'll be after you if you sport your cutest clothes. **DON'T BE CLINGY! LET HIM COME TO YOU, TRUST ME, HE WILL, JUST BE PATIENT!!**

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My dog barks at the slightest movement or sound. He chases my four cats around and when hes on a walk he chases cars. He is a Border Collie, so it is natural for him to try to herd things. He is so out of control sometimes that he will see the neighbor dogs from the inside window and will throw himself at the window, barking like a maniac. What do you suggest I do?

well, you should realize that most dogs act like that. i have 3 dogs and they all bark a ton. you can't do a lot about that, but it sounds like your dog has a lot of energy. since you don't necessarily want to take him out in public because of his wildness, then take him to a secluded area, like your backyard, or a deserted meadow, or something where there is space, but not many people. then, teach him how to fetch or go after something and let him burn some of his energy, if he's tired, he'll be more apt to let some of his barking go, and besides that, he's just acting like a dog!

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hey everyone i was just wondering, because this guy liked me before and now he doesn't. he says i'm boring. i think he only liked me before was because he didn't know me, now he kinda does and doesn't like you. how do i get him to want me/like me? he knows i like him and he told me he doesn't like me like that, but we could do stuff. i want for him to regret not asking me out. how do i do that? thanks in ad advance! i rate good. any tips are good!

ok, well i think that you should not chase the guy. if you chase him he'll run, let him get into you. so, wear your cutest outfits, strut around in front of him, i mean, act friggin SEXY!
if you want this guy, think about what a guy wants, but whatever you do, don't direct it at him, and don't talk to him unless he talks to you, but you can say hi on occasion. think about it. hope i helped. always here,
~mandi

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