Hello, i'm Susan. i live in Georgia. I'm young, but i know how to give great advice. i've been through a lot, trust me. i have some problems, and i may need your help. be there for me?
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E-mail: sns_lacy@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama.
Occupation: straight.
Age: 13
MSN: chasitynjoshmybff@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 24, 2009
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I've met this guy and when we are together we communicate, have fun, things are great! But when we aren't together (he lives 4 states away) and we have to talk on the phone, he does 99.9% of the talking.. and it's usually him just being silly, and I'm just sitting there laughing or saying "yeah", "ok" etc. He tells me he gets frustrated that I never talk to him. The problem is, I don't even know what to talk about! Maybe my question isn't so much how, but what to talk about.. (link)
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Okay, thats great that you found sombody:)
alright, besides the point./
Maybe ask him, how was your day?
uh.. how's school/college/work?
i miss you;
i really enjoy talking with you, and so on.
just nice little things.
say i'm corny, but it works for me!
i hope this helps.
xoxo
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i'm not sure what it is, but they're like little red bumps or "pimples" around my pubic area, after i shave. they hurt when i press on them, or touch them. should i just leave it alone and let it heal itself? or should i just do something about it? (link)
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i have them too.
there just there from shaving.
there common, exremly;;
leave them alone.
just when you shave there next time, make sure your body is really wet.
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im shy and going to a new school next school year(different state). idk how to make friends and im super nervous. i watch nick, boomerang, ect, and not allowed to date till 14. (link)
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hello, okay.
i've never moved before, but i have changed schools.
take the relation ship thing slow, 14's a good age;
Ookay, to start off at your new school, MOST schools will introduce yopu to your classmates.
and 9 times out of 10 theres always somebody who loves meeting new people, so matter how shy you are, i'm sure somebody will come to you!
and, if not, maybe you can ask some people in your class for help on classwork or something. maybe do projects together or something. you usually hangout together outside of school when your doing projects anyways.
everyone is shy on their first day, and not to mention nervous.
But as the days pass, you'll feel really comfortable around them..
so don't sweat it!
you'll make friends:)
ps. exchange email adresses;)
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i got a hair cut & i dont really like it !
i had split ends so you see why i needed one !
x( now it's shoulder length & it does not look
nice ! i dont know how to style it ! even
if it is down ! it looks horriblee ! im sad !
any advice on how to style it ? (link)
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well, my hair is about that length.
i part mine to the die,
Not to far over, but to the side.
try straightening it, thats what i do.
and also puting cute little ribbions in it makes it also look better.
(if you're kind of girlyish.
i hoped this helped.
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What is a really good moisturizer? My skin is super dry, flaky, scaley (whatever) and rough and i want it back to my baby soft skin. it is really dry from vacation (really hot/humid and tons of sun exposure) and my new acne medicine so i need some great moisturizer (link)
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MM, don't go to a dermotolagist.
they perscribe things, that look as if they work.
but really in the end it screws up your skin more.
don't use it. coca butter is the stuff, to use.i've used it for years and it's worked amazingly.
good luck
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So I'm not sure if im pregnant or not. But I have had very light cramping and havent had my period and its been 4 days (link)
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mm, pregnancy test?
depends.
Have you done anything ithout protection latley?
if not , you should be fine.
it's probably not late.
mines never on time
don't freak
=)
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I have this huge major crush on this guy who sits in front of me. He's sort of a player at our school, but I like him anyways. He's popular, I'm invisible.
What should I do other than do the obvious?
I'm kinda sensitive and shy...a 16 year old. (link)
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mm.
Players are douche bags, no lie
haha.
i was the same way with this guy Marc where i live, things didn't turn out
but, obviously i can't stop you.
and wish you luck.
mm, try laughing at his jokes, and try to pair up with him on school assignments, or uhm.... pass notes with him just to see how things are going with him, you never know, he might just like you back
:D
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lose 20-40 pounds starting this week, and end up like that on the week of may 27 [or earlier/later]
and how would i go about doing this.
PLEASE HELP (link)
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defnatly possible honey.
But its really gonna be hard.
work hard!!
keep excercising and don't eat fat things, and tr to keep off the calories!
GOood luck:)
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I dont have severly yellow teeth, but they could definitely be whiter. What products could I use to whiten them? I want to use crest white strips but I have braces so I dont know if it will work. (link)
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okay, i just got my braces off the 5th. and i've been useing the brest white strips. they're amazing. they work very well. and/or you can get there professionally bleached by the dentist.yet the downfall on that is that its pretty expensive, anywhere from 300-500 dollars. depending on where you go really.
DO NOT TRY TO USE ANY WHITENING KIT OR BLEACHING KIT OF ANY SORT WHILE HAVING YOUR BRACES ON.
for it'll just make it more obvious that you used to have braces.
and you'll be able to see where your braces were.
but i definitly suggest the white strips./
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i want to bleach the hair on my upper lip with hydrogen peroxide (used on cuts). how would i do that?? (link)
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if you don't want to go with hotpatatoe's idea. just simply get a q tip and dip it in there peroxide, and wipe it on there. pretty simple.
but from what i hear, doing this isnt' a good idea. the whole using the peroxide thing, but it's always done great for me.
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16f I play volleyball, and about last week to two weeks ago my finger (pointer) on my right hand hurt to the touch, the top part of it right on the tip. It started out as nothing, and felt like a splinter, but then i saw something white under my skin, now i think whatever it was bled under my skin because its a litterally perfect circle and its VERY small but dark enough to notice.Its a little bigger than a period on a page. it still hurts badly, any help?!
(if you were pointing at someone you would see it) (link)
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Try getting eyebrow tweezers, and getting it out as you would a splenter. if no luck, try soaking your finger tip in warm water for about thirty minutes, and hopefully will waterlog whatever is inside your skin. and maybe it'll let off some pressure from the pain. if still no luck, try contacting a doctor, or school nurse of such. ice always makes me feel better:>)
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16f and I have a yellow lab :-) but for some reason everytime i give him food, anything,he litterally eats it in 2seconds! I have tried giving him bigger pieces to force him to chew his food, and little pieces to see if that would work. No such luck. any idea whats going on? Im afraid he will choke one of these days! ps, he is 9 and has the energy of a 2 year old (link)
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by imaging the dog by his age and type i take it he's a pretty well grown dog. I'm pretty sure he won't choke though. if so, they know how to throw it up, trust me i've been in this kind of problem before. try to pat on there back though, just as you would a human. i don't really know how to fix his eating problems......it's common though my dog is the same way. but good luck!
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im 18/f. ok so im a good kid i was raised in a good family and so was my mom's side [i dont associate with my dad's really]. anyway so my mom is completely against tattoos. she says theyre tacky and blah blah blah. she's not crazy about piercings either but i've convinced her in to a few of those. but anyway i think tattoos and super intriguing and unique and i like them as long as they're not trashy looking you know? so i want to get a tattoo in memory of my grandmother on my foot. she died of cancer almost 5 years ago and it had a HUGE impact on me, and i want something to symbolize that. i've brought it up to my mom and she of course HATES the idea and gets kinda ill when i mention it. i planned on getting her a cross and cancer ribbon and drew it out for her to see and asked that if it was to symbolize my grandma and my faith and mean a lot to me why would it be so bad? she responded that if i want to symbolize my faith i can wear a cross necklace or something and that my grandma wouldn't want me to get a tattoo, regardless if it was in memory of her. but it would be special to me and having that tattoo would mean more to me than just wearing a necklace you know? not one ounce of my mom likes the idea. my question is, what would you do in this situation? that's the only tattoo i would get, and it wouldn't affect starting a career or anything cuz it'd be on my foot. i know that legally i can walk right out to a shop and get it, but on the other hand i'd feel kinda bad disrespecting my mom like that because we're really close, but it is something i want. how would you react? (link)
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I haven't really been in this situation before yet, my mother is the same way. i've talked her into piercings but on the otherhand tatoos, she don't play about. maybe something tiny. like a black cross, with a pink/ or baby blue/aqua colored cancer ribbon over it, or rapped around it. you will feel bad at first i'm sure, but it's for a great cause, and i'd do it.
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15/girl/usa
alright, i woke up this morning immediatley with horrible cramps, that were in the ovary, and vagina area, which was terrible. I'm not on birth control and I am a virgin, so i dont know if that has anything to do with that. My period hasn't come this month yet, and it didnt come when i got the aching cramps. I don't get these cramps that often but the hurt very badly, i took 3 advil and lied down, i don't know really how to get rid of these or why they came in the first place?
if you could find out how to get rid of them quickly or effecivly, and why i got them in the first place please help me. thank-you! (link)
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Bananas are great, and shall do the job!
you should start your period soon.
like for example yesterday in soccer practice i got really bad practice. but i didnt start.
and today in class i got them really bad also, and came home, took a nap, woke up and i had started. it's most likely going to come in the next day or two.
relax, nothing to be freaked out about:D
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Ok so I might be going to the movies with tis guy I really like
All my friends say he likes me
I denie it. But KINDA think the same thing
Im kinda on the chub side & I think Im unattractive
But thats off topic;
In case he DOES like me
Im afriad he might kiss me
I want to kiss him
But first kiss = I have KNOW idea what to do
How to move my lips
Just. Im clueless with the WHOLE thing
Help?
Links to websites and bideos would be LOVED (link)
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alright, this is simple.i will warn you now, you're going to be very shy. at your age, i'm sure he'll try to hold your hand and such, don't worry:)
don't pucker out your lips to much.
just a tad. and waitt til he's pretty close.
make sure he's trying to kiss you so you don't look silly.
if this isn't self explainitory enough for you, go to youtube.com
and type in how to kiss.
there is a lot of videos i'm sure:)
youtube is the best.
good luck!
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my boyfriend and i are about to have sex for the second time like tomorrow maybe. and were always going to use protection. but im not on birth control cuz my mom wont put me on it yet. he has these trojan-enz spermicidal lubricant condoms right, and its a one size fits all. what are the chances of the condom breaking of there is any? i mean i know theres always a chance there could be, but im just worried about that. (link)
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You will never really know if and when a condom will break our not. no matter what the brand is. may i suggest you double rap. use two condoms, just in case. :) hope i helped out!
xoxox
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Well Im 15/f, and i have a bf. For the past half of a year, i've been more interested in girls. I just learned yesterday that my friend who is two years younger than me is bi. i kinda like her, more than just a friend. I want to try to get a gf, but the ones in my school are druggies, and i just dont think they would accept me. My friend said just tell people, and they will accept you, but i just dont think they will. I kinda want to brek up with my bf, because i went out with him for almost 2 years, and we just got back together about a month ago. and i've realized nomatter how much time i give him hes never gonna change.
So what should i do? what would you do? Should i break up wiht my bf? i love him, just its kinda fading, and i want to try a relationship with a girl, i jsut dont know how to find one, and i think my friiend only likes me as a sister.
Please help me, and thank you very much! (link)
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hello. don't go for a druggie, straight up. lol. they're a waste of time. A lot of people will say they'll except you, but truthfully. most of them will act like they will, and talk tons of trash about you behind your back. if you and your boyfriends relationship is fading anyways..... you should break up with him. nopoint in wasteing time right? if your not sure how people will react to you being with a girl in a relationship...... try finding you a bi/lesbian friend..... and maybe have like a secretive relationship.... and she how it goes. if it works out, and the love is strong. you'll knwo when it's the correct time to let it be known. talk to your friend whom you think on;ly likes you as a sister, you never know. try talking to her, and maybe try to hint out a firt here and there.
hope this helped.
xoxox
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My boyfriend is such a jerk to me! We have been together for a cuple of years now in a long distance relationship. He comes to visit me every 3 months but its such a drag to convince him! He is always making me feel bad and saying mean things to me. He is a jealous control freak! I feel that its my fault beacuse I let him do that to me in the first place. I've never been a party girl,I would say that im a stay at home girl. I dont have much friends..Im always with my mother..to me shes like my friend, sicne I share with her everything. I'm pretty confused i don't know what to do I really love him and i know that he loves me too but hes hurting mee verbaly and i know the consequences of that but i just can't let go of him. i live in US and he live in Mexico and i am willing to leave everything for him!! I know that its such a stupid attitude!!
The big problem here is because he doesn't trust me at all and I have told him that I am willing to do anything to show him that he can trust me. He tells me that I probably cheat on him and stuff like that. But why would i cheat on him? What would be the point of wasteing money on phone calls on wasting all this time with him i i has someone else right? I feel so depreate!! What can I do? I feel like i have tried everything and nothing seems to work! I just don't want to let go him just like that. I truly love him. We have talked many times of marrige. He will be turning 21 and ill be turning 19 soon.
So what can i do! (link)
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Girl. don't let him say things to you. if he's a jerk to you, don't let it get to you. seriously. If he really loved you.... he wouldn't say those things. Also, let him know how you feel. explain to him how you aren't cheating on him and if you were you wouldn't be wasteing your time on calling him and things.........
he shouldn't be having those thoughts in the first place, it should actually be the other way around. maybe he's trying to make it a gentle break up? in a secretive type way?? i hope this problem goes away shortly.
good luck.
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So I just started my new job in November and absolutly love everyone I work with. I've been hanging out with this one girl who is always smiling and just really happy and friendly. But when I was working with her yesterday she reached for something and I noticed a bunch of cuts on her arm. I asked her what they are from and she said nothing and then acted like it never happened. I'm really worried about her. What should I do? Should I tell someone else? (link)
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Yeah, cutting is very common. Some people it's a severe thing to, but ussually not. You never know what could be behind that fake smile. :/
hard to say, but really. don't tell others. just been in a calm conversation with her, and don't seem to put to much pressure on her to tell you. if it's really just somebody you are in real debt of worrying about, try to get close to her, in a friendly way. maybe she'll tell you. and maybe that friendship will turn out marvelous:)
good luck!
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[i didn't know whether to put this under love life or sex]
so last night me and my boyfriend were making out and somehow i ended up straddling him. he took off my shirt then my bra so then i took off his shirt. he started going down on me (still had pants on) and started taking off my pants...there i drew the line and said "not yet"..then he looked at me and said that he wasn't gonna do anything bad, so i said well what were you gonna do? and he said "idk i didnt really plan it i was just gonna wing it" ...what do you think that means? im almost positive he was planning on having sex because we didn't have a condom and he said he wasnt gonna do anything "bad"
my second question is, we were kind of like dry humping...like sex with pants on...i wouldnt be able to get pregnant from this right?
thank youuu for answering any of my questions
and were 17/f and 17/m if that has anything to do with it. (link)
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He was probably going to eat you out.
and no you won't get pregnant from dry humping.
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