I have this huge major crush on this guy who sits in front of me. He's sort of a player at our school, but I like him anyways. He's popular, I'm invisible.
What should I do other than do the obvious?
I'm kinda sensitive and shy...a 16 year old.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Besmart answered Wednesday February 18 2009, 12:04 pm: Oh man, yeah it's easy to have crushes on players because they are usually hot to begin with (that's how they became players) But to be honest don't go for this guy or any guy really, let men approach you even if you are shy. Right now all guys are interested in girls is for sex. And you being a sweet shy girl they probably feel bad for taking advantage of you. I would just keep this as a crush and wait til you are done high school before you start dating because you would be surprised what kind of losers men turn out to be after lol please send me a message if you have any questions or comments... [ Besmart's advice column | Ask Besmart A Question ]
susansexton answered Tuesday February 17 2009, 10:40 pm: mm.
Players are douche bags, no lie
haha.
i was the same way with this guy Marc where i live, things didn't turn out
but, obviously i can't stop you.
and wish you luck.
mm, try laughing at his jokes, and try to pair up with him on school assignments, or uhm.... pass notes with him just to see how things are going with him, you never know, he might just like you back
:D [ susansexton's advice column | Ask susansexton A Question ]
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