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For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question. (link)
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don't apoligize for the length. this is serious. your right, you need to find help. my suggestion would be go to her regular doctor. he might be able to find the best place for her and be able to provide the info...etc. hope i helped!
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I've known renee since the 5th grade we became best friends in the 6th grade she never really got any guys because she just wasnt liked by guys and i was usually the one getting the guys now we go to different schools and were in the 8th now its the other way around but she brags in my face about it and rubs it in my face which i never did to her she thinks shes all that and pretty now our relationship is totally crushed and i wanna hit her what do i do? (link)
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i'd just tell her that your gettin' a little annoyed about that. tell her that you know what she's goin through...but there's a point where you gotta chill. hope i helped!
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I really like this one guy and so does one of my friends. But I know I like him more than her but she doesn't belive me. But I just found out today who really likes and that he likes me more than my friend. I really feel like bragging to my friend cuz she does it all the time but I know I shouldn't so how do I not? (link)
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i wouldn't brag about it. just keep all that happy emotion to yourself. i know its hard...but she could be a little torn about him not liking her. maybe try to comfort her a little. and as far as you liking each other....have you asked him out yet? i think you should go for it. especially if he likes you! hope i helped!
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ok well I don't know why (then again I do), but I feel numb.....Like my feelings... I like this guy, but he likes my best friend, yet, he wrote "I love you" on my planner.... SO I was confused about it.... I need to figure out y my feelings feel numb (that sounds odd) so if u could help I would appreciate it thanks
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that makes sense. feelings can be numb. you could just be a little....eh about it right now, so your just kinda numb. especially if he likes your friend. that'll always hurt. and if you've been through enough pain over one person, i think eventually it just goes kinda...numb. hope that makes sense and that i helped!
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Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks (link)
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i think it could work. i mean, you'd have to help it a little. but if you like each other, i don't see why not. and maybe when your talking, find out what his other interests are, and you might like them too. and as far as PDA goes, as the relationship develops, he might get more into that idea. hope i helped!
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do u like the name Gabrielle?
I think I like it better then Ashley.
What do you think? (link)
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i think their both good names. but i think i like ashley better. hope i helped...for whatever reason you need help on. (:
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I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks. (link)
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if the love is gone.....then it might be for good. unless he's just scared of the commitment to a child. talk to him to make sure you know whats REALLY going on. and if he is scared of commitment after all, then seek some help from family and friends. maybe even a counselor. hope i helped!
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I'm not supposed to know about this, but one of my friends is having these really disturbing dreams, just really disturbing, scary stuff that seems outta horror movie...Thing is they happen when she's awake, like, when she closes her eyes...And they're out of control. I mean, I know everyone gets weird images sometimes in their brain when they close their eyes, but this is definately beyond normal.
She has said that if they continue past New Years she will see a therapist, so I'm not asking for what to do, I know perfectly well how to handle it if she doesn't take the bull by the horns, but what I want to know is if there is an actual medical condition associated with these symptoms..I've heard of them before.
Also, I've got another friend who says these weird things that don't make any sense, like she says stuff happened that's totally outrageous, and then someone disproves it, and she still says they happened...And everyone accuses her of lying, but it just really seems lik she BELEIVES these things have happened to her! Is there a medical condition with this symptom, in which the victim creates excessive memories that never happened? (link)
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i'm not sure.....but my advice is to tell your friends to see a therapist or counselor NOW. they need to figure it out immediately, cuz it could be a medical condition and it could be harmful. i don't mean to scare you....just a worst case scenario. but they should seek help now. hope i helped!
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okay, one of my kinda close guy friends [who likes me more than a friend] bought me a necklace for xmas... the thing is, he "forgot" to take off the price tag which was stuck on underneath the box.. it was $129.. the price tag was also inside the box kinda hidden under the necklace plate. obviously he wanted me to see how much it costed? lol what do u guyz think? (link)
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there's a chance that he wanted you to see. maybe he wanted you to be "impressed" or he could've wanted you to see it so you knew how much thought was put into it. he could've just forgot it.....but i think the other options are more likely. hope i helped!
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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
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well, if he knows that you like him, he could just be jokin' around. or he could be flirting. or he could like you. or he could just be bein' a friend. so, maybe have a friend talk to him about how he feels about you. hope i helped!
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I am about 10lbs underweight it may not sound like much but I'm 14 years old, 69lbs, and 4'6 feet. I am to small and are in prone to serious health risks what shall I do? (link)
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i would talk to your parents about it. and then i'd try to talk to a doctor. they might be able to give you some tips about what to do about it. hope i helped!
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i go to a private school...we don't have uniforms but we have a dress code...polo shirts, sweaters, that kind of thing...what do you suggest i do to accessorize/spice things up? (link)
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well, you could always do something cute with your hair. also, you could find some really cute jewelry that would work with it, somethin' thats you. jewelry and hair always seem to help that kinda thing out a little. hope i helped!
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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........ (link)
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just ignore them. looks shouldn't be the reason to fall in love with someone in the first place. it could grab your attention of someone....but its never the source of true love. if you love him enough...looks shouldn't matter. and as far as your friends go.....just forget 'em. they obviously don't know what their talking about. hope i helped!
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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help! (link)
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there are a couple options: he could like you, he could be flirting, or he could be just bein' a really good friend. maybe get someone to ask him how he feels about you. or talk to him yourself. which ever would work. hope i helped!
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ok well my friend (shes a girl)we'll call her krys..shes over for x mas and so is my other friend (he's a guy)we'll call him bob...well krys has a way to kinda like hypnitize guys and i really really like my friend bob but krys did her lil eye thing and now he likes her...she does it to all the guys she see's, she knows she can do that and she takes advantage of it...well at first i wasnt upset becuz i thought maybe she didnt relize she was flirting...then after i talked to her and told her how i feel she still does it...now im mad at her cuz ive told her that i like him and that shes flirting and when i asked if she liked him she said "no" and now im mad at her but im not sure if i should be...PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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i think you have a right to be a little upset. i mean, some people are natural flirts, and that can be OK, but if she knows how much you like him....she could lay off a little. just explain to her that your hurtin' and that you want her to back off. especially if she doesn't even like him. she could be doin' that just cuz she might know that he likes her....but she's kinda bein' a crappy friend by doin' that. so talk to her. and you have every right to be upset. hope i helped!
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ok my x and i have known echother sence sixth gradewe started going out in 8th and hrew the summer then all the sudden he dumps me then asks me out a week later saying hed never do anything like that to hurt me again.... then 3 months later he falls for another girl and dumps me again... so thats like having my heart broken twice first for beig dumped by a boy i lovd very much then finding he already likes another girl soo we dont talk or a good month then out of the lue he says he loves me and he miss's me and he wants me back but i take time to think about it and before i can say yes he tells me he likes ssomeone else soo thats th gourth time he broke my heart.... but we were friendly still but just now hes stating to tell me he still likes me after finding out that i liked him still and i asked about the other girl and he said y cant i like you both and soo im confused now he says when he couses it will be right so now im thinkin is he just doing this to get my to pay attention to him and all that stuff and i have never stoped liking him .. if he asks me back out i dont kno if i can trut him again .. do yea'll think it would be good idea to go bac out wth him i hve to ask you because i dont kno if i can trust my friends right now thanks alot (link)
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i think you should talk to your ex....bf...w/e. and tell him that you're confused and you need to know how he really feels. and if at all possible, make sure he's bein' completely honest. cuz you don't need your heart broken again. and tell him that: your tired of having your heart broken and you NEED to know. hope i helped!
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There is this guy,lets call him pauli.And i really like him!i like him a lot.and we always talk and hug n stuff.and we got really close then my cousin and him met and they became friends but after he met her in persin he didnt like her and she didnt like him.and she started being all mean 2 him and now whenever i talk 2 him online he ignores me.i dnt kno WHAT 2 do or HOW 2 feel. (link)
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i'd try to explain to him that your sorry for your cousin's behavior. then i'd talk to your cousin about maybe backin' down a little. hope i helped!
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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
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i'm not really sure, so my advice would be to talk to your doctor. sometimes i think it just happens, where its a freaky pattern, but i'd be safe and talk to your doctor. hope i helped!
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I just found out one of my friends likes my bf. im kinda worried shes going to try to get him. see shes gone out with him before but they broke up a long time ago. anyways she told me she needed to tell me something but she couldnt. i finally got her to say what she needed to say. she said she did like him but didnt anymore. but its weird the day before she told me. she said she needed to tell me something important. and then one day later she tells me and says she doesnt like him anymore? is it just me or is she lieing? maybe she doesnt want me to get mad or something i dont know. i just know that she has some sort of feelings toward him. and well i have another friend and he told me that she has really weird tricks. that she can get any guy she wants to break up with their gf. he said that he knows by experience. im soo worried that she will try to get him and then im screwed. and this girl is the type of girl who always gets what she wants. basically i need help on what to do with the situation. please. i rate high (link)
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you really need to talk to her. i mean, i assume you like your bf a lot, right? tell her how you feel and how upset you'd be if she ever did that. i mean, she had her chance. maybe it'd work out if you weren't going out with him now...but you are. so just make sure she knows how you feel and stuff. hope i helped!
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okay i cant handle this anymore. how do you deal with parents that are ALWAYS fighting? i mean they wont separate they talked about it but they wont and it's beginning to tick me off because they will be good one day and then the next you know it they are fighting and it sickens me! i cant handle it anymore i feel like punching them out. please help. THANKS! (link)
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you should probably talk to them about it. i went through that same situation, so i know how you feel. maybe have them talk to you about their issues and maybe you could help them out. hope i helped!
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