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Ok so I have a boyfriend and we have been together for almost seven months. I love him but I am starting to like someone else too. I am not completely sure if he likes me and I'm also not completely sure if he is flirting with me. But I think he does and is flirting with me. I just love being with him because this guy brings excitement in my everyday life and he makes everything feel new. But I also love being with my boyfriend because he makes me sooo happy. But what I am trying to say is should I stay with my boyfriend or should I leave him and take a chance? (link)
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Alright! You can't love somebody and like somebody else. You can like two people at the same time though.
I don't think you actually love your boyfriend.
You just simply like two men at the same time and you have to make a choice.
Taking chances is always a good choice, but wise chances.
If you going to dump your boyfriend for someone else, you gotta live with it because you are technically hurting him.
But the most important thing is choosing the one you trust more.
Good Luck =]
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hi, so im a junior in high school 16 years old. i've made out with 5 boys only one and a half where my boyfriend....long story short. i like this boy a lot, hes a year older dropped out of his senior year than he came back. we hang out at LEAST 2 times a week.. hes unbelievably gorgeous.. model material -seriously. i reach his standards- i think. i'm 5"4 and 110 pounds, not so many pimples and i dress cool. i jjust need to know WHAT IS THIS? should i end it? i dont know what it is i see him in school everyday, s he takes me home if i need a ride and he's so sweet, but in front of people i dont know if it's shyness or something but he doesnt talk to me, he barely looks in my direction. all of my friends know about him, and many of his friends know about him and i. what are we, a thing? i hooked up with him, hes fingered me, ive given him a handjob. he wants to go down on me, i wont let him. is he in it for the ass? he's turning 18 in like 3 monthes.. i reallly think i love him, but he also hangs out with "shtoop'" =public school girls who give the boys ass. he doesnt have somany morals when it comes to that and claims that he doesnt hook up wiht anyone but me nnbut how am i supposed to trust him? if i hooked up with another guy (no desire to) but if i did hed probably get pissed off.. we hang out a lot, more than use=ual these days. we bbm during school an he gives me the cutest looks.. what is this? what am i doing with my life, please help me. my whole family dissaproves becasue of his reputation with girl; he used them and talks about it after.... i dont know what to do, i tryed stopping hanging out with him but i just cant do it i cant let go, i feel like ive found someone exactly like me not a soul-mate, but boyfrined material an adorable... hes so inntimidating and scares al my friends- he's really gorgeous. but i am not scared of him, i like him and how everyone;s scared, i like everything about him, i dont care when he smokes or drinks, but other girls--thats killing me trust, and what are we? please help as soon as you read this n be honest, i sound like a pathetic 13 year old but its my life. i live in a tightnit community and things get out and around quick.. i dont want this out, and if it does i want to have been his girlfriend..... help please remmeber same school, my family disaprroves, and hes unbelievabley beautiful- inside and out. sorry for spelling i cant spell to save someones lifee (link)
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Well sometimes, people definitely surprises you. So the whole reputation he has, is not a main thing here if he could prove it wrong to you.
I'm not really sure about the part where he treats you differently in front of people. That is him proving the repuation right.
If you like him, and you want to be with him offically. Then you gotta grow some balls, and confront him about it.
His reaction will say it all. That's when you know, if he is in it for the sex only.
Good Luck =]
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i'm 41 years old i'm married for 17 years and i have two teenage daughters i'm living with my husband and i feel that our marriage at the moment is falling apart he has always put his family and his mother before me and treats me as if i mean nothing to him my mother in law is a huge obstacle in our life she creates unecessary problems but as usual he will always part with her every tragedy i have been through in my life i had been through it alone but he is always there for his mother and always puts her first can somebody please help me i can no longer live knowing that i am inferior to another person i just want to feel loved by my husband
please help (link)
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You gotta get your husband and sit him down for a serious discussion.
You have to yell in his face and tell him how he makes you feel. You have to make him see the seriousness behind your feelings, that you are willing to no longer live knowing that you are second choice in his life.
If he is your first choice, then you gotta be his or else you are giving more than he is in the marriage, and that is not balancing. Marriage is all about balance.
You have said it, Your husband is a mamma's boy.
But you have to treat this situation in an adult attuide since you have two teenage daughters. As much as you should think about yourself in this marriage and about your happiness, you have to also think about your daaughters.
Marriage counceling can really help if you get your husband to go with you.
But there might be a chance he wouldn't. If he didn't co-operate, then you should show him where he stands and that he is not a fully adult.
You should talk to your daughters about it so in the future if you decide to leave him, they wouldn't blame you.
And I think you should seek a family or a friend's help.
Good Luck =]
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Well im not sexually active, i dont smoke, i dont belive theres an infection, oh and im 13. But i most likey think my body might just be getting used to it. Because it takes a while to get regular. (link)
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Oh! You're 13..
Yeah, It's completely normal. It's not going to be accurate at all.
The more your body develops, the more it changes and becomes more accurate.
Good Luck =]
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Well, i think i got my period the other day or so. i bled for w hile, then it stopped and just was a dark brown discharge for about two days. Then today i bled alot and it was red. But now im not bleeding. Is this my period and my body is just adjusting or no? (link)
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It depends on how old are you..!!
Or if you are sexually active? Do you smoke? There might be an infection..
Bleeding brown is not good.
You should check a doctor. Or ask an asult.
Good Luck =]
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Okay I am 15/f and within the past few months I have gotten several charlie horses all on my upper right thigh I guess but now I get them in the back of my ankle and it's so painful for the couple minutes it lasts... but what's going on??? I haven't done anything different then usual I'm not an athlete, I just walk everyday (link)
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When it comes to Charlie Horses, You should check with a doctor..
The doctor would give you creams and make it less painful, check with your family doctor or something.
Good Luck =]
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So I'm certain that this boy in my class likes me, but I also think that he's too afraid to do anything about it. Should I try to talk to him more and see how things progress over time? I don't understand. He stares at me, smiles, subtly compliments me, makes excuses to wait after class so we can walk together, etc, etc. I've definitely made efforts to show my feelings by talking to him, looking at him, smiling, complimenting him, and even by getting him something special for his birthday. And if that weren't enough, I definitely think that he overheard my friend talking about my crush on him while I repeatedly/panickingly tried to get her to shut up (he was really close by and she was very loud). Is it possible that he doesn't get it? Should I be more obvious? Should I be all over him, lol?! We actually don't hang out and aren't very close. We just see eachother at school. I don't want to directly ask him to "hang out." Should I just be patient? (link)
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It's either he is very shy or.. Insane!
So since you like him, and you guys aint that close so it doesn't matter if you loose him.
Why don't you risk the bisket and ask him directly!
Tell him how you feel without throwing yourself at him, and ask him how he feels about you.
It's that easy and simple.
Good Luck =]
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So ever since I was 13 I've been getting my period. And up until this year it was always exactly the same. Everyday would be pretty consistently heavy and then on the seventh day it would just stop.
Now though, it will come and on the first day it will be really light, the second and third it will be heavy, and then it will be done.
I'm just wondering if this is normal, or something I should check into.
Also my period always used to come a week late every month. Like one month I'd get it on the first, the next the seventh, the next the 14th etc etc. Now it always comes on the 24th. Should I see a doctor or just be grateful for the shorter periods? (link)
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It's completely normal.
My period used to stay for 5 days and it's always late. But when my body developed more, it tended to be more acurate!
Your body is just developing, and by the age of 18, when you pass 18.. It's going to stay the same.
If you are above 18, I think you should worry.
Good Luck =]
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my boyfriend and i broke up and now he is being rude to me but also flirting with me! what is wrong with him? (link)
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When you break up with a guy, he has to be rude with you.
But when he realizes you don't care anymore or you aren't showing signs of desperation towards him. He gets pissed, either he treats you real bad or starts flriting with you so you'd fall for him again.
He hates being forgotten, it affects his ego.
He is confused ofcourse! So, don't go along with his flirting, try to avoid him and if he confronts you about it, make sure he knows that you want one stable answer only, without the whole "I don't want to go back but I still care about you".
Don't stay hooked on him, move on.
Good Luck =]
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usa female.. i have been friends with this guy for about 9 months we hang out and go do do things togethers we talk and when one needs something the other one is alwys there.
something happen to were he almost had to move away and he was so concerned about us that things wouldn't change. and i told him my ex was back and he wanted to no if i wanted him back i told no i wanted to be with somebody who is honest and trusting. and he said good. he's a very loving person when we do get together . he never said anything about haw i look or anything just that i make him smile . and at one point i told him to stay away from me he hounded me for 4 days tell i gave in to him. i'm usually the first one ask about hanging out he does sometimes. i get confussion signs from him i don't no what to think. (link)
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Boys are confusing!
But obviously he cares about you! Maybe as a friend or more than a friend.
I think you should be brave enough to ask him, in a indirect way. Because it seems like you have feelings for him as well. You refer to him as a loving person and you like hanging out with him.
Mixed signals are dangerous. So you have to be careful not to hurt yourself or him.
Good Luck =]
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What do I say to stand up for myself! (link)
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Well if they come up to you and tell you that you are 'copying other people' or 'having different personality'.
You simply say "You're obviously blind because sweetheart I aint like that, you are the only bitchs I know that accuse me of such things and if I was, it's none of your business, because I am over being your friend."
Stuff between those lines.
I really hope it works out.
Good Luck =]
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Okay so alot of my friends are mad at ke cause they thinks I act like "12 different people" they think I change my personality around other people. I've talked to alot of people and they say that's not True at all. my friends were my absolute BEST FRIENDS no joke. A lot of you will say 'if there your true friends they will forgive you' but that's not how it works in this case. Anyways I told them I don't try to act like different people, I can say I'll change and stuff but you don't believe me. They are very confrontational and rude about it to. They find a whole bunch of reasons now to be even more mad. They also say I act like my best friend to much, but I don't think I do. (neither does anyone else!) please don't tell me to find other friends or something because I want to work it out but I don't think they do. What can I say to them? Please help!?!!! And also, who am I supposed to sit with at lunch? I have lots of other friends but the people that are mad at me asked me Monday "why do you act like different people and copy (friends name)??" and I was like "umm I don't know... I didn't think I did it but I don't know" and thy are like well we need to know a reason, there is always a reason for that it is not just "I don't know" so what do I say!??? This is like the pending question but I don't know what to say to them! Pleaseeee help ASAP!! Love you guys that help so much!! (and sorrry it's so long) :)) (link)
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Well you can't force yourself on someone who obviously doesn't want you.
I am going to be honest here and I will aplogize in advance of sounding rude.
How could they be your bestfriend if they all been bitching at you and rejecting being your friends? Is that, that normal to you?
I won't say "if there are you true friends, they will forgive you" Because I don't see what you have done wrong besides being yourself.
And I don't get why you are wanting to be friends with people who are rude to you and are constantly bringing you down, that is just stupid.
If you have other friends to sit with at lunch then I think you should do that or just talk to new people at your school.
And do yourself a favour, AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF, don't let them bring you down and accuse you of things you think your are not.
Trust your believes not theres. And please show them where they stand/
Good Luck =]
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I am a 65 year old male that doesn't know much about sex and relationships so I thought I would ask and maybe try this once to see if it was appealing to both of us.
Is it better to stimulate the clitoris with a finger or through oral sex with the tongue? (link)
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Actually this website is for any kind of advice and I don't see where it says not to answer a sex question.
But there is no answer to this question because it depends on the person, some women would prefer finger or tongue, so I say you ask your partner.
Good Luck =]
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Okay so I kind of got myself in a bad situation with 2 guys that really like me. I guess I've been leading them on but I don't like either of them. I just got a boyfriend that they don't know about yet and I really don't know how to tell them without them getting mad and not wanting to be friends. I'm the kind of person that can not hurt peoples feelings and I can't tell them straight up. When I tried talking to one guy he said he'd drive himself in the ground if he saw me with another guy. Help me please I really like my boyfriend and I don't want to him to get mad if I can't get rid of these other guys but I'm just too nice:( oh and I'm a 16 year old girl. Haah (link)
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You are not the first person to do such mistake and lead somebody on.
But I hate to break it for you, and tell you there is no other choice in this.
If you are as nice as you are refereing then you should tell them right away so they don't get hurt more and have more hope and then later when they find out, they would be crashed.
Plus it's way better if you tell them nicely than them finding out.
Good Luck =]
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Okay, I was dating this guy for about a year. Long story short. I was at his house the night i was robbed. My furniture, washer, dryer,iron and some jewelry was taken from me. I could not believe that he stole from me he seemed to be so sincere. He even helped me with bills and cooked and cleaned for me. I know he didn't do it personally , but i do believe he sent some guys to my house to take my things. So, i left him alone for a good six months now hes back to calling me again. I'm trying to be JUST friends with him, now he is offering me to come over and hang out, spend time with him. My question is what should i do? Of course he tells me he had nothing to do with my house getting broken into, but my gut is telling me otherwise. (link)
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Well it is very possible that he did that.
But at the same time, it could be otherwise. You could be wrong.
But as long as you doubt the guy, then don't have anything to do with him.
And make sure he knows it. Tell him right now.
If he did it, then he could know he wasn't smart enough and if he didn't then 'sorry life sucks like that'.
I don't really believe in concidence so gut can be on your side this time.
But don't act upon anything unless you are sure.
Good Luck =]
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http://www.spirithalloween.com/images/spirit/products/processed/01025188.zoom.a.jpg
im wearing this for halloween and im kind of second guessing it. let me know what you think (link)
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It's nice but not very creative =]
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ok so my ex boyfriend who is a total asshole is having a house party this weekend and i want to call the cops on it and get it busted. there will be underage drinking. i am not against underage drinking or anything but i do hate him and want to get back at him after he sent nude pictures of me around after our break up. so my question to you guys is whether anyone could find out that i did it. i wont tell anyone i did, but could they some how find out it was my number who called in? i really want to avoid drama which is why i dont want anyone to know. also do i just call 911? i am positive i want to call the cops and get it busted, i just dont know exactly what to do.
if you guys knew him you would hate him too. total douche bag.
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Honestly, I don't care what he did to you or what you want to do to him.
I care about the people in between that will also get in shit of trouble because of your grudge like that person below mentioned.
But revenge is revenge.
I have two things to tell you:
1. Call from a pay phone, and don't give out your name, no body will know who you are.
2. Living well is the best revenge.
Good Luck =]
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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!! (link)
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Simply, go out.
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what do girls like a guy to wear (link)
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It reall depends on the person. But if you ask me, then I'd say every girl likes a guy with a badass look.
Consider a leather jacket but don't go all the way to a leather pants that's just ...
A nice hat that goes with ur shit can be a good choice.
Good Luck=]=]
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So it just hit me that my brother doesn't use moisturizers or sun protection and all the other ladies use it so we definitely need to get him some because using acne medication will make his skin 3x more susceptible to sun damage and his skin is more nice than all of us (baby skin!).
I never really thought of men's moisturizing skin products and I never recall seeing some. So can he use...neutragena, etc or are there specific ones you can recommend? Thanks! (link)
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I'm not very sure about moisturizers for men. So I can't really help you there.
But I can give you natural recipes to do at home.
Easy and simple, also very good.
1st, Get a blender and cut one cumcmber in it. Then mash half an avocado. Put the egg's yolk, and add abit of honey and apple vingar.
Then let him put it on his face or body even for 15 minutes, and it's awesome.
Good Luck =]=]
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