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My name is Catherine, I'll be 15 soon. I have been a member of this site for about 2 and a half years. I love giving advice, and love helping people. My answers are honest, and I try my best not to give harsh answers. I know other columnists can be rude sometimes, I'm not like that.
My friends are my life, and I do everything I can to help them when they ask for my advice or help. I'm not close to my mom or dad. I have been through almost everything, so I know how it feels, and I usually know what to do.
I dont have one kind of question I answer, I answer all topics, about everything.

Ask me anything and I will give you the best advice that I could possibly think of.

advice

i just started to play the guitar & i would really like some advice on some easy & simple things to learn. or some basics that i will need to know.
thanks

melbays guitar methods is a great book if you want to start playing guitar, I learned everything from that book and im good at guitar already

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Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do?

If you think you are ready, then you should go ahead. But if at the last second you are feeling uncomfortable, dont do it. If he truely likes you then he will respect your decision. And no boy is worth it if they just want to sleep with you. good luck

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13/f/usa

Hey, I had this friend when I was in 6th grade,(I was 11 at the time) Let's call her carrie,and her brother used to always come home drunk at night. Well, she used to tell me that she was really scared that her brother would do something to her. Well one night, when he came home drunk, he raped her, and the night she told me, she committed suicide. Well, now I'm in 8th grade and the memory of her and her story just sorta haunts me. my brother comes home drunk all the time now, and to make it worse, he has anger issues. well, now I'm really scared that he might rape me. Can you help me please? I'm like really paranoid.

If you are really that scared you need to get out of the house. Tell a parent, tell a counselor, tell the police if you have to. Just getout of there if you truley think he i going to hurt or rape you. If you are afraid to tell someone, just try to build up the confidence to tell. There is someone you can go to and people that care about you will be there to help you get out of the situation. If he comes close to hurting you when he is drunk, then you need to lock yourself in a safe plac until he has calmed down, or cal someone to get you.

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So i gave my boyfriend a hangjob and i got some cum on my finger but i wipped it off on his shirt... gross i know but we were hugging and then about 40 mins later i masterbated. can i be pregnant. i dont ahve to feeling that i am but im suppose to get my period soon so hopefully i will know. please answer back!

after 40 minutes there is no way ur pregnant

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um is it harmful that i accidently swalloed a couple of my rubberbands for my braces..?

i keep forgetting to take them out when i eat,
so then late i notice one side of my mouth doesnt have it..
and then the other does, so i assume i ate it.


ahaaha.


uh yeah i think its okay is it?

I dont think it would be harmful to swallow a few, but you shouldnt get used to leaving them in. They might get stuck in your throat one day and that wouldnt be good.

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OK my teacher is holding tryouts for a solo to a good song on Wednesday. I know the solo really well and I've been practicing all week. I want to do it but i'm afraid if i get up there, I'll choke or something. I can't even sing in front of my mom! How can i overcome this by Wednesday?

I used to have the same problem. If you practice singing in a group of your friends then you will build up the confidence to sing by yourself. I landed myself a singing solo by using this technique. If this doesnt work out for you then you should laugh your ass off before you go on. Laughing relieves pressure and gets rid of the butterflies in your stomach...and not to mention it gives you adrenalin to help you song better. good luck with getting the solo.

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one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal?

When he said that he used to like you too, he probably thought it was a little awkward and then said just kidding. I know I would have done that with a guy. And he might have felt a little embarassed because thats usually how guys feel when they admit to likeing someone. At the right time you should ask him about it and find out if he was serious or just kidding.

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i need to know um.
im bisexual and want to make sure i am by talking to other Bisexual girls HELPP
THANKS

i am too. send me your screen name andwe can talk about it if you want

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i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help

You could start out with meeting guys that you like, but would never go out with. It's always good to have guy friends to give you advice about meeting guys. trust me, having guy friends can be more useful than having girlfriends. good luck(-:

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right i have this problem with new faces or lads i cant seem to look them in the eye when i talk to them not even lad who are my friends and have known for ages! Im fine with friends who are girls but i hate it when im talking to a new person or a lad i eather look at my feet and talk or look away and talk but i never look at them can someone help me please!! why do i do this and what can i do to stop this!! xx

when you meet a new person, its normal to feel a sense of shyness. Just try to look them in the eye. practice with a friend. if you have any guy friends just have them bring over a friend that you can practice with. i had the same problem when i moved to a school where boys are over populated. lol good luck (-:

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14/f

Okay, I'm nervous. My period has'nt come yet and I usually get it on the 25th of the month or before, never usually after. The first time I got it was on the 5th of the month and the second time it became irregular and didn't come till the 25th and since then on, that's when it comes. I don't know, I'm just worried, I'm not pregnant because I'm a virgin. I've had my period for almost two years so I don't know what's up. Any info. would be helpful guys, thanks.

P.S: I have a feeling it's gonna come because my face is all broken out in pimples which is usually a sign.

for the first 2 years, your period will be irregular. so dont worry about it. ive had this problem before...but its totally normal. once, i thought i was pregnant, but it turned out to be an irregular period. (-:

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :)

R u sure it is love? Well, if your 100% sure you love this person, and can't stop thinking about them, then you must love them! Ad to answer your question, it is possible to fall in love when you first meet someone.

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so i met a boy and we got kinda sexual at first then he asked me out but i dont really know him.. i said yes because we kinda almost lost our virginity together..
and now i want to get to know him
(dont say break up with him.)
but how do i get to know him?
what do i talk to him about?
when we sleep together how are we going to sleep without doing anything..
i really want a serious relationship.
oh and also
is it wrong to not like makingout?
and not makeout with your boyfreind but do other stuff?
thank you so much i rate fives if you try

you should talk about his interests. and theres nothing wrong with not liking to make out. I dont either!most people think it is weird, but we just have to ignore them. its fine to do otjer stuff with your boyfriend thats not making out. If you sleep with him, and dont do anything, thats not technically sleeping together unless you actually sleep in the same bed as him. If you have sex that kinda meas you slept with him. GOOD LUCK!!

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i like this guy who likes me as well but the problem is........ im going to high school and he's staying in middle school. he might ask me out and i don't know if i should say yes, or just stay single for summer and find someone even better in high school. help please

I think you should say no because between schools, you'd probably never have time to see eachother. I have to brothers in high school and i barely get to see them.(im in middlr school). Trust me, with all this homework and studying you wont have time for a boyfriend unless he's in highschool. Good Luck!

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does anyone know how to curl the ends of my hair?.... Plus i really want to make my hair wavy but i have no idea how!! (without usin hair curlers or wateva) please help me because im really bored with my style! its always down strate thanx ill rate 5 for any good answers

It really dpends on whether you want your hair permanently curly or just temporary. You can always buy one of those irons with the removable straightner. It comes with an attachment so you can wave your hair in two seconds...without burning yourself or your hair. Trust me. I tried this out today and everyone said i looked good. And like you I have my hair down and straight EVERY day....except today.

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Does anyone know if there's such a thing as a bra that makes your boobs look smaller? If so, do you know if it's possible for me to buy it in the NYC area, and also the price range that they cost? Thanks in advance..xox

you could always get a breast reduction. if thats not an option for you than you should just love the way you look and adore yourself!

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well my bf is reli down n depressed for no reason and hes on msn and im dont now how to cheer him up anyone hav ideas?

you could always try to see if theres anything u could do to help him. hang out w/ him more...be funnier and let him know that u care.

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trust me it's better not to tell it more embarrassing to tell than to tell

if you want to talk more personally, than call me at ********, i'll be home all nite tonite. you can trust me dont worry, you issue is completely confidental. Trust me it's better that i do kno!

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i go to wms in brookfield i know who you are and you know me trust me it's you least expected choice of who i am

R u-
Christina Abraham
Divya Sriram
Chrita Chelladurai
or
Annemarie Fernandes
And if not tell me who u r? please!!!

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i go to skool in wms though

i do too whisconeir middle school

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