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My boyfriend and I broke up and he returned my things...He was using the strategy to try and talk to me but i was working so he did not catch me home.....i am usually at school on mondays but i had to be at work because my boss forgot and put me on schedule to work....he thought i would be home but i was working....we ended up talking on the phone and he thought that i hd been hanging out with another guy...he didnt trust me....i didnt trust him either....the conversation ended in him breaking up with me. A part of me is relieved and another in denial......I still have some of his tees and hats and stuff like that....I want to return it but in a very classy way. Would going to his work and giving them back while he is on break be a good idea? Or just dropping a box with his things at his door step? I want it to be a pinch for him...I feel it's so immature of him to break up over the phone....I feel like if he saw me it would be a different story... (link)
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When I broke up with my boyfriend he told me to return all the things he got me because I didn't deserve them. I simply put it in a box and left it on his porch. I sent him a text and said his stuff was outside. (Since it was raining I didn't want it to get ruined.) It's easy and painless.
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I am thinking of having my birthday party at a hotel. I know it happens a lot but I dont understand how thats possible. There will be alcohol... obviously so everyone will be drinking and it just seems like a hotel room would be too small and sense we will probably be pretty noisy it seems like we would get complaints and be kicked out or have to pay extra or something. Plus there will be a few underage girls there so I wouldn't want the cops called on us... can that happen in a hotel or would they only tell you to keep it down?. I dont understand how its possible to have a party at a hotel. Advice, Tips? PLEASE!!! (and also if you know some of the best hotels to have it in that would be cool too. I live in Utah by the way) (link)
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I live in Utah as well, and I know things are a lot stricter when it comes to this sort of stuff. I have also thrown a hotel party with my older friend. I suggest if you have any worries don't let these under age girls come and check anyone's ID's, if that isn't possible then just get rid of drinking all together, rent a smoking room get a hookah and just smoke with your friends.
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Please, a direct answer to question, What is a painless way to committ suicide? Please no advise on help groups and please do not respond with reasons I should continue living. (link)
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It's very obvious the ways in which to kill yourself, you wouldn't have to go to this website for help. You're crying out for help.
Really. What will you be accomplishing besides hurting those you love?? I recently lost a friend to suicide and it is a serious thing. I'm hurt, I miss them, and there is nothing I can do about it? Do you really want to hurt yourself and others? You are being selfish.
1-800-273-TALK
^^Call that number for help.
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Hi. I am about to go crazy because my mom just won't listen to me. She thinks that my hair is too ugly and she wants me to wear clip in extensions. My boyfriend has told me not to. He likes to run his fingers through my hair. He hates them. My mom won't let me leave the house without them and she says too bad for him. Obviously, I'm angry. Before putting them on, she teases my hair so I can't take them off because after she teases it, it WILL look bad! Yet, it's embarrassing when I'm getting it on and he's like "what is this?" and one day he's gonna stay with a strand in his hand. Help! Btw, I'm 21 (link)
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Tell your mother you are 21, you are no longer a child and you can decide how you want to wear your hair. Your mother has some serious problems if she doesn't love you for how you look now.
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About my cycle, its like been going on for about 4 days now.
Its like a little too much now. Don't you think? (link)
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4 days is normal, some even last as much as 8-9 days. If this happens again during your next cycle and it is more than average it may just be your hormones adjusting.
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So like last week i finished my cycle as in the time of my month. That was a Wednesday. But on Sunday, i started to bleed. First it was spotting now its just like a really light period. But its more of a dark red maybe brown color and i have no idea what's up??
What's happening???? (link)
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It might just be left over fluid from your period that hadn't had the chance to drain yet. If it doesn't stop or you feel concerned call your doctor.
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I can be pretty emotional, and it gets irritating. I hate when people yell at me or get on to me. Little things can get me upset or cry. I would love some tips on being emotionally stronger. Im not sure if its cause my parents sheltered me quite a bit or what it could be. i just want to be stronger and not get upset over tiny things and cry or something. i understand everyones emotional, but i feel over emotional. i need a stronger backbone, and not let people get to me, and i can speak my mind and not hold back on so many things. Thank you! (link)
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Being emotionally stronger is tougher than you think. But it's possible. Every time you get in an argument or on the receiving end of a good yell. Simply think about why they are mad. Most the time people yell because they are frustrated or tired, if you just talk yourself up in your mind it becomes a lot easier. Also focusing on things you love helps you with your emotions and makes it so much easier. Take up a hobby like painting and get all your emotions out through their, you can do this with music too, or even video games. Hope this helps.
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I use to get bullied and now im scared to talk to people. I really want to make friends but people think because i dont talk that i dont like them or something. I started doing online school this year but i thought it would be better if i went back so i could at least try to make friends. Does any one have any tips on how to be less shy or how i could make new friends. (link)
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You know what I found when making friends. Most of them had classes in common with me and sat near me. Simply talk about assignments with them during class, do that and chances are the conversation will stem off. It may take a while but after a while I'm sure something will blossom.
Hope this helped! I know it can be hard to make friends, I was bullied a lot in Jr. High and the beginning of high school. But I found good friends and we're still friends now that school is over (:
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I'm a 16 year old girl and I recently decided to start shaving my pubic hair and now I have a red rash(I've had for about 2 weeks now but it goes away when I stop shaving)and when I shave it every night it hurts and gets more red? and I can never get it perfectly smooth either it looks gross...what can I do to get it smooth and make the rash go away because I don't want hair down there and I don't want it all red and disgusting? (I've never had sex or anything like that) (link)
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It's just razor burn, you're irritating your skin!
You need to let it grow back in until the irritation goes away, don't dry shave, and when you shave use a new razor. Shave in the shower, hope this helps.
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they say not to shave your public hair, but to wax it. i trimmed it and then shaved it and it came back, fast, thick and darker. its everywhere! but waxing would hurt and what is waxing down there? the top is easy, but what about shaving/waxing the hair next to the vagina or like practically on it? i hate hair down there! (link)
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Waxing. trimming, and shaving are all valid ways.
I used to wax but I found it painful and expensive. Shaving is cheaper, easier, and if you do it right painless. I find if you let it grow for about a week then shave it is easier to grow. Shaving anything, including leg hair, arm pit hair, or facial hair, makes it grow back thicker. I suggest doing this while you shower. I found that if you use something that you can lather, such as shampoo or a special shaving substance it makes it sooo much easier and smoother.
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I know it's kind of late for this but there is this guy in school that teases me during lunch everyday and I kind of like him. I thought he liked me but today he told me that he wants to ask this other girl to the school dance on Friday. He was gona ask today but my friends and I convinced him to ask tommorow. Nobody knows that I like him because I am too shy to tell anyone. What should I do? Is he trying to make me jelous or is he serious? (link)
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Well, why not wait to see who the girl he asks is, if it's another girl then you should just move on, if it's you, YAY! If he doesn't ask anyone, that just raises further question.
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I woke up at 3:00 this morning and my throat was sore. It started being sore yesterday and I also get shivering even though I am warm. But that has mostly stopped. My eyes were burning for a few minutes also. My mom just got over the flu, did I catch it? Please offer some home remedies if possible. Thanks! :)Oh and I am out of honey so I can't use that. (link)
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just lay in bed and drink a lot of water.
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Im always memorizing things in my brain il go thru day and have to remember tiny things.i cant miss anything out ilook up words or phrases icant remember need toremember IT HURTING MY BRAIN ive been like this the last week i need to tel a story my wayin my languge so it ALL out like i noticed lately the front of my brain where my forehead is is bulging dwn near my nose.it hurts im exhausted iwant to collapse in bed im so sad.ifeel lile icnt trustmy friends anymore idnt talk to anyone.im roling idnt want tofeelthis shit im exausted.imy thoughts are mudled from rearanging them al the time..too be perfect?im not diagnosed anything but depression,social anxiety.hel.im on lithium and prozac.ifeel so lonely.26/F (link)
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The drugs could be messing with balance of chemicals in your brain, if you started taking them recently it takes a while for your body to adjust to it. If it keeps up contact your doctor asap.
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My boyfriend is sick with a minor cold. This might sound dumb, but if I have any type of foreplay, oral, or intercourse with him, can I get sick too? I was wondering. Thanks! (link)
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You can get sick from kissing, sharing drinks, most anything. So I am sure doing any of those things might not directly make you sick. But, from physical contact in general it's possible.
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I'm 15, and the guy I like is a year younger. We started talking on Facebook, and he asked for my number. He always texts me but when ever he has a chance to talk to me in person he doesn't. We walk past in the halls if I'm not looking at him he will stare at me, but if I Am looking he will have his head down. He says he likes me but he likes the single life, he likes hookups better than relationships. He said he would ask me out but hockey takes up to much of his time. He said if it was summer he would date me but by then I would probably like a different guy. He says im going to get hurt by him even if he doesnt want to. He is always texting lots of girls and he told me that, plus most of the girls are my friends. He keeps saying that we need to hang out but it hasnt happened yet. Idk if I should move on if hes a player or keep trying because he's shy. So confused. (link)
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You are 15 and he is 14, there should be no "hook ups" Big mistake for him and for you if you end up doing that. Trust me I know, I lost my virginity to a "hook up" when I was 14 and it's stupid, stupid, stupid, 14 year old guys should no be players, and if he is giving off mixed signals such as these move on and find someone who is less complicated. Don't take anything to serious, you're only 15, but stay away from this kid. He just sounds idiotic, you have you're whole life to grow up, there will be plenty of "players" So just give yourself all the time in the world to grow up. Trust me.
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I made chicken for the first time on Sunday. It came out decent but the chicken seemed a little dry. What are tips for making chicken really moist and juicy but at the same time making sure it's cooked all the way? Is there anything I should add to it before, after, or during the cooking of it?
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I love cooking chicken, I find marinating it helps a lot, I like marinating mine in liquid smoke Lemon juice and pepper and a few other spices are nice as well, marinate it in a zip lock bag the night before you cook it or even a few hours before, you can even buy premade marinades. Another thing is if you are cooking it, take it out and cut a slit to see if it is done, if you take it out at the right time it's perfect, leaving it in even a few minutes past fully cooked can make it dry. Hope this helps (:
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what does getting laid mean? (link)
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sex
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how do you finger someone? also, what if you have fake nails on? would it hurt if you fingered someone with fake nails on? is it even possible not to hurt someone with them on? (link)
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Aaagh!! Yes it hurts a ton, whether it's a boy or girl, one time I got all dressed up to go on a date with my boyfriend for our anniversary, I dyed my hair, got a new dress and got my nails done, I got fake nails with french tips, my boyfriend and I got into it and I ended up having to snap my nails off, during foreplay not only did I hurt him I hurt myself. Buy we recovered, bottom line, they don't feel really nice.
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Ok i know this is going to souond stupid, but im willing to take that risk. ok how many holes does a girl have in her vagina? Because i looked and there was only 2 (counting your butt hole) but wen i wear a tampon i can still pee. Me and my friend were discussing it (i have NO idea why) so just give me an anwser please! (link)
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You have two holes, but the reason you pee and can keep your tampon in is because you insert your tampon vagina and when peeing your urine comes out of your urethra which is basically the tube that empty fluids form your bladder.
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Can I put my period on hold for a day? I heard vinegar works but how? (link)
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I wondered this last summer, my ex-boyfriend and I were always working so we didn't see each other a lot, maybe once or twice a week after work and the weekends, well I had not seen him in a week and I wanted to have some intimate time with him, I read online that some people will drink some apple cider vinegar, so I filled up my water bottle before work with about a quarter cup of apple cider vinegar and cranberry juice, ti slowed the bleeding a lot and it stopped for maybe two or three hours. So yeah it works but not for a whole day.
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