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im a girl, im 18 and in a commited relationship. Im online frequently, on my home computer. Go ahead and ask me questions if you need advice im here for you. im always here to help.
E-mail: gummibear1993@hotmail.com
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I'm wondering what color I should dye my hair. I dyed my hair black about 4 months ago. My original color is dark brown and my skin is like caramel. My hair goes a little past half of my back. I'm thinking I want to dye my hair like a light light brown so that it looks almost orangy, or like a deep red, its kind of reddish purplish. Tell me what you think. What other colors could I dye my hair ? (link)
hey i know what you mean iv gone from a light brown to red to orangy to blonde to black from the sounds of what you look like i think i would maybe try to stick to a bit of darker colours so like dont dye it bright blonde but a light brown might be nice or maybe a medium brown and put highlights? hope i helped

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Ok, Im planning to get my hair cut like maybe layers or something and I was wondering what you guys think? Any ideas for a different hair style or maybe how I should wear my hair for the time being. Heres two pictures of me, they dont show my face to well but they are all ive got:

http://usera.imagecave.com/sango1993_069/School_Webbie_For_Webteam/MeSide.JPG

http://usera.imagecave.com/sango1993_069/School_Webbie_For_Webteam/Rhodriactsdrunk_4__0001.jpg

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ok first of all i just want to say you have beautiful thick full hair and i think it might look good with a little bit of a wave or maybe try straightening it hope this helped

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Hey I am going to get active in paintball, I started last week, and I really would like to know a good starter gun. Friends have told me parahnah, A5, cheap ions, and a nice angel. But, as you might guess, my friends are noobs to, they just talk the talk. So i am asking people on advicenators (the experts) What is a good starter marker? (link)
i paintball pretty often and for a noob i think that a spider gun would be best their easy to use and great for beginners also they come in different colours in some areas good luck hope you become an expert

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where can i find a lime green bikini?
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im not sure if they have their summer stock in yet but i know that last year aqua rose got lime green bikini's in last summer so maybe check there


Ok as I type this I'm watching A Cinderella Story, and it just past the part where she was texting him at school and they're like 5 feet away from each other. Anyways, does anyone know where I could get a phone like hers? With the starts and everything?!

I'm in Hamilton, Ontario Canada by the way. :] (link)
i suggest u just look on big shot cell phone company websites like:
www.rogers.com
www.telus.com
www.sprint.com
and maybe other cell phone companies that are local

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k there's like a problem with my computer's norton anti virus thing. well it did expire but i som how unknowingly uninstalled it and i gave my computer a system recovery thing and it didnt come back even though it came with the computer when i first bought it. so i decided to use the disk to reinstall it even tho its out of date but it wont continue cuz the old version is still there and it says to uninstall the old version on add or remove programs thing so i went there and found the program but when i click remove it wont get removed. im thinkin of buyin the updated norton antivirus but i dunno wat if i install that but it wont continue since the old version is stuck on my computer and i cant get rid of it. this is all confusing to me. (link)
i would say maybe talk to the computer teacher at your school or take it into a computer shop and have them deal with it because i know that my brother tried to deal with a simular problem last year and just about crashed our computer and it took my hours to get it working again and so i wouldnt be messing around with things you dont understand you could get virus' and spywear and that is just about as bad as it crashing the hard drive

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13/f if that helps. okay theres this guy.. well he was in my schools since ever, but never had been in my classes. and this year he is, and well i have a crush on him! i dont really know what to do or anything.. but soon i thought he was cute, and i'd find myself doing little things to maybe impress him.. haha i always do that whenever i like someone! is that a good or bad thing? i dont want to like scare him off, haha. now hes in 2 of my classes, and another, but thats like a gym class.we both like generally the same sports, though hes probably better than me at them XD. and before i liked him, my friend said we'd look cute as a couple when we sat together in math (assigned seats for a while) and i just denyed it, cuz i didnt like him like that then. i can talk to him easily, and im not like one of his friend-friends, but sometimes i talk to him during class. ugh.. i wish i didnt fall for guys this easily! what should i do! i mean, im not just gonna ask him out, because i dont know if i really like him, or if he likes me back like that, and i dont wanna get embarrased over it and stuff. also it would probably ruin our friendship which like just started a couple months ago! Lol. ugh, im so picky, if i wanted a boyfriend i'd be really specific, and even though i'd like a boy, i wouldnt really want to go out with them, since i want my first bf and first kiss to be like perfect, or something i wont regret, really. decisions, decisions.. i dunno what to do. just be his friend? or like.. maybe more? haha it feels so weird to type this. sorry this was so long.. if it was long. (link)
well first think about it remember u dont want to rush into anything and get hurt and if you think he would be boyfriend material than maybe ask some of ur friends to hangout with you two sometime maybe go to the movies or the skate park or to the mall so you can get to know him and if he turns out to be a jerk than he will never know

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15/f

Alright, so in the middle of summer, I started going out with my brother's best friend Dean. I've known him and his twin brother Ross since I was a very little girl.

We went out for over a month a a half and during that month and a half, it was the first time I've been happy(I come from abuse, rape, etc.) But for two weeks, he didn't talk to me, or visit me, or anything. He had football practice everyday for three hours during the afternoon, and he just blew me off, but since I was so happy with him, I didn't ask about it.

The day after we started talking again, we hung out and ended up sleeping together. Then that Saturday, five days later, he broke up with me, claiming he needed to focus on school. But I found out, that he used me. He said this "den we got the dark haired freshman i did shit wit her den after that every thing got all weird and i ended it and she knew about the last 2 relationships and idk if i really loved her now that i look back on it. she could have been a rebound girl and i didnt even relize it which makes me feel bad cuz i dont want to have rebound girls anddat means i used which is REALLY bad." Then he went out with my best friend Marcy and planned on using her for sex as well, but she found out and dumped him. And he lead me on for over a month.

I talk to him on and off. It's hard for me not to. I hate him for the crap he's put me through. And we get into a lot of fights. His twin brother told me not to talk to him because he'll just hurt me again. We got into an argument last night and aren't talking because he took my mp3 player and refused to give it back. I got it back today and there were voice recordings on it the first one was "Kaylee is a whoreeee" and the second one I couldn't understand and the third one he was just rambling on.

Now before I ask this, even though he put me through hell, he's helped me a lot too. There's a lot of crap going on and he always helps me and gives me the perfect advice. What I'm saying is, he's a good friend to a certain extent, just horrible at love and crap. He helped me through a lot of crap that he did keep to himself. But at the same time, he took my virginity and used me for sex. Should I continue being friends with him or is he even worth it? (link)
honey im really sorry to say this incase it upsets you but hes not worth it now i have been in a lot of relationships that have been bad and trust me if you want to be depressed than stay with him but if u want to be happy than you need to stay away depend on your friends and if you only got a couple maybe join a club that you enjoy and make some new ones i did and now i stay away from those guys and iv been so happy since so trust me leave him

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ok here it goes me and this kid Mike were dating for a while he was 16 turning 17 and i was 13 turning 14 and his aunt that he was livin with said that he was to old for me just cuz i was layin on top of him makein out with him and she kicked me out but he moved back to northport with his rents and then oneday he called me up im lik OMFG and we humg out that next weekend and now he's stayin at my house cuz his rents r fighting again.!and last night i said i Fuckin hate you right now and i called him a bastered and he said he would talk to me but he ain't sayin a word. i try sayin sorry but that don't work what should i do? (link)
well first of all i dont think hes too old right now i like a 20 yr old and im only 14 and so yeah and about the fight maybe do something special for him like maybe get him a funny card or something but just remember it always passes

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I need help to find a sample of a babbysitting ad.

What if my parents work and the job is out of my neighborhood?

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i cant help you with the ad but if its out of your neighbor hood than maybe ride ur bike or skateboard or maybe if u enjoy long walks walk i babysit basically everyday after school and its in the town next to mine and on the weekends and any day i dont go to school or in the holidays from school i have to bike in if my parents are working so maybe keep that in mind

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is there anywhere were you can make your oun website for free? ive googled it but all of them theres a hosting sight, so instead of www.love.com or whatever, its www.love.wetpaint.com and i was wondering if theres anywhere without the "wetpaint" part at the end? that will just let you leave it? or do you need to pay for it? if you do where is the cheapest place to get it? (link)
a free website maker is www.piczo.com its really cool and its what i use

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Hi. I really want my belly button pierced. Just my mom won't let me. I'm 14, and have 2 holes in my ears and a cartaledge. My boyfriend is getting his eyebrow pierced this weekend by his friend that does piercings professionally. He is the best in my state. I'm going with him, but I want to get my belly button done too.

Any ideas on how to talk my mom into it? (link)
Hey,
iv got the exact same problem and im glad i dont have mine peirced. I just got out of surgery and the actually had to cut open my belly botton. they told me if i hve had it peirced it could have killed me so im waiting til im older not much older but atleast a year or two so my body has time to grow and so i can become a healthy young lady than im going to have it peirced and i sugest u wait to.

sleepiesheep


Recently my sister got a game for her PS2 that let's you sing. I've played it a few times and it got kind of addicting. I've done really good on it and I think I actually kind of have a good voice. My parents and sistre and brother say I have a good voice and so do the rest of my extended family. I think it needs some work. But now I was thinking about it and I want to get someones opinion who will be honest with em about it that's not like in my family or one of my friends. Can anyone tell me where to find someone who won't try not to hurt my feelings and just be plain honest? EVen anyone on here? (link)
American Idol if ur over 16 or Canadian Idol is starting soon too so you could go on there and Simon would give u an honest opinon

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i have a nextel i850
and i was wondering with free nights and weekends, the nights start at 7:30pm.. and go till when?

thanks (link)
nights start at 7:30 pm and go til midnight. hope i helped.
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Im loading songs onto my iPod and I can't think of any songs that I like... do you know where I can find lists of songs? Either that, or can you tell me some songs that you like?
Thanks :) (link)
www.songlyrics.com it will list songs by every singer u could imagine and they have lyrics on the site too! hope i helped.
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Like I said before, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, I love her with all my heart, and I know she loves me, however, I have noticed over the past couple of months that things are slowly changing...example, we have not been intimate for like 2 months, we just dont spend as much time together as we used to. There are a couple of things that she has wanted me to do, and I have failed to. When i spoke to her about "us", it became very clear to me that she loves me deeply, i can see it in her eyes. She doesnt call me like she used to, in fact I dont remember the last time we had a make out session. I need some serious advice on what Im supposed to do, how am i supposed to deal with all of this "rejection"? (link)
talk to her about how you feel. she might feel the same way! just get her alone and talk to her one on one so she will understand this means so much to you. I hope i helped.
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me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad? (link)
yeah that is bad....if i was u i woul dtalk to him and tell him you dont like fighting with him and if you do continue to fight after you talk to him about it then i would end it i bet you are a really nice girl and one that shouldnt get hurt because of a guy and if you do end it your friends are always there to help you. hope i helped.
**sleepiesheep**


Well. There's this guy I really really adore. I used to be close friends with him but I'm not anymore...:(. Anyways I wanna find some old blogs of his and I was wondering if you all could help me! :D Please, if you can, list all the diary/journal/blog sites that you know of. Thanks! :D (Yes, I do rate!) (link)
i only know of one www.opendiary.com. hope i helped.
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my girlfriend keeps asking me why i love her. and i want to give her more reasons then 4 so can someone give me some reasons ty. (link)
you could try smart, funny, fun to around, beautiful, easy going, that she energenic (if she is). hope this helped.
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i like this 1 girl more then a friend but she has a bf and a couple of my frinds are saying im obsest with her but im not.they say i am because i hang out with her alot and i sit beside her everyday in school at lunch.plz help
what should i do.
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try talking to her tell her how you feel maybe she will feel the same way and if she doesnt then atleast you tried. If she likes you back then you might get her if not then atleast you know and you tried and you can always continue being friends. hope i helped.
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