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Does she really love me?
Like I said before, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, I love her with all my heart, and I know she loves me, however, I have noticed over the past couple of months that things are slowly changing...example, we have not been intimate for like 2 months, we just dont spend as much time together as we used to. There are a couple of things that she has wanted me to do, and I have failed to. When i spoke to her about "us", it became very clear to me that she loves me deeply, i can see it in her eyes. She doesnt call me like she used to, in fact I dont remember the last time we had a make out session. I need some serious advice on what Im supposed to do, how am i supposed to deal with all of this "rejection"?
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Plan a night out with the two of you, something really romantic. Open the door for her, hold her hand, look like you really tried to look your best, etcetc. Do something to make her giggle, smile, get butterflies... and if nothing happens...Just talk to her about this.
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You really have to talk to her about how you're feeling. It makes it easier if you write it down in letter form and let her read it. Then talk.
Something is going on with her if she has done a sudden turn around. Were the things she asked you to do for her more important in her eyes than yours maybe? Is that what has her upset?
Try to think back to what went on right before she started being distant. See if you can't figure out what it may be that's bothering her. If you can't think of anything, write a letter to her and let her know how you feel about her.
Then talk, talk, talk.
Good Luck!
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ok i think that i could help you but what you need to talk to her about why she does not call or why does she never spend time with you and is something wrong if she loves you deeply and you love her deeply my opinion is to take action i mean is to watch out and if you trust her than you know nothing is wrong everything is alright and if she does not want you anymore than let the past be the past and strat afresh new life with her or without herthat is all i have to say i hoped i helped out with your situation
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talk to her about how you feel. she might feel the same way! just get her alone and talk to her one on one so she will understand this means so much to you. I hope i helped.
**sleepiesheep**
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