about

Hii i'm Andy, short for ANDRELLA.I'm 20. Born in LONDON, lived a Sweden, then came to NEW YORK CITY when i was around 14. I love new york, its the best, but i do miss Europe every once in awhile. I speak English, French, and Arabic. I'm 1/4 Swedish, 1/4 Lebanese, and 1/2 Italian. I'm very social and outgoing, i love to go out and have fun. Ask me anything and i'd be glad to help you out.

Xo. Andy.

advice

My boyfriend keeps having dreams of me cheating on him and I haven't and I told him I never will and I won't
but I heard dreams can be the opposite of what they are
I just want to know why hes having these cause its confusing
He gets them like a whole lot
one time he had it 5 times in a row.

i think hes having these dreams not because it IS gonna happen, but because hes so worried it will. This idea of you cheating on him is what hes constantly thinking about, you just need to show, and keep letting him no that will never happen so hes not always thinking about it. All good boyfirends worry about it, your lucky to have a guy who really cares ;-)

xo.

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What would be the best thing to order from a Mexican Restaurant thats diet friendly? Would a plain beef taco with cheese, lettuce, and tomato be alright? Any opinions? Thanks!!

i'd go with chicken quesadilla, or something like that, stick wtih lettece tomato, cheese and red meat tend to be problem foods, but what you said early is pretty healthy mexican wise. But the healthier i beleive would be chicken.

xo.

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16/f so a few months ago my mom found tequila and vodka in my bedroom and so now and so i haven't been allowed to have sleeepoversss and it really sucks :( lol. ((like she thought i was totally straightedge and then threatened to send me to rehab and all that)) but um today im supposed to go to my friends house and her brothers having a party so i realllly wanna go but i'd have to have a sleepover so my mom wouldn't know i was drinking.. but um how could i convince my parents to let me go (they don't know its a party) ... because i really can't go forever without partying .. haha

yeah, sometimes parents blow. So im not sure wether you wanna convince them or if you want to lie to them, so i'll try to answer both ways haah. There are a couple things you could do.

1) tell them its totally unfair that there not letting you sleep over because you've "learned your lesson" and promise its not a drinking thing, just a hang out.

2) you can tell them you promise not to drink more then one beer, and then go to this party, have more early on, then towards the end stop and your parents can pick up.

3) act like tis no big deal, and that you just miss sleeping over

4) be completely jhonest and say that you will be responsible.

just let them no you miss sleeping over and having fun with your firend, and that they cant keep u from sleeping over forever. and see what they say. haha good luck and have fun.

xo.

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does anyone know where to find really cute babydoll shirts for a decent price ?

examples :







have an idea?
i'm going shopping at south county mall tomorrow & i wanted to know which stores have the best deals on those kind of shirts. i looked online but its not really helping. so please answer asap.
thank youuu

I couldnt really get your links to work, but i love baby doll shirts, and i always find them in hollister, abercrombie, and definietly anthropologie. I dont really no what mall that is, but all these stores have good online websites if you wanna order.

xo.

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ok so i dont know all the words but i need to know what the song is called and who sings it please! kiss me under the milky twilight leave me out on the moonlite floor---------(dont know) --------so kiss me! i know its not alot and some words are prob wrong but thanx to anyone who helps!

Sixpence None The Richer- Kiss me.

xo.

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http://www.wetseal.com/productDetail.asp?mi=1300&style=38384578&size=M,913&color=549&added=true&token=dJbSlZB0iq6G1iCv8TxUjZpQH4SRf8fn72fO%2Fsrgcx1OYbFn9IN5Qskscw%3D%3D

^So basically, I love that.
And I was wondering how I could wear it to school without making it look too fancy?
Maybe like a thing white zipper jacket? or something...
itd look weird with jeans right? I'm not sure how long it is...

id wear a jean jacket, i wear my dresses wtih those too. Im not sure how short that dress is but it would also look cute with some gray leggings. Also if you wanna wear a white or gray tank underneath it it would make it more casual.

xo.

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how long does it take
like how many years of smokeing, that your lungs give up

my dad has been smokeing for around 13 years and im stressing, how can i get him to quit

sit him down and explain to him how you feel, tell him youd do whatever it took to help him quit and how concerned you are. I used to smoke, my brother approached me, and helped me get over it. although i had only been smoking for a year or two, but honestly an extra person to help makes the difference. Let him no its possible, and that your there to help.

if u have any specific questions drop em in my inbox.
xo.

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16/m .hi, well seeing how its the summer and theres no school, im going to sleep at about 2am, and wake up at around 12 pm, but when i wake up, i feel really crap. i have a really mild headache, my chest hurts, my eyes are itchy,and my face and head feel hot, even though the window is open, and i just generelly feel horrible, when after you wake up youre supposed to feel refreshed and relaxed, but i just dont. whats up with me? i dont want to go to sleep earlier, because like, its the summer.

i have the same problem, i'll get home at like 3 am and wake up real late. im not really sure why we feel like crap i just feel like our bodies are just kinda exhausted. and yeah wen the a.c. isnt on and we open the windows instead i feel worse. I dont think your sick i think its pretty normal, wen i wake up i make sure i have a glass of orange juice or start being active and i usually feel better.

xo.

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okay. im going to the beach in a few days and i am really white. i want to get a tan, but i dont want to burn. i want to get a natural tan though. wats the best way to get a natural tan.

i would lay out for smaller periods of time, if your at the beach for awhile lay out for 20 minutes, then go in the shade of put on sun block (lower numbers like 15) this way you wont burn but you'll be building a gradual tan. I dont know if this is just a day trip or if its a long period of time. If its a day trip go with a tan lotion lay out for 20 mins, then put on the sunscreen, then after awhile re aply tan lotion and continue.

xo.

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I'm 15/f.
There's this guy, and when I see him, it's always in a group.
Anyways, it seems like he sits/stands by me alot.
Examples:
I lean against a car, and he does also.
I am playing a board game on the floor with 2 other people. He comes and sits right by me (is much farther away from the next person) and asks to join in.
I lean against a bed while sitting on the floor, and he sits on the bed behind me.

But the thing is, he doesn't look at me often... deliberately? I'm not sure. He doesn't even look at me when he's right by me.

Does he sit by me purposely, or is it just random?
Why doesn't he look at me? I don't think I'm that painful on the eyes. Is it because he just doesn't notice me?

Thank you.

I obviously dont know him as well as you do, but it seems to me like he likes you, but hes just being shy. Either that or hes being friendly. Boys can be complicated but if i had to guess hes a semi-shy boy who likes your company. So if you like him definitely pursue it.

xo.

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Heyy, does anybody know of any really cute hairstyles for short hair? My hair is about 1 inch below my shoulders, and I'm sick of wearing it scrunched, straight, in a ponytail, or a half ponytail, or pigtails. Can you please help me with some really cute hair styles that are simple but totally cute? Thanks a bunch!

I dont know your style, but i love to put a few curlers in my hair like two or three big ones, and sleep in it. Then in the morning i take them out brush them threw, and it makes a few totally natural waves, its really cute and doesnt look too done or worked on. It also gives your hair some volume.

Other ideas would be like a plat. Just tie your hair in a loose low braid in the back, its classy and cute, and real easy. Also using barrets is a cute way to do your hair.

xo.

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So i accidently dropped my nail polish on my brand new coach purse, and i tryed to get it out with nail polish remover, didnt work. it got on the handle which is off white, and its water proof. So what can i do to make it go away? oh and its to late to return it =[

if its nail polish try scratching it off with a penny, also tide to go pens, it got nail polish off my shoes.

xo.

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1.are uggs still in style?
if so i saw some off brand ones at charlotte russe for 20 bucks.. and i wanted to get them
just because ive been lookin for them for awhile.. anyway
2.im not poor i just wanna get a pair of boots like that style but dont wanna pay like 100 bucks for them. do you think people would think im like poor or something because i got imitation uggs? oh and im black too i dont wanna look like a poser :/

1) they were in style last year, i'm sure people will wear them this year as well. i saw the ones in charlotte russe, if u like them you should buy them they look like the real thing.

2) i doubt anyone would care or take the time to notice if there real or fake. i spent a lot of money on two pairs of uggs and i almost feel like its not worth it. And your definietly not a poser, anyone can wear uggs wether there real or not.

p.s if you end up getting them you'd save more money for other shoes, like flats. Which tend to be cheaper but also kinda in style.

xo.

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&& he asked me to hangout, ii felt bad but ii had to say no, cause ii'm wiiht my cousiin, btu ii really liike hiim and he doesn't know iit. but ii thiink he iis going to calii thiis weekend so ii won't see hiim for liike a week. ii def. blew iit diidn't ii? uhh ii hate thiis!!

why dont you call, text, iim, or emaiil hiim saying you'd defiinetly be iinterested when he comes home? or another tiime? explaiin to hiim that you wanted to but your wiith your cuz, and goin away soon.

xo.

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he said "we need to take a break" but i asked his friend and he really broke up with me because he met another girl. so was saying "we need to take a break" just a nice way of breaking up, or could he be serious?

i think if his firend said he met another girl then you should find someone else. sorry, boys can be anoying, but dont waste time worrying about it if hes gonna do that to you. you could also ask him about it to know for sure

xo.

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hey so i was wondering, is it weird to like both rock and country? its just i get made fun of a lot for liking country and i dont understand why its so weird.

um that doesnt even make sense. i like all kinds of music, and i defintiely love country as well. People can be so bizarre some times, i dont think i could live without both rock and country music. But i guess its all in opinion and theres nothing you can do to change that.

xo.

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i need a really really good song about smokin pot and feelin good

Rolling Stones - Stoned
Eminem - The Kids
BB King - Champagne & Reefer
Slightly stoopid- mr.collie man

those are the ones i listen to that happen to be about smokin pot, you can probabaly google and get some good ones to.

xo.

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alright, i've been searching everywhere for a certain haircut for my face but i can't find the right one. Here are my descriptions: a long/big face, with a wide forhead that goes back pretty far, and a somewhat large nose. right now, i have my hair somewhat long and very straight, and all one length. any ideas? thanks in advance

id say maybe side bangs, face frame, and some long layers? it will probabaly compliment your face as opposed to the straight hair, and also its a good change. A lot of girls are doing this, it adds interest in your hair, and takes less work to make it look good.
p.s a picture of yourself could help with some more results on your question. just a suggestion.

xo.

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okay so basically i like this boy named matt. we always cuddle and hold hands when we're at our friends house but the only problem is theres another girl.. he has been basically in love with this girl kelly for the longest time. matt & i live in new jersey and kelly lives six hours away in a different state. he said he's seen her 5 times in the past 3 years..so nobody really thinks it could work but they both like each other. my best friend megan said he talks & acts different around lauren & i as opposed to other girls so how do i get him to like me more than only a bestfriend? are there suddle things to do? any advice would helpp =)

the only way to solve this problem is to kinda bring it up. and if you qwanna be more subtle then next time your holding hands or cuddling, or just flirting in general just be like, so what does this mean? and try to steer the convo that way. up the flirting to show that your interested, and i doubt he only has best firend feelings because you guys seem like you like eachother anyways. So next time try to bring it up, and see if you can mention kelley. i doubt his relattionship could work if shes that away and he should realise that. especially if you two act all buddy buddy.


xo.

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14/f

I've been on pointe for 6 months now, and I have to say that it is the most painful thing ever. We're mostly only doing stuff at the barre right now, but whenever we do anything my circulation is cut off starting at my toes. And I usually get to a point where I feel like my big toe is literally bleeding.

No one else in my class seems to be experiencing any pain.

I'm in russian pointes with regular ouch pouches (used to use plain lambs wool then switched in the same pair of shoes)


should i give up now or endure it?

i really hate ballet, it's just so torturous. but whenever i'm not taking dance classes i miss it really badly. so i don't know how i feel about it after all.


advice appreciated.

hey, i went threw the same thing. I did pointe from the age of 12-15. It was so much, and honestly the most painful thing to deal with three or four times a week for three years in a row.i loved it, but in the end it was too much for me to handle. i went to such extreames to ease the pain, like knub my feet with ice during breaks, wrap my feet at home etc.. but in the end it was a lot, and i had to make the choice between doing something i enjoyed, or not because the pain was a lot and the commitment was a lot. i did end up quiting, and i missed it at first, but i new it was a good decision. so for u, i say just see what outcome you think would be better for you and make the decision. if you choose to continue its an awsome thing to do, and to experiance, but if u dont, you may regret it at first, but in the end it might be worth it

xo.

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