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dreams
My boyfriend keeps having dreams of me cheating on him and I haven't and I told him I never will and I won't
but I heard dreams can be the opposite of what they are
I just want to know why hes having these cause its confusing
He gets them like a whole lot
one time he had it 5 times in a row.
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Whenever someone has a discussion with me that leads to the topic of dreams I like to point the following out. Dreams are thought pictures based on fears, happiness, what we want to achieve.
Its all based on your thinking as your brain never shuts off so wen you dream you have dreams of whatever has been at the core of your thinking all day while you sleep. He's experiencing this because he has a deep rooted fear you'll cheat and won't let go of it.
You need to tell him firmly you would never cheat and even if you wanted to (which you don't) you would have moved passed him long ago. Reiterate how important he is to you and talk about your relationship.
If he cannot see this than maybe you should move on as he will drive you nuts over his insecurities. You both need to talk and find out where this junk started with him or if someone cheated on him before. You have to work through it as these dreams, thoughts, fears he's voicing need to be dealt with.
This isn't a weird situation but it's not a typical or normal one to deal with. Once you've started talking about your relationship everything should be fine and he'll let go of this insecurity.
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According to Gustavus Hindman Miller, dream expert extraordinaire to dream of your significant other being unfaithful signifies a happy marrige (and probably relationship in your case). So yah it actually means the opposite.
The dreams are probably just freaking your boyfriend out. Even though the dream means exactly the opposite, I would probably be a bit paranoid too. I don't know why he's dreaming about this all of a sudden, but maybe once he stops worrying about it the dreams will stop too.
Good luck with your relationship and marriage! (Just kidding)
::Jasmine::
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Yeah, even though it is just a dream i think he is scared for it to happen and can't stop thinking that it maybe will and he doesn't want to lose you.
or if you ever had a boyfriend before it could be that he keeps thinking you'll want to get back together with him. :) maybe you should ask who the boy is that your cheating with for some more background info =]
Hope i helped
<3 xoxo
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i'll try not to go all psychological on you, but according to Freud's theory, dreams represent or reveal a person's most hidden desires. I agree with the the one who gave you advice that it maybe because he's afraid to loose you, but i guess the reason he may feel this way could be that there's something (i don't exactly know what) but something he might be afraid if you found out you might leave. ok just don't jump to any conclusions, it's only a theory, but talk to him, to see if there is anything more to this dream, and what is causing his fear.
It might be just a dream but, if it's continious there is something, but only you can find out. i know this might not have helped you, probably made you more anxious, but if you talk he might open up to you. but seriously dont worry about anything, i'm sure it's probably just one of those weird dreams. but takecare.
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It's just a dream. Doesn't mean anything.
Most of my dreams are relatively psychotic, but they don't predict or influence anything.
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i think hes having these dreams not because it IS gonna happen, but because hes so worried it will. This idea of you cheating on him is what hes constantly thinking about, you just need to show, and keep letting him no that will never happen so hes not always thinking about it. All good boyfirends worry about it, your lucky to have a guy who really cares ;-)
xo.
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