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hey my name is Alexa! everyone calls me Lexie. i live in Tennesse and love to cheer. i love to give advice to people cause i think i can really change some things. i know i mite be young but i can really help. you can ask me anything you ever want! if u want u can im me anytime you want. i am always on most of the time. well hope i help yall!!!

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hello..i am 16, and turn 17 in february.. i was wondering peoples outlooks on me. i lost my virginity when i was 14 to the first 'highschool sweetheart'.. then i didnt have sex until this past summer. and once i did i was addicted. my sister said it probably runs through the family but im not sure. i have now 'hooked' up with 4 guys, including the highschool sweetheart. thing is, two guys were only when i was totally wasted so i dont know what to think. please tell me your outlook on my situation and why i might be 'addicted' to sex.

well if people find out about it people will start to say stuff you know how highschool is.
just dont let anyone know and once you have sex you always want it every girl does. trust me

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Okay..so on saturday my best friend is having a party and her cousina nd I met over the summer and I had a crush on him but theres this other guy that I wanna make jelous and soo do you have any ideas on how I can flirt with the guy from the summer.Btw 13/f and my brotherw ill be there

just make sure the guy you wanna make jelous is right there and just pull the guy by his shirt and if its a dance party start dirty dancing in his face. or just start wispering in his ear. and touch him alot and hugg and if you get the oprotunity to make out with him in frot of him

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I started my period back in June. This month I got it on October 10-16. Then I got it again October 19-21. It stopped for a few more days and came back again on 24th ( It only lasted a day ) Is there a reason for gettin it 3 times in one month? I know they will be irregular for a while but is this normal?

it has happend to me. if it hapens agian the next month you need to go to the doctor

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14/f ..i know this sounds dumb but i really want to know....my boyfriend and i have braces and i was wondering if they can really get stuck together when you make out?ill rate high for a good answer ...thanks

no its just a joke....promise it hasnt happend to me

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srry this is not a question but my sn is wilsonharley75 no spaces like i put be4.

okay umm your on my buddylist right now!
lol

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hey well i like a guy at my school . he's the same age as me but in the grade below.. all my freinds are raggin on me about it.. anyways. he only likes me as a friend but i like him as moer than that. the weird thing is that he's always calling me and wanting to hang with me.. i just dont know what to do about all of this. i wanna go out with him but then again its weird for a girl to ask out a guy! can you help me??

yes i can help.

lets see just cause hes in a grade lower means nothing trust me all of our guys go for girls in the lower grade and if they make fun of you for that their not your true friends.


he probably does like you he just doesnt want to admitt it, no guy does. i know weird but true.
umm you just keep talking to him and if nothing gets better hes not worth your time your probably to pretty for him anyway

if you need anything else babe just ask!

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13/ F

Hi, I live with my grandparents. My grandmaw doesnt want me to wear thongs or use tampons. I was in the shower last weekend, and I had two thongs in the dryer with my clothes. My grandmaw took my clothes out and saw them. I think she threw them away. So let me get to my question; what can i do about her, because she is so old fashion, how can i have thongs and use tampons with out her knowing about this and doing something stupid.

Thanks, i Rate 5's

signed,
Confused

just explain to her about it. and if you have to wash your thongs when shes not home or get your best friend to wash them and about the tampons just hide them

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How much of a chance is there of getting pregnant if a condom was used, and it was checked afterwards for no leaks and there wasnt any. What is the chance of getting pregnant, i know nothings 100% sure...


i'll rate 5's just for a decent answer

about 95%

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ok some kid that i used to be friends with now i am not he got my phone number and he calls my house acting alll stupid and curses also i dont want my parents picking up and him curseing at them cause i wont be grounded for like ever.. what can i do to make him stop calling i rate 5s

tell him you will call the police
block his #
go up to him at school and confront him

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does anybody know where i can get some really good quotes to like put in my profile???

i do just im me and i will give them to you

Ooh so blond3 x0

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how can i get help to stop studdring

speech theropy helps alot my ex got that and hes much better with it now


or practice the words you studder with the most and just say them over and over agian at night.

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me and my friends are each going to be one color for halloween... i am going to be blue. Does anyone here know where i can get like blue fake nails...blue lipstick... and blue fake eye lashes? does target have it?

go get blue tips.
hottopic for te eye lashes
and lip stick target

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i well i got a cold sore yesterday and its not herpes or nething..and i have abreva...but my ? is..do u kno of ne way to make it go away faster?

thanx a bunch!!

its prolly just a fever blister i get them all the time you buy this stuff at walmart just for them and they go away after 3 days

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how long should a tampon be in ur body? like if i am at school from 7:00 to 3:10 which would be 9 hrs!!! du i need to change my tampon in skool...probably but i am not sure! pleese help i rate high!

oxo * oxo

umm yes your suppose to every 4 hours.
and if you dont you can go into shock.

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im more of a sports girl and i was thinking about joining martal arts again(i had to stop when i moved). the problem is i dont use tampons. i am worried about getting a leak when i do kicks and stuf (i have to wear white). how should i keep this from happening? should i start to wear tampons?

it would help to try tampons but just if you do wear pads change it right before your pracitce time

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Is there any way on aim you can sign on more than one screen name at a time?? If yes, how??
Thankss
Ill rate 5's
HELP

yup,

you sign on your sn your currently using then go to my aim manage link sn's and then you just do what it tells you to do!

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ok.. i kno having sex is a big thing anme virginity is something i could neva get back my boyfriends and i have been goin out 4 2 yrs and the subject about us haveing sex came up about 2 months ago and hes not a virgin and im not either but i told him i was(long storyand weve been goin stedy and i love him ... uis 13 to young to have sex and is there any way he could find out im not a virgin......

okay 13 is to young but oh well.

yes a guy can tell, if you have it with him he will know cause you will be loose and cause your cherry is poped.

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WHat is "friends with benifits?"

a friend you can do stuff with like make out and stuff and it wont mean anything. like it doesnt mean yall are together.

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me and my bf just kissed yesterday..he did it so unexpected i got shocked..and im a little werided out cause i dont think i kissed right and he kissed weird...i love him so much nd it doesnt matter to me..but it just seems weird...i dont know what to do...and me and him want to kiss more

was it a pop kiss or making out?

well my first kiss was kinda weird cause i thought i didnt know what i was doing but you cant really tell someone how to be a good kisser you just have to go with the flow.

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Ok, i haven't gotten my period since middle JULY. My mom is getting worried but i keep saying nothings wrong. BUt im not so sure. Does anyone have an explanation for this?

well did you have sex?
and if you havent had one since JULY you really need to get checked out cause thats not really normal and that could be bad.

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