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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do (link)
I think that it is ok to still love your old girlfriend, yet also have a new girlfriend. If that happened to one of my guy friends I'd try to make them feel better. Message me back and I can keep talking to ya


Heyy everyone. I just got over a minor soore throat and a cold. But now I have a really really runny and atuffy nose. My throat is alot better, it just feels tight when i swallow. Is there anyway I can make this head cold go away before 7:00 tonight? thanks! (link)
advil or sumthing


i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok??????? (link)
If there is a girl that you like try asking her out!! But just having a girlfriend for no reason isn't good!! Message me back if ya have to and I'll help ya out!


ok i have a problem i wrote this embarssing email to my friend and i told him stuff lik i lik him and really ambarissin stuff lik that and i wanted to kiss him i fell lik he doesnt lik and he read and he didnt care but he sent it to his step brother and his step brother sent it to everybody in my class and i said some stuff bout a couple of them and i didnt want them to no how much i acctually liked him and i dotn no wat to do i really wanna cry im so upset plzz help (link)
Just make sumthing up and say your little brother or sister or cousin or somebody was mad at you so they typed it.


ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!! (link)
Message me back with your ages and Ill help ya ;)


ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them? (link)
It's up to you...if your ok with them knowing then go ahead and tell them


I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou (link)
Do not change your personality!!!!Whatever you want but dont change your personality!


When my boyfriend and I are sitting down and he puts his arm around me and pulls me into him am I sopposed to put my arm around to or just lay on his chest? What should I do? (link)
Lay on his chest!


I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??

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You could try singing for a concert or something like that. Or start out with a smaller group then work your way up! Hope I helped!


Theres this guy online that wont leave me alone. He's so perverted and i have no idea who he is. hes not from my town but he always tells me that he sees me and he tells me what im wearing. hes always saying stuff like how much he wants to fuck me and he just says really nasty things. hes really violent too, like if i dont answer him RIGHT away he'll flip out and call me names, so im scared to block him or anything since he knows what i look like and he "sees me all the time" what should i dooo? (link)
Get a new name


ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help (link)
You really do need to stop. When you feel like you want to hurt yourself then try calling a friend or do something that will keep you entertained so that you will forget about it.


Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas? (link)
My life is the same way. Try calling someone in there or watching tv or maybe going somewhere.


I have a friend at school, his name is Tyler. He isn't your popular jock. No girls like him. Just recently iv learned he likes me and would want to go out with me. We are very good friends.
And if I went out with him and we break up, I'm afraid it would ruin our friend ship. What should I do? Help!!!!!!!!!!

Please reply ASAP (link)
omg I have the same problem and the guys name is the exact same lol but i have a b/f lol


im 14/f i love in washington.. i moved here from texas in like the 4th grade.. and for spring break im going back there to visit. im quite pale and alot of girls there are tan.. i dont want to stand out and be really white compared to them.. so how do i get tan without getting orange!?!?! thats the last thing i want to be! -thanks, i rate* (link)
You could maybe lay out in the sun for a lil bit each day or else go to a tanning bed


I have piano lessons and I love it. My mom says that im probably going to quit because I dont practice. But i do practice! She just never listens! I really really really dont want to quit Piano! Music is my life! I have an absolute passion for it! I LOVE music!
Ana (link)
Just tell her that you do practice and your not going to give it up becuz you love it. Tell her that shes so used to hearing the music she doesnt pay attention


There is this guy I met that doesnt go to my school but I know who he is, his name is Jordan. And well he is like the hottest guy on this planet and well. I don't think that he likes me, and I don't even know if he even knows me because I have never talked to him, I just seen him at my basketball tournament. ANd well I really like him and I want to ask him out. Do you think that I should get to know this guy and ask him out or just ask him out? And how would I ask him out?
Who ever answers my question I will give them a rating of 5. Thanks a lot. (link)
I think that you should get to know this guy before you ask him out because if you dont no him and he dont no you things arent gonna work out how you want them 2! message me back if you have to and please rate


My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!

Feelings from the inside out,

Jess P.S- I rate HIGH! (link)
The same thing happens to me!! And I hate it!! Message me back and I'll keep talking to you!


Would it be safe to say im in love if...

he's always on my mind

i danced with him and every time i think about it my heart literally skips a beat

i cry when i think about him leaving me for a different school next year

i think you get the picture....
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Yea, I think you can say it! I always think about my guy and I've told him that I love him! And you kinda sound like you like him more than I like my b/f!! hope i helped!


Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.

I will rate the first people to give me an answer. (link)
Yea I think it would!!


i am getting a cat soon...i dont know if it is a boy or a girl yet but, my problem is that i cant think of a good boy name or a good girl name. if you have any suggestions...please tell me! thanx! :) (link)
It depends on what color you want!! message me back with the colors your thinking about and I'll let you know!!




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