Q: I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

Q: im not in any of my friends classes and i feel depressed ive had such a bad day.. and im really starting too get back at the "im ugly" stage

[its not really about advicenators]

Q: im starting 8th grade soon and im sooo stressed. i have to get all a's as always...i have to get into this privite school next year which means i have to apply and do well this year. i also have to do ballet..pointe..guitar..the play..and more..how do i take the stress off?

Q: Last year I was part of a drama group. Near the end of the year we teamed up with one of the other groups to use them as extras for the play. I met one of the guys from the other group and we spoke a couple of times. A few months after the play, I added him to my MSN list and since then we've talked every once in awhile. He's really friendly so it's easy to talk to him even though I don't know him too well. Recently I found out he got a job a store near where I live, and the last time I went I happened to run into him after his shift was over and we sat and talked for a little while. The point is (there better be, I've been rambling for awhile) I was wondering how I could get to become better friends with him. I mean, I don't know if talking to him more often on MSN will lead anywhere, and at this point we aren't close enough for me to suggest meeting somewhere to hang out. I'd be glad for any suggestions, thanks!

Q: ok here it goes: i have some kind of persperation problem. like i sweat all the time! i put on deodarant, wash and everything. i dont have b.o either. ive tried many different brands 2! it shows up on my clothes and its embarrasing. how do i control this problem? thanks 4 the help!

Q: um calves...the muscles in the back of ur lower leg...mine r gettin hard to stretch and i have bad knees....how accn i stretch them better...thanx!!

Q: i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what?

Q: Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*

Q: i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
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Q: I am pretty actively involved in musical theater and have an audition coming up soon! For my audition, I need 2 sing a song, but the problem is, I am having trouble finding a good song 4 my voice. Does any1 have any song suggestions for an alto girl? (Broadway or Disney songs are preferred most by the directors, but I'm willing 4 other suggestions 2!) Thanks all!!

Q: im 15 and a female! ok i went out with this guy about a year and a half ago and i made a big mistake (whole other story) and since the day we broke up i have had a major crush on him and EVERYBODY knew it cuz i have a big mouth and i don't keep it shut lol and well me and my cousin are very close or at least we were. she never met this guy untill a few months ago but she knew i would do anything to go back out with him. even though she was aware of this she still went on with her usual ways of flirting with him. this made me furious, but after about a month she forgot all about him. then one day i invited her to a party with me where i knew he was going to be there not thinking of the conciquences! she was all over him and it made me soooo angry. NOw they talk on the phone all the time i mean they don't even live in the same state! she told me that she wasn't even interested in dating him cuz she doesn't date guys out of state! so i am confused she is constantly calling me asking me to go places with them but i am not up for all that junk i don't want to sit there while they flirt. i think she might be doing this to be mean. but im not sure, i am now over this guy but it still P's me off to know that she is getting the attention of the guy i once dreamed of! please help cuz i really am confused about what i should do about the whole thing!

Q: how will i no if i found the right person. Cause i think i found him but im scared to ask him out?

Q: im 14... and i dont really have a lot of gurlfriends, i from a family with 9 boys.. im the only gurl, anywho... Well i play the guitar in this band i'm in and i have the biggest crush on the singer *Brandon he is like the ultimate guy, we hang out all the time.. he calls me and stuff were really close!! and i just cant seem to find the right time to tell him, or anything and i have NO idea what to do cuz he's like my best friend... ya know!! i just really like him a lot and dont wanna blow my chance, or plussss do you think i should even tell him??? pleaseee help me i am sooo confusedd!! please ILL RATE!

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