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Ok so there is this guy that I like and my friends tell me that he seems like he likes me too because he keeps looking at me all the time. But then my sister was talking to him online (she found his sign name and added him) and she asked me who he was and he said his name and she told him that she was in middle school so he said "ewwww". Then he lied and said he was a year older. Then she asked him if he was a friend of mine and he said "No, I don't know geeks". Then he blocked her. I am so upset. What does this mean? (link)
I think it means he is a lier and i dont think you should like a guy like him.what if you end up being his girlfriend and he sarts lieing to you.I think you should go and look for an honest guy!!!!!!Hopefully everything works out!!!!!


*Goodluck*


ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely. (link)
I think you should be honest with her.After all she is your BF and if she was a true BF then she would understand.And tell her that noone realy likes a slut.And if she dosent like the truth and she gets mad at you then she realy might not be a true BF.But dot just burst out with you dress like a slu*...Tell it to her in a nice but truefull way!!!


*goodluck*


(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do? (link)
First off what the hell is he doing in the girls restroom.I know what you where doing in the restroom before the guy came in is somthing personal that you wanna keep to yourself.But when he came in that is somthing you should tell a grown up about and what he said to you is somthing you should deffintly tell a grown up about.Even though it is embarressing you should tell someone.And i still dont get why the hell he was in the girls bathroom and that is somthing you could use aginst him if he tells someone about what happend.

*Good luck*


Hi, I'm the one who wrote about my boyfriend who so rudely dumped me without as much as even TELLING me, and then saying that I didn't have feelings and desserved my heart broken as much as people wanted too. Now I am a generally nice person, but this got me so upset. :( Well now hes going out with this other girl, and they keep iming me to tell me what a "loser" I am and how I can't "get" any boys. I blocked them but I still have to see them at school. By the way, their screennames are pyroboy9977 and XoCheerQtXo3222, if anyone would like to talk some sense into them.

Sorry for wasting your time, but I'm really stuck here. And I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. :( (link)
There acting stupid.Why the hell are they going to keep IMing you after he broke up with you.And he shouldnt even be saying how you cant get any boys you got him didnt you.Tell them to stop fuckin acting like a baby and telling you all that shit cause he and his girlfriend are the losers cause they cant find anything better to do so they start messing with you.Gosh they are so fuckin premature.Tell them to go the hell away and stop bothering you they need to learn how to act there age.And if they keep on messing with you just ignore them.They need to grow up and act there age.And why is his grilfriend messing with you she dosent have nothing to do with yall breaking up.

*Good luck*


Okay theres this girl and she lives with my now because her and her mom are moving and well i think i might be attracted to her and well she has a boyfriend and i totally act likehis friend to his ace but in reality i hate him im so jelious i mean she is so perfect for me and she doesnt even realize how perfect i would be for her! Shes really pretty big whameys if ya no what i mean and just well shes so beautiful and everything im so jelious of ehr boyfriend i dont no what to do i cant tell my mom and dad how i feel or they will totally freak and i cant tell her or she'll never talk to me agian and i just so confused i dont no what to do! Please HELP ME!!!! (link)
Well since she already has a boyfriend the best thing to do is when they break up tell her.Or just tell her now how you realy feel.Get more friendly with her so when she breaks up with her boyfriend one day you could be her next.Try treating her special and stuff like that.

*Good luck*


Hey i wanted to know on this can you change your log on screen name thing..? and if so can i keep my advice column and keep all my answers and ratings..? ill rate high.. you might want to cut the instrutions down for me if you can cause ill get confused easily.. thanks in advance! (link)
Sorry but you cant change it.You need a paid account.


Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?

Thanks xo0ox (link)
You need to tell her to stop he is not her boyfriend he is yours.And why is the guy who gose out still going out with her?And why are you still her friend after what she is doing?If she was realy your friend she wouldnt be telling your boyfriend to dump you and go out with her.You need to tell her to stop.And stop trying to take your boyfriend cause if she was realy your friend she wouldnt do that.


*Good luck*


i love this girl. But not in a love love way. as a friend, and i am a girl myself. but i love her alot. noo not as in girlfriend love dont get the wrong idea. but when i told her i loved her she thought i loved her as in more then a friend and she blocked me on aim. what should i do? i tried calling but she wont pick up (link)
Your friend should stop acting like a littel girl.She should have gave you time to explain what you meant.Try to go to her house and explain what you meant.And if she wont answer the door try writting her a note explaining what happend and leave it by her door.And she should have gave you the time to explain cause friends tell each other that all the time.

*Good luck*


hey everyone. first of all i am a 14 female. there is this girl, yes a girl, and she is 17 female. i have liked her ever since LAST august (2004). then, over christmas break i found out she was gay. hang on, let me go back. at the beginning of july(2004) is when i first met her. we started becoming friends around the end of august. so i would say i started liking her at the beginning of august. i play softball from july-the end of september with her. that is the only time i talk to her.. once softball was over last year, we werent friends anymore. well, we were but we never talked and i think she forgot about me. well, ever since softball has been over since last year, she is all i have thought about, and i mean every day i would think about her. every time i think about her i get nervous but happy. like, i dont no, i cant explain it. i dont think this is a crush either. i would do anything for this girl. i mean i would even take a bullet for her. but, now since softball has started, its gonna take a while for us to be friends again. meaning, she hasnt talked to me since softball has started this year. and i no once games start we will become friends. and, she is the only girl i feel like this for, i have never felt this way about ANYONE either. but, she also has other friends on our softball team that im sure she hooks up with. i mean when i see her, i dont no its just shes soo pretty and i cant help but stare. so, my question is, do you think this a crush, love, or obsession? one more question, does this mean i am straight, bisexual, or lesbian? (link)
Well for your first qustion i think its all i mean after all you would take a bult for her.And for your second qustion If you like boys and if you like that girl more then a friend it probaly means your bisexual.

*Good luck*


Hey,


DOes anyone know a website where i can find cute dools and stuff for my website? Thankx i rate 5's for any answer!! (link)
Here are some websites:
http://www.pinkgarden.co.uk/topsite/index.php
http://www.purrfx.com/topsites/go.php?id=2&page=2
http://www.purplebliss.tk/
http://www.dollspot.com/top.php
http://www.dollzmania.com/

Those are some i go to

*Good luck*



well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/ (link)
You should say that it realy hurt you about him saying he hates you.Ask him if he realy hates you or not.Somtimes people say they hate someone cause there just mad at that person.He is the one who said how can anyone hate you.But it realy dose hurt to have someone say they hate you.But if he realy dose hate you you should just move on with your life cause if he where realy your friend he wouldnt say that.And he should be the one saying sorry for what he said.Even though you realy love this person and he says he hates you and realy means it then you should just forget about him.But he might have been kidding.

*Good luck*


I'm in love with my best friend. I've liked him for as long as i can remember, years. I haven't liked any one else within that time period. But we're best friends.

I've tried telling him, and he just wasn't (won't) feeling it. he has liked me before, but i kept it as friends.

But now he likes one one my good (female) friends. And he is constantly trying to be around her, even though they wouldn't be friends if it weren't for me. She has a boyfriend of her own. He just dosn't get the picture.

It kills me to see him try for her. Giving her the attention i've been dying for, for years. It really breaks my heart and i don't know what to do.

He already knows how i feel. I just do not know what to do. Or how to mend a broken heart. (link)
Well this may be hard for you but the best thing to do is just give him up and go on with your life.If you have been trying for years and he still dosent want you the best thing to do is just go move on with your life and find another guy.And you or your frind needs to tell him to stop trying cause she already has a boyfriend.

*Good luck*


My friend, Holly. She use to be awesome. Were cousons. Now all she thinks about is being a hor. well at least she acts like one. Shes a bitch. What should I do to remind her shes my friend?

ill rate high.
ill make fav columnist.
ill do anything but i need help!
thnkz (link)
Tell her how you feel about how she is acting.If you keep how you feel about she is acting to your self then she might just keep acting like that.To remind her that she is your friend do the things you use to do with her like haging out and stuff like that.Let it be just you and her hanging out.

*Good luck*


Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird? (link)
i think its cute.Unlike some guys who just go ahead and kiss you and you dont wanna be kissed.I think it would be cute.


hey my name is ashley and im looking for some cool new things 2 add 2 my profile like quotes or daily tips. I went 2 google and everything and i cant find anything so would someone please give me some quotes or anything i can put on my profile! thx i appreciate it.

O u can Im me on AIM its modeltownerfan (link)
hey here are some websites i found:
http://www.dailyinspiringquotes.com
http://www.links2love.com/love_quotes.htm
http://www.fukkad.com
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/Links.htm

Hope i helped my screename is p3a3n3d3a




I am getting closed to 18 and I have never had a boyfriend. Now, it seems kind of weird, but I have no problem with it. I've had plenty of shots, but I'm not rushing anything and dont plan to waste time with the wrong guy. {I'm very picky.) My family, on the other hand, makes it seem like a big deal, when it's not. They are always asking me why I haven't brought any guys home, etc. My younger sister, who happens to be a huge slut, made this ridiculous remark that I am a lesbian. Now her and my parents joke about it. And sometimes I think they really think that. (Which I'm not. I'm totally against that stuff and they know it.) Whenever my sister and I get in fights she's always like "Atleast I've had a boyfriend." I know I'm not experienced and stuff..but there's no one I'd want to go out with at the moment. I've already explained this to my family, but they still get on my case about it. I used to be able to ignore it easily, but now it's hard. I already have a low self esteem, and they arent making it any easier for me. Any suggestions? (link)
That is rude when your famly calls you a lesbian even if there joking or not and atleast your not a slut like you say your sister is.Try your best to ignore those rude commets your sister and family say.To me your the kind of girl who is looking for the perfect guy so you wont have to get your heart broken like some girls do.And its good to be picky about a kind of guy you want.And you need to tell your family how you fill about those comments.Its your life so why should they realy care if you have a boyfriend.Dont worry about your sister saying atleast she has had a boyfrien cause all you need to say to her is "atleast your i am not a huge slut".Talk to your famly and ask them to stop calling you that cause they might take it as a joke but you dont.

*Good luck*


ok so im matured (and beyond ;)) but i still havent had my period. my friend has and shes like "oh you shave your armpits? i dont have to yet" nd all this other stuff like so shes not matured as much as me but yet i KNOW she has it! hmmmmm. . .?

13/f (link)
It realy dosent matter if your matured or not.Its your body when it is ready for you to have your period your goning to have it.Your still young so you got alot of time.So dont worry it may come soon.


do i deserve another chance if i got advice and relized my problems? (link)
Yes.As long as you dont do what you did.Everyone desvers another chance when they have relized what they did and they wont do it agin.

*Good luck*


I have a new boyfriend & he's my first. He tried to kiss me the other day & I was ready but I was worried I wouldn't know what I was doing. I made an excuse that I had a sore throat. Obviously, I do not want to have to do this forever so does anyone with experience have any kissing tips to give me (a first timer).

Thanks,
Elle (link)
There are some tips at http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/kiss.html
they have tips on the kind of things girls need to need to know about dating and stuff like that:)

*Good luck*


Does it bother anyone else when the members of this site give smartass answers, like "Well that sucks", "Your dumb", "I have no idea". This website keeps getting more and more of these users and personally it bugs me. Anyone else agree? (link)
Yes.It is so gay when they do that.They think there funny but there not.




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