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I am having the hardest time losing weight in my stomach. I eat pretty well (recently I've been really good about eating...very few carbs, a lot of fruits and vegetables). I am fairly think everywhere else (not very toned...but thin). I hate workign out...i occasionally run but i hate it so its rare. however- my stomach is huge. its fatty, and i have rolls- its awful.

what can I do to fix this- and fast!

Thanks so much! (link)
Simply do 2x25 Stomach pulls a day
Your stomach will be normal in 1/2 months
You arent fat... you just dont have muscles at your belly


19/f
Okay, so long story short, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months, but we dated last year for a few month and have known each other since we were kids. He had a REALLY rough childhood and basically has been on his own since he was 12. Over the past year, it has become more and more apparent that he has serious psychological problems. His whole life, he has fought people and that combined with his good looks, it's as if he feels like people owe him something. He has cheated death several times and continues to do bad things. After we got back together, he confessed that he was addicted to crystal meth. He said he wanted me to stay but knew that I had every right to leave. I do love him and I couldn't imagine the thought of leaving him. He promised he would get help as soon as he got a new house and settled in(his job moved closer to me so he got a house about 30 min. away) Well over the past few months, he has actually gotten better and had quit but I wasn't holding my breath because I understand how addictive the drug can be. Everything seemed GREAT. He moved into his new house and I noticed those same weird actions like when he was using (not sleeping, tons of energy, bags under his eyes) He told me a couple days later that he was using again. My first problem is I'm worried that his use of dope will put me in danger (although he never brings it around me) but also because of his drug use, he is constantly depressed with himself and his actions. Although he has an amazing job and can afford drugs plus a nice house and nice truck, he is in no way happy for himself because he knows he is letting me down. Even though he truly cares about me, this drug and his past actions have torn him apart and he takes his depression out on me. Half of the time he picks at me, tells me I'm unappreciative, says I'm a spoiled brat and I don't treat him right. Which I know is completely untrue because I have stayed around when most wouldn't, despite everything he has done. The other half of the time, he apologizes for his actions, says he's sorry for not being the man I deserve. His failure causes him to be more depressed. It's a constant cycle and I feel trapped, but the moment I even contemplate leaving him, I feel horrible. And not because I feel like I HAVE to be with him. I truly WANT to. I know it's not my responsibility to help him, but if you had any ideas how to, that would be great. Also, how do I cope with this myself? Thanks. (link)
Stop it right now..
His enemys can use your death as a revenge


I get horny a lot and nothing can help my needs...there's guys I like and I know they like me or are attracted to me but they won't make a move they stay as friends even though they're single. I know I haven't had a boyfriend before but I do know how to treat a guy right (sexually and non sexually). What do I do?
P.s. I don't want to make the first move. (link)
ok keep in mind that sex is 20 min. but can has huge impact. i think you should think about having sex with someone you really like


So...I'm a girl, and my dream is to be a director when I grow up. My dream has been coming alive over the past couple of years. I have a youtube channel online where I make music videos. I have some of the equipment like...3 Tripod's,2 Camera's, Clap boared (Where you take the top and slap it down and then say ''ACTION!''), and a really good editor which is $75 its called Sony Vegas Movie Studio HD 11.0. I'm also very mature and serious about my career. I'm also making a zombie movie in Jan. I have Actors, and Actress's.


But anyway I wanna make my career grow more! So like I wanna know the other equipment that I need to have. Also like some rules for directing like(Can you write your own movie then direct it yourself). And stuff I'm gonna need to know when i become a director like for example ( How old does an actress need to be to do a nude shot) Also do we pick whats it rated? Questions like these mature stuff like I know that actress/actors can't chew gum on set...something like that I wanna know these things for being a director!!! (link)
if you really want to know all the stuff... mail me at retry32@hotmail.com i will also send you resources for movie composisting if you want.... i can also show how to actually insert virtual objects in a take and how to SFX


So, I went to a small house party about two months ago. It was fun, and I got wasted. Like, pretty bad. The next morning I vomited about five times and felt terrible until late into the afternoon. That was the first time I had gotten that bad. Though it was really fun to be drunk, my body now cannot do alcohol. Any time I try to drink, I feel nauseous just from the taste. Now that I know my limits, I'd like to drink again, but I can't! How do I get over this? It seems like classical conditioning, but the extinction process is taking way too long. Some help would be appreciated! (link)
i had this with coffee... try not drinking for 1 month at all


Okay so i realized i have a hug fascination with meeting new people celebritys & all . I actually think i wanna make a career out of it like a club promoter , party planner something in that nature but how do i go about it & wat do i need to get started ilove partying & planning & designing soo i think this field would be good ALL SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME (link)
try study event organisation


Okay, so I need advice on how to deal with my parents' extreame aggression.

Here is the thing, I am not a perfect child, and I know I can do wrong sometimes, but sometimes my parents get mad for littlest things. Their way of dealing with situations is not pleasent. Whether I deserve the trouble or not, this is usually their dealing process.

1. Extreamly loud shouting (not bothering to listen to explanation)
2.Hit me/Throw stuff at me (they have punched me, pulled my hair, whipped me with a cord, slapped me, etc. I wouldn't considerit child ABUSE, but rather excessive force.)
3.Threatening to kick me out/police station (I've been taken their, and kicked out of the house on a cold night)

What should I do? I don't know how to deal with their anger rages, and all the hurt... (link)
ok. they arent allowed to hit you. tell them that they cannot just hit you (when they are in a good mood) also show your wounds and do some dramatic cryish beg for mercy. then they will realise


urgent I'm a female 15 yes and this afternoon I had sex with my boyfriend. The condom was pretty tight and he was afraid that a bit of cum may have leaked out into me.But neither of us were sure and it might not have done, I daren't tell anyone I told my friend but she can't come with me I'm at work tomorrow and have no money as it's a sunday the youth clinic isn't even open and I don't know what to do should I leave it or what?! Monday and tuesday I have doctors appointments already and my mums taking me so I can't go to see the doctor then what should I do?!" (link)
I don't think you are pregnant.
You can buy one of those ClearBlue testers if u want to be sure


me and my best friend (girl) we kissed im single but shes not, so we asked her boy if it was okay if two girls kissed and he said it was hot, and he asked if me and her had kissed, we said no. we lied to him...and now me and her would be kissing all the times. at school, her house, at the bus, basically every time we are alone. I don't think i mind but, the thing is that before i kissed her i kinda use to like girls, and guy too..but now I'm afraid shes bi, because shes my best-friend; i told her that this could ruin our friendship, but she said it wouldn't. oh and she also told me i cant go around kissing other girls...just guys...
I'm 16 and we live in Texas... okay thanks. =)
.:. should i stop? or just keep going? thank you (link)
Keep going...

Btw no one is lesbian.
You can only be straight, and like girls more then guys.


my mom ceps taling me to clean my room.Because my gramuy is coming to stay with us in 11 day (link)
Put all the clothes in your closet.
Make a "Biohazard" area in ur closet for old clothes.

Put some stuff in other rooms etc.
idk

Be creative


what are the lewies dot structures for traditional metals(D block)?
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Is it possible to do a Lewis dot structure for a metal such as gold or aluminum?

For example, would "Al [three dots] Al" be correct since aluminum is content with 6 valence electrons instead of the usual 8 (octet rule). How would you do gold or copper?

My son's teacher has asked him to draw a lewis dot structure for a metal.
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You can't simply draw a Lewis dot structure for a metal, you have to know the metal. In the case of copper, the electron from the "s" shell is moved to fill the "d" shell, so there is only one electron in the "s" shell. One would simply write:

Cu

If you had a pair of coppers, you would write Cu:Cu

Gold is essentially the same.

(Parenthetically, Lewis dot structures are not particularly useful for most transition metals.)


I recently got a Venus fly trap plant and it's super small. So the chances of a bug going into it is very slim even if it does attract bug. So I fed a dried up bug that I would to it but it open back up with the bug still in it a day later. I just killed a bug in the bathroom a couple minutes ago and fed it to it so hopefully it will eat it even if it is a little squished. So is there a special way I can feed it when it's indoors like over the winter? Any funky concoction? ;) Thanks (link)
DONT EVER GIVE DRY BUGS.
It kills em.

You can give them REALLY SMALL parts of worms (let em dry for 1 day)

You can give ants... or any bug. (with some blood you know :) )

some videos of food

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymnLpQNyI6g

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvxdZLVRk68

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGfWnHtjHyM


hi my name is ozzy and need a girl i am 13 and i am 207 pound i like girls i can cuddle with and have fun with i am not the one to be in a girl pants 24/7 and i want some one that like me for who i am (link)
zane is right, and you are too young for serious edating


ok im a 9th grader and i have gone out with thi guy off and on scienc 7th and we been through alot we wouldnt fight but everytime we would break up he would go out with people i dont like or people i thought were friends and all of them were useing him for something. with every realship i ethier faught them or was about to. and he AWLWAYS cheated on them with me saying he loved me i said to break up with them then he said he couldnt lose his bet.so we went on and ect. but now were in high school he got a girl from a diff school and last week he got caught steeling from lunch and got 3 days supended then got in a fight with his step dad bcuz of it and got moved to his dads and now i cant see or talk to him I DAY DREAM and write his name without n=knowing i love him so much i would do anything for him but now he is gone what should i do. my bff is like his bff and he tells her he misses me and i cry when i hear things bout him. im so confused what to do im just so in love with himm:( (link)
buy a webcam and skype with him omfg this aint 1914


I am from India and in 9th grade and there's a guy in my class and i kinda like him. I want to know what he feals about me without giving him a hint that i like him.I want to built a relationship with him and want him to be crazy about me as i am about him and to do so i don't wanna flirt or do something wrong that will spoil my image in school.My image in school and in front of teachers is good and i don't wanna spoil it. It's India and rules are quite strict......
Please help if you can. (link)
use classic tricks... ask some math questions... then biology questions to laugh... then talk about annoyin teachers. thats how you can do it


18/f.
my boyfriend and i have had a terrible relationship. alot of jealously problems and non faithfullness. we still love eachother, the problem is sometimes i feel like im falling for someone else. the idea of something brand new seems so nice to me. but my boyfriends my best friend too, were somewhat attatched to eachother. when we seriously broke up at the beginning of summer, i met someone else. hes 21 but absoultely wrong for me. he does alot of drugs, doesnt have a job, and alot of other things. we hooked up alot but i could never be with him because i loved my ex. i feel like im just so more sexually attracted to the 21 year old. WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS. i dont want to like him but sometimes i miss his smile. my head says stay the hell away from this kid and my heart melts for him honestly. this sounds really lame but i was so depressed i went to a phychic. she told me between my boyfriend there is no more passion between us. i guess i sort of answered my own question. i just dont know what to do? i feel like sometimes i play a doubled role life where i keep calling him my boyfriend but my boy/ex whatever we are i'll hang out with him the next week hang out with the 21yr old. im only 18 should i have to decide right now? or do i keep things going the way they are... ive never been so stressed over this. (link)
really hard to awnser because idk why you broke up on your ex. but ok... you still love your ex, that 21 years old junkie is no good for you... hes prob. just hot.(and a junkie.) you can decide what todo gurl ^^ -Patrick


17/F
The other night I had this strange dream and I'm wondering if anybody can maybe tell me what it could mean?

Now recently I've been craving Ritas Ice Pumpkin Pie. So the other night I had a dream that school has just finished (I dropped out back in May) and I walked out and up to a friend of mine (An old best friend who I have no desire to purse more then an in-school friendship with anymore) and asked her if she would go to Ritas with me. She says yes and then she calls her mom and asks for $30 (An Incee would be a maximum of $3) We're suddenly at the bottom of an EXTREMELY steep and long dirt hill. So steep it was almost straight up. My friend gets up the hill and into her house easily, while ocassionally turning around and telling me to hurry up. But I'm still basically at the bottom of the hill because I either keep falling off, or it's just way too steep and I'm having trouble climbing it.

Then I woke up when I was a couple feet up the hill. It seems a little silly, but the dream just stuck out to me for some reason. I remember it perfectly, even after a few days. (link)
It means you miss your old life really bad, because you aint able to process it after a dream and 3 days. you didnt ask anything else to get awnsered


i want to get lasik surgery. how much does it cost, how well could you see afterward? (link)
i dont reccomend doing it... it leaves damage behind for 2000$


I'm 19/f, my boyfriend of 1 year is 18/m.

My boyfriend likes meeting new people, and I respect that. Just yesterday, he met a girl..(when he went to take placement tests so that he can apply to college next semester.) Apparently, this girl that he met was on campus for placement tests too.

So, when I finally saw him later that night, he told me that he hung out with "his new friend Michaela" for the entire day, and that he picked her up from her friend's house so that they could go to the mall, and he bought her ice cream, and they hung out with another couple, his best friend tyler and tyler's girlfriend.

I asked him a lot of questions about "his new friend" because I'm terrified that something's going on between them, or that something could go on in the near future. I trust that he won't physically cheat on me, but I also don't know why this new attention from other girls is so important to him that he had to spend the entire day with a girl he just met. I'm jealous that he spent so much time with her, because I don't even think he made it very clear that he's got a girlfriend to this new girl. I know that if I was in her shoes, I'd be wondering if this new guy I just met was interested in me or not.

So what should I do about this situation? I don't want to be a cranky girlfriend of his that tries to be annoyingly/unnecessarily possessive and doesn't let him have friends that are girls. But I'm so hurt that he wants to hang out with other girls at the same time. (link)
?... O:
He isn't suppose to do EVERYTHING with you
If he hangs with another girl it's no big deal
Just ask him that you wanna hang with him and *michelle* if he says no, ask him why not... and if he starts stutterin etc. there might be something going


i'm looking into buying a new phone. i want something that plays music, has a good battery life. i'm looking into the htc amaze. can you tell me what type of phone u have and how you like it. also how much is the bill for the month. thanks. (link)
Almost every smartphone plays music.
I reccomend a nokia N9

HTC Amaze is a really good phone too tho

idk about bills




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