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Why do I feel like this?
18/f.
my boyfriend and i have had a terrible relationship. alot of jealously problems and non faithfullness. we still love eachother, the problem is sometimes i feel like im falling for someone else. the idea of something brand new seems so nice to me. but my boyfriends my best friend too, were somewhat attatched to eachother. when we seriously broke up at the beginning of summer, i met someone else. hes 21 but absoultely wrong for me. he does alot of drugs, doesnt have a job, and alot of other things. we hooked up alot but i could never be with him because i loved my ex. i feel like im just so more sexually attracted to the 21 year old. WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS. i dont want to like him but sometimes i miss his smile. my head says stay the hell away from this kid and my heart melts for him honestly. this sounds really lame but i was so depressed i went to a phychic. she told me between my boyfriend there is no more passion between us. i guess i sort of answered my own question. i just dont know what to do? i feel like sometimes i play a doubled role life where i keep calling him my boyfriend but my boy/ex whatever we are i'll hang out with him the next week hang out with the 21yr old. im only 18 should i have to decide right now? or do i keep things going the way they are... ive never been so stressed over this.
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I think that you two love each other because you two get jealous of each other and that is normal to a certain extent. Probably unfaithful because maybe there is something that is missing that you seek in other people. It is good to like something new, but sometimes something new has consequences whether bad or good. If you were falling for another guy you have to analyze why you like that guy? Why are you attracted to him? Sexually? Physically? If you are not attracted to him in the three aspects e.g sexually, physically or emotionally then what you are feeling is lust or some crush that is going to go away. You are probably sexually attracted to the 21-year-old guy because he's older maybe more experienced, but does he actually value and cherish you as a person? If he doesn't then he is not a guy you want because you want a guy who loves you the way you are. I do not think you should listen to the psychic but listen to you heart. What do you want to do? Analyze your goals and the consequences. I think the best thing to do is to tell your ex and the 21 year old how you feel and that is the only way to make you feel less stressed and if the two guys are not worth it there will be other guys out there who would possibly make you happy. Maybe you have a guy friend or a guy that might be a stranger that might have a feeling for you.
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really hard to awnser because idk why you broke up on your ex. but ok... you still love your ex, that 21 years old junkie is no good for you... hes prob. just hot.(and a junkie.) you can decide what todo gurl ^^ -Patrick
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