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Does he like me?
Theres this guy I like but I'm not sure how he feels about me because he sends a lot of mixed signals. One day we attended a church function and he sat next to me the whole time and was talking and making me laugh. Some other girls were interested in him and my friend wanted to hook him up but he never went over to talk to them he stayed at the table with me which i was kinda shocked i thought he would have been interested in them. He was hesitant like he did want to go over there but he never did. Then at the end of the night he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I felt really happy but idk what he really feel. There r other days when he is distant from me like he seems nervous to talk to me but he has no problems talking to other people i wish he could feel comfortable with me and sometimes when i look at him he smiles at me. He does flirt with other girls which makes me jealous. What should I do does he like me or not?
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okay he flirts with other girls to make you jealous he is awkward when he's around you because he likes you and he's unsure if you feel the same. Its a classic guy move and the fact he stayed with you at the table and kissed you on the cheek proves he likes you. Carry on as you are it sounds like he likes you a lot!
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Think about this> The signs: He stayed at the table with you, He hugged you AND kissed you on the cheek, plus he smiled at you; put those all together and it sounds like he likes you! He must of seemed nervous around you, for when guys like a girl (you!) they get nervous. Just as you might get nervous being around a really cute guy. Believe it or not, guys have a simular feeling around a cute girl they like. He is probably worried he will say something wrong to you, so he 'clams up' in those moments to gather his thoughts.
To make him more comfortable around you, you just have to talk to him more. Start by saying little things like "hi", "whats your favorite _____?" or "what are you doing later today?". Once you have a conversation, keep it moving and try to see if you have any common interests without asking him directly. From what you wrote above, it appears he already has an interest in you - maybe as just a friend, maybe as more... Spending time with him will be the only way to know for sure. Once you are communicating with eachother and starting to hang out more, becoming good friends will be easy. After the friend stage, only then shall you enter the relationship one. Don't be afraid to flirt with him! You should be able to tell how he feels by the actions he shows. If he keeps hugging you, kisses you again, touches your arm, asks to hang out more than once, or stares at you for a small amount of time, those could all be clues. Talk to him, hang out and work your way from there. Good luck girl <3
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