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I don't know what exactly is wrong with me.
I've gotten 'There is no point in anything' stuck in my head. It gives me a sick feeling.
I can't trust many people nor do I believe what they say. I can't even really believe that my boyfriend cares for me.
And then I felt really bad one day because I felt like I would stop caring for him... like he said he wouldn't to me. But I know I don't think I would but I'm still too afraid of getting too attached to anyone as well.
I think my last relationship really affected me. But I'm pretty sure I'm over it.
But I feel depressed. And I know it's not the every day mood kind of term.
Since at times, I have no idea why I feel like shit.
What could I do about this? (link)
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See a doctor. She or he may put you on medication for a while that will make you feel happier. If you want the medical definition of what is happening here it is: chemicals in your brain are unbalanced causeing you do be unhappy. These chemical imbalances can be caused by prolonged sadness from and event that made you situationaly depressed (depressed for a reason) or you may just have clinical depression (depression for no reason). The main chemical that is imbalenced is your serotonin. They may not put you on medication at first and just send you to a therapist, and if that doesn't work they will put you on the medication. Hope I helped and i hope you feel better.
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I wasn't sure where to put this, because it's kind of a weird question. Bear it with me.
I'm a thirteen year-old girl and I'm bringing one of my friends with me on a three week long trip to Europe. She's very nice, low-key, and low-maintinence (sp?), so I'm not really worried about getting sick of her. My problem is, I'm afraid SHE'LL get sick of ME. I guess I tend to complain a lot, and stuff like that, but I really want to get better about that. Does anyone have any tips for becoming more self-aware and complaining less? (link)
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I had the same problem with my friend! We went on a vacation for only a week and a half and she got sick of me first but then i was sick of her because she was sick of me. But then i came up with the brilliant idea (lol) that we just took a break from eachother a couple times a day. Then it was totally fine. Actually during those time a lot we'd just get really bored and end up cutting our alone time short to hang out so we wouldn't be bored! So just make sure you do your own stuff too and don't rely on her for all the fun! Hope i helped!
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This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks! (link)
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Tell him that you don't want to have a relationship with him if he has realtions with a lot of other girls, just mmake sure he knows your intetions in the relationship and make sure he knows what you want his to be. Hope it all works out ok!
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13/f. I was bra-shopping for something strapless with my tube top, and I couldn't find anything that was 32A (damn...the bra companies expect everyone to look like Barbie!!!). The 34A was too loose, so I had to settle with the 34A pushup bra. What I need to know is, are padded bras stupid? I don't want to be tacky. (link)
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In my opinion, and this is comeing from me and my frinds opinion actually, a padded bra is fine if is not like over powering. But i wouldn't worry about aslong as its not too different. Hope i helped!
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i want to decorate my room in black and light pink, in the cheapest way possible. I want it to be girly and stylish looking. What should I do? Please post pictures, advice, tips.. Thanks so much..ill rate 5's! (link)
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Well i would suggest that your walls not be black. But have black as kind of the secondary color. Hope i helped at least a little!
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ok so there is this really really nice guy who goes to my church he is a good friend and stuff and i kind of like a little is that a bad thing or if i tell him do you think our relationship will change i am not sure! (link)
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had th same problem except instead of a guy at church he was a guy at my work. I told him and i'm still waiting to hear back from him but it just happened last night. It feels so much better to get it off my cheast but i said before i even told him "i don't want out friendship to change if you don't feel the same way but..."
Hope i helped!
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Does anyone know if there is a Planned Parenthood in Massachusettes? If so where and how much is their birth control? (link)
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Ok i've heard birth control is around $10 but it depends on the kind you get. Since i don't know where you live in massachusetts heres the link for planned parenthood of massachusetts http://www.pplm.org/
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Ok so, I have this problem were I might fall in love with someone very easy, and when this happens I get rejected/ heartbroken like 99% of the time. Can anyone pleas help? (link)
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I have the same problem, except at first i got the guys i wanted but now i don't but i didn't know how to stop being so attached. But i would suggest you just leave that little thought in your head like well if this doesn't work out i can always do this, or something like that. The main thing is to not start automaticly thinking that it won't work becuase it can prevent you from trying to get the girl that you like. Also don't get the idea that it will work out all the time, because it can cause you to be heartbroken. You could also try tell her your feelings right away, that way it won't build up inside creating more heartbrake than if you would have told hr right away. hope i helped.
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I wear a 00 in pants.
I'm going into 9th grade and would like to be a 0 by then. I'm 4'11 and 82lbs. (00's are still a little big on me)
So how much weight would I have to gain to fit in a 0. If your a zero what do you weight? (link)
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I can't exactly tell you how much to gain specifically because everyone's body type is different, but i can tell you how to gain weight healthily. First off don't binge or eat a lot of junk food because it can be really bad for your body. Now i don't know your diet now, but nutritionists recommend you add a few hundred calories to your daily diet. As for excercise, don't stop your daily routine as that could be harmful to your body, too. I hope i helped!
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okay well i want to give my boyfriend a BJ
but we have no way to get comdoms
and i would rather do it without one
and like we are both virgins. b.c we have known eachother since we were like 11 we are both 14
so with us both being virgins and not having no kinda sex with anyone just you know kissing each other
can i get a mouth infection giving him oral without a comdom? (link)
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Have you tried going to plan parenthood or another organization that gives out free condoms?
Oral sex, even when you are both virgins, is still risky because bacteria can be spread by hands not just sexual intercourse.
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Okay. so my hair is really straight. and when i say straight i mean straight. There is no wave or curl to it whatsoever. My question is how can i make it curly. Do perms turn out okay? i dont want it tightly curled just like loose curls. Help!! Ill rate, i promise. =] (link)
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i have the exact same problem, no matter what it seems my hair is always so straight. But when i do want curls i us a curling gel that also makes hair stay in place, and a curling iron if i want to make it better.
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I'm sixteen years old, I'm a virgin, I've never kissed a guy, and I've never had a boyfriend.
I feel like if I don't do these things soon, I'm never going to do them. I feel like everyone around me is so experienced in all those things and I'm still just a kid. I've gotten really depressed about it because I feel like no one wants me.
Am I alone in this? (link)
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Don't worry I'm 15 still a virgin! if you get a boyfriend and your serious things will just fall into place. Don't rush it.
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my boyfriend just asked me if i would dip..
but i honestly dont know what that means!!
he said.. you do know what that means right?
and i said yes.. and he goes do you want
to? but i have no idea what that means !!
im 14/f & so clueless.
please help me ASAP
cuz i need to text hiim back! (link)
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if you don't want your mouth removed for mouth cancer (lol i don't know if thats what tey really do) then don't do it! Its gross anyway
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First question is: Aren't oppinions the same as advice? Is an opinion just an indirect way of giving advice?
Second question:
I am considering a career in law as a defense attorney. My Xgirlfriend (XGF) said that defense attorneys cannot ethically do their job in the event that their client is in fact guilty if they know that their client is guilty.
She then said that it is incorrect for me, as a personal trainer, to give unsolicited advice to someone who is performing an exercise improperly(assuming that I know the correct exercise).
My XGF says that advice should only be given when asked for.
But she seems to think that a proactive approach is the only ethical solution to an obvious injustice.
My XGF thinks that the attorney example is somehow different from the exercise example. Is she right?
I feel like she has to be wrong since it is not possible to be proactive and wait for a solicitation for advice.
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As an attorney you are hired to make a point according to the person who hired you's wishes. It is ethical because you are not hired to say what your client did, you are hired to prove a point that looks in the way of not guilty. Your fine, don't worry about it so much. opinions are kind of the same as advice i guess...?
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okay i've been going bikini shopping & i have to try it on every time, soo i leave my underwear on, no problem. is this not safe to do?? i mean you have to try a bikini on before you buy it, but what if someone before you tried it on?? can you get sick from that?? germs?? idk what else.
thanks!! (link)
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Your doing a really good thing. STD's can be spread from that kind of thing. And if your wondering its not wierd or anything because a lot of people do it to protect themselves and everyone should be doing that.
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so i couple of days ago me and my boyfriend had sex..and the day after i started feeling like i had to pee all the time and its still continuing. and it burns. could this be a bladder infection or something else? if so how can i get rid of it???
thanks ill rate all 5's (link)
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I'm pretty sure that what you have. I've gotten one before. The doctor will give you antibotics and you'll be fine almost right away! But don't wait to go to the doctor because it can get worse (i would know).
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the area below my breasts.. has gotten big.. it used be where it would be flat there and then would go my gut.. or belly.. now its just all one thing that goes straight up and down.. i guess im getting fat and thats whats making this happen. i was just wondering if there are any specific excersises to get rid of that. (link)
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I had that problem but it was actually a stomach aulser and was causing some stuff to build up in my upper stomach area. So i would suggest go to a doctor and get it checked out.
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what are signs of depression?
please answer i really need to know.
easy 5's!
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-Exhaustion on waking
-Disrupted sleep, sometimes through upsetting dreams
-Early morning waking and difficulty getting back to sleep
-Doing less of what they used to enjoy
-Difficulty concentrating during the day
-Improved energy as the day goes on
-Anxious worrying and intrusive upsetting thoughts
-Becoming emotional or upset for no particular reason
-Shortness of temper, or irritability
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Im just going to get down to the point. What could be a creative way of asking her out face to face? What do girls like to be complimented on? What really really turns a girl on?
I want this from a females perspective mostly. Thanks. I rate 5's.
15/m (link)
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I'm a girl and I think it all depends on what kind of girl she is. If she's a girl that likes to joke around I would suggest using a corny pick up line, but if she's more serious try being honest like saying "You seem interesting and I'd like to get to know you better," or tell her how you feel flat out, no messing around. Oh, and smelling good always helps!
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I hate my dad..I'm not joking. I honestly do and not just for some stupid reason.
My dad always is threatening my mom with a divorce and stuff she starts crying. I hate seeing her cry when she never even did anything to deserve this. He always is calling her horrible names and cussing at her and me. He hits her sometimes too..she almost called the police. He even hit me once..
I'm so scared of him and so is my mom and my brother. I haven't talked to any of them yet about this. Whenever I hear him yelling or something I'm usually in my room and I start crying because it really is starting to upset me. I can't even TALK to my own dad..whenever he says something to me all the horrible things that he has done to my mom and I in the past just flash back in my mind and I can't speak and I have tears in my eyes. Everytime I hear him screaming at my mom I just want to go down there and tell him to calm down and leave her alone but, I just can't..I'm too scared. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't talk to anyone in my family about this.
How do I help my mom and get my dad to stop yelling all the time? (link)
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I have never liked my dad either. It's hard to not like someone you're supposed to love. If he hits you and your mom a lot you should call the police. Even if he doesn't hit you and you're mom that much what he is doing is verbaly abusive and is just as bad. I would suggest you talk to your mom about it, how it makes you feel, what you want to happen, and tell her what her options are. I did that with my mom and her maternal insticts came over and she made my dad go away, she finally stood up to him and it worked, we are a lot happier now.
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