Rae is my middle name. I'm a strong believer in karma. I'm not here to screw with anyone, I'm here to give and get advice.
Gender: Female
Location: pennsylvania
Age: 16
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Member Since: January 7, 2007
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I'm in college now and I kind of want to do things my way. (My family doesn't want me to have a car right now although i had one at home.) I just want to buy a car and work in a decent place where i please. when i was at home I was told where I could work, what hours I could work, where i couldn't drive. And, very overportected and dominated. Am I at the point in life now where i can start making my own decisions and not be wrong. (link)
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well, you never know when your decisions are gonna be wrong or not but yes, you are at the age where you are able to make decisions for yourself. you're on your own now and no one knows yourself better than well, you.
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i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks. (link)
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it really depends on the guy. some like it shaved, some like it trimmed, and some even like it bushy. but most of them like shaved so i suggest you shave it, he can always tell you what he likes if you ask. :D
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I eat 3-5 small meals a day. Is that bad for me or better than eating 3 large meals? (link)
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5 small meals are the way to go. 3 big meals are totally bad for you so you're doing a pretty good job. just make sure it's not 3 small meals, 5 small meals is good for you.
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please help me. I don't know what to do anymore! ok. here's the deal. My best friend has been like "doing things". Today she called me and said that last night she peirced her nose (BY HERSELF). I was SO shocked and started to think I shouldn't hang out with her anymore. She went close to s*x but didn't. And she ALWAYS says that she's fat but she isn't. One day she told me she threw up her food but only once. Should I still hang out with her?
ps. I DON'T (OR DIDN'T) DO ANYTHING SHE DOES (OR DID) (link)
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well, i tried piercing my face a lot on my own. :/ all the things your friend's doing doesn't make her a bad person, she just happens to be making bad decisions. as a friend, you shouldn't abandon her, you should sit her down and talk to her about all the things that she's doing that worry you. tell her you're scared that she's doing all these things and that it's not healthy. if necessary, you should tell her mom or a councelor or something about her throwing up food and things. she may hate you but it will DEFINITLEY be the best for her. you're a smart kid, you'll know the right thing to do.
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i have masturbated alot but i can only go in 5 1/2 inches.is my hymne stoping me from going ant farther?is it normal?is ther anything i can do to get more in?
thanxxx
13/f (link)
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a person can only put so much in, some people can put a lot in and others can't. you're hymen is a VERY thin layer of skin and is usually broken even before you have sex. like during daily activities, like for example: you were riding your bike and you happened to fall. things like that can break the hymen and you didn't even know it.
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well alright the other night me and my boyfriend were planning on having sex. I was prepared, or so i thought. I expected sex to hurt since i was still a virgin and all but it hurt way more than i could take. As a result i pushed him back and we tried again. But i was in so much pain i couldnt do it. After he felt like it was all his fault and i know its all mine. he thought he pressured me into it and i told him that it just was not enjoyable for me and it was extremely painful. He got all quiet and i tried to kiss him, he didnt kiss back. Later we were talking and he said i just feel like i ruined my chance with you. I was overcome with saddness and found myself in tears that i could not control. He then felt like a complete jerk and started blaming himself and telling me i am the only girl he ever had loved also that if i didnt want we dont have to have sex. What should i do about this? (link)
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sit him down, just the both of you. do it over coffee or hang out with him at his place or something, somewhere where you both are comfortable. tell him to just forget about what happened and let YOU explain EVERYTHING. tell him it's not his fault and that since you were a virgin, it was just really painful. tell him you wanted to share a passionate thing with him but you just couldn't do it due to the pain. tell him you understand him completely and that you guys can try again when you're ready. i'm sure once he calms down about everything he'll realize it wasn't his fault. :)
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The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.
What does everyone think of this plan?
-Jordan (link)
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you need to have the boy ask you out for YOU not because you give him amazing blowjobs. that's just going low and putting yourself out there like a slut. you don't want to have a guy want you for what you do, but for who you are. if this kid really likes you, he'll ask you out for your personality.
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ok you know the movie 13 going on 30? ya well theres a song in it called "Love is a Battlefeild" and who sings that?
thx! (link)
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my gurl pat benatar :D
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Ive had sex ONE time.
Is my hymen most likely broken?
But, it didnt hurt at all, maybe for like .1 second.
Ive been fingered many times though
Just wondering! (link)
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actually the hymen can't break JUST during sex, it can also be broken during just regular days. like, if you tripped and fell or something like that. but during your sexual intercourse, it probably did break but it most likely either broke sometime during your lifetime or when you got fingered.
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What are all the possible ways to form Smiley faces? Such as =] & so on.. (link)
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c: :) :o] :} :] :o} :D
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umm yeah i feel dumb asking this but my boyfriend reallly wants me to have phone sex. ive never done it before....so help! (link)
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you basically ask him you know, what are you wearing or what makes you horny, stuff like that. he'll ask you the same things. it's pretty much describing yourself to him and him doing the same. you both pretty much masturbate over the phone together.
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I get made fun of a lot because I have red hair so people call me firecrotch AND Im not very pretty. I look like a fish. Anyway, guys on my bus are always making fun of me..and I want to know what I say to them. Swearing isnt working - they just mock me and it just gives them a reaction. (link)
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human's first reaction is to cuss and stuff like that to people that are bothering them. but the best thing to do is just look at them and laugh. it shows that you really don't care what they have to say because they're wasting their time making fun of you. just be happy that they're giving you attention, haha. just be like, wow, it's flattering that you take up all your time to talk about me but really, it's pathetic that you have nothing else to do. they're annoying you because they WANT you to be annoyed, if you show them that they're not bothering you, they'll eventually leave you alone.
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Hey iam 17 years old and i have this really bad cussing habit that iam trying to stop.
How do i stop? (link)
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haha, i have the same problem. i have two methods. try wearing a rubberband around your wrist so when you do cuss, snap yourself with the rubberband. you'll realize that cussing's just pointless.
the other method is something i got from a movie, haha. whenever you say f***, say crying out loud right after that. soon, you'll be saying for crying out loud. haha.
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okay, well first off i shave down there and it gets irritated very easily, is there any other methods i can do rather than shaving?
i wanna try waxing but i would never be able to pull the strip off myself, so if i went to a salon or w.e-- would they do the whole downstairs?
or just the 'bikini' part, like the sides of thighs. (link)
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they do brazilian waxes which will completely get rid of everythinggg.
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I'm still not over my ex after seven months. It still gets me down. So does anyone have any sad/heartbreaking/makes you want to scream/that type of love songs? Anything EXCEPT rap and r&b. Thanks! (link)
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i don't know if you're into emo/screamo or not. i'm a metalhead but this song was probably the saddest thing ever. look up the lyrics because it's pretty sad. it's called 'baby you won't last a minute on the creek' by chiodos
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yeahh your make up looks really awesome in your pic! [=. so I was just wondering if you could give me some tips on any kind of make up, especially with my eyes. I have fair skin and brown eyes. what shadows would bring out my color? any tips that makes your eyes look good? thanks (link)
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awww, thanks!
eyes: maybelline works the best. use a shimmery brown because it'll really pop out your eyes. put a little more of the brown on the outer corners of your eyes.
cheeks: definitley use matte mousse blush in a peachy color. a bright blush will be too harsh for your skin tone. you have to look healthy, not like a porcelain doll! make sure to use a blush brush. it sounds weird to use a brush for a creamy blush but it smoothes on way easier and prettier.
lips: try a soft pink. all that will give you a summery, healthy, and surfer look along with your great outfit!
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this is a random question but me and
my friends are debating over it. who
do the 5 Great Lakes belong to? The
U.S.A or Canada??? I know Lake Michigan
is in the U.S and the rest are in Canada
but wh country do they belong to? (link)
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lake erie and michigan belong to the us and lake superior, huron, and ontario belong to canada.
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my boyfriend and i want to start having sex. im thinking about the pill. how to i get it? do i have to ask my FAMILY doctor or who? and will they tell my parents?? (link)
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you don't have to tell your parents. see your local planned parenthood and tell them about how you want birth control. they'll give you more information about it and they can give it to you. they won't tell your family.
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my boyfriend and i had sex and afterwords there was blood from me on his boxers and im no where near my period. what happened? (link)
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-if you're a virgin, you're cherry popped.
- if not, he either penetrated you way to hard.
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how do you wear them?
..also how do you wear them in cute/cool different ways?
like i mean how do you wear them wtih yoru jeans/ (link)
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- tuck them into your uggs (skinny jeans work best)
- roll your jeans up to the top of your uggs.
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