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11/f african american sometimes people at school be telling me my hair line is messed up but i just igorned. SO today i ask my ma is my hairline really that messes up and she said yes . She said she dont know why because nobody hairline is messed up but mines in the family. But i need to look pretty and my hairline fixed and everythin & about 5-8weeks 4 the dance its hard enough gettin a date now i have to worry bout this plus i have twist in my hair i cant take out till 2wk so can i get my hairline to grow wit twist (link)
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Have you been to a hairdressers lately?
Because I also have a weird hairline and I went to the hairdressers and she pretty much played with it until we found something that looked awesome. So just tell them you don't really know what to do with it, but you want something flattering and nice.
So I'd suggest you go to a good hairdresser, they can fix pretty much anything.
Hope that helped?
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
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Wow. It always sucks when someone you hold close is lying to you. And to be honest, its just not on.
This is a hard one, because it sounds like he's not going to admit to you what he did, even though you know.
The only thing I can suggest is that you tell him everything. Talk it out. Tell him you've seen it, how it makes you feel, how you don't think its appropriate.If he has problems you both should be working them out together, not him posting them for the world to see. If he doesn't listen or just denies it more it's probably better to get rid of him. Its not fair that he makes a facebook group out of your intimate and private relationship. And you shouldn't have to deal with that. Period.
It sucks, but I hope in someway that helped you.
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So i am 18 years old i liked this guy i worked with since the first time i saw him. We flirted a lot and he made it known he was in to me. I soon found out he was married and had two kids. He took it to the next level and gave me his number but was casual about it. I knew where it was going. We texted a lot and he told me everything a girl would want to hear. he seemed so sincere. I truly believed him. He wont respond to my text or calls. What do i do? I think i love him. I told him once that i didnt want to talk anymore but then told him i didnt mean that. do you think he may be sincerly hurt by the things i said or does he just care? Please give me advice. (link)
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I see no future in this relationship to be honest :(
Your whole relationship is based on a lie so don't expect him not to lie to you when he wants to jump ship to another girl. I think you should break it off, and not make contact with him. He is married with two kids and you'll be hurting them all if you become between them. It sounds like he'll say anything to make you like him but it is all just words!
Your eighteen! You have so much life to live! Seriously, there is someone out there way better for you then him hun.
Hope that helped.
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Hey.. I'm just wondering what girls would think about this. I have an odd but harmless fetish but I'm terrified to tell my gf or anyone else. The fetish is called WAM, I like to see girls who are dressed up wearing nice clothes with makeup/hair done nicely get messy, like with pies, cake batter, chocolate, nickelodeon-style green slime, etc. All fully clothed, I hate when it is mixed with nudity although some other people like it that way. What would you think if your bf told you that? Would you do it with him if he would pay for new clothes or for your clothes to be cleaned?
Thanks, hopefully you don't think I'm totally crazy. Believe me otherwise I'm a normal guy.
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Haha no way is that crazy!
Actually to be honest it sounds kinda cute (really fun) and I would definitely be in for it.
Granted it's not exactly something you tell a girl you just meet, but if your girlfriend and you have been going out for a while I don't see why she wouldn't do it.
I'd go for it. It's not weird at all. :D
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I am turning 14 in January and I really need birthday party ideas. I was thinking of a beach party, but the beaches in California here will be too cold. I am planning on inviting both girls & guys.
And please, NO sleepover suggestions!
And suggestions for kids 15-17 can work too(: (link)
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Themed Dress up Party's are cool.
For example you could do a hero's and villains party, or a black and pink party (or whatever colour you want), or a party where everyone has to dress up as something starting with a certain letter. Those kinda party's are always fun :)
Hope that helped
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My friends and I are so immature for our age, we're all sixteen, seventeen, eighteen and we still make that's what she said jokes and talk about nonsense. I love them to death and we always have fun when we are together. I am planning my sweet sixteen happening in just a few days, all the invites are out and all the food and such is planned. I just want to get your guys' take on this and see is this sounds fun. My party is going to be in my backyard, where we can be as loud as we want and have the most fun we can, everyone will know where everything is because it's at a familiar place. I am having my ma set out my chocolate fountain and we are going to have everything known to man that goes good with chocolate out. We are going to have a bunch of fruity drinks out. My best friend is bringing over her volleyball net and that can be up. We may set out some ladder ball. We are renting a moonbounce that has a slide to exit out when you're done or if you just want to slide instead of jump. What I want to know is, would you guys have fun at my party? Be honest. Thanks! (link)
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OMG!
I'm eighteen and that sounds like an awesome party!!!
Lol, I mean sure everyone our age does the whole alcohol drinking and partying thing (well in NZ anyway) but its cool to see some people having this kinda party. Who cares what other people think as long as you have fun.
But yes, answering your question, I imagine I would have fun at your party :)
lol
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Sorry, I didn't know which category to put this in.
But what creams work best for ACTUALLY getting rid of stretch marks?
I'm not even pregnant but gained weight and developed stretch marks and they suck.
Also, I'm looking for a product that would be sold in the local market or CVS store. (link)
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There is a really awesome product called Bio Oil. It's made especially for scars, and stretch marks and stuff. You have to use if for at least three months but it actually does work.
I dunno whether they sell it near where you live but here's the website
http://www.bio-oil.com/
Hope that helps. :D
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Soooo... one of my really good friends is a girl, she's a year younger. (I'm seventeen, she's sixteen). Well since she's younger, and a really good friend, I'm kinda protective of her. She's pretty much like my little sis. Yeah, she's hot but she's also like 5'4/100 lbs... Sooo mix her tiny body with juuust a pinch of alcohol and she's every guy's dream. A hot drunk girl. It really doesn't take much to get her wasted. See, I don't even approve of decent guys for her (what brother does??) but when we got out to parties and stuff and she's wasted and all these d-bags are tryin to get on her, I have to protect her. Which I don't mind too much, but I'm worried about her. That if I'm not there, some guys gonna take advantage of her. I've tried to tell her about this... tell her I'm concerned about her but she WANTS to hook up with guys... And nothing I say can get her to take it easy on the booze and be a little smarter with the boys. She's gonna get her self in trouble! And I just don't knwo what to do... She's my bestfriend but I don't OWN her ya know?? If she wants to get her drink on and hook up, I'm still gonna love her but I'm worried... (link)
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Aww first of all that's really awesome that you look after her!!!
Good on you, your an awesome friend!
The fact is I think she might just need to get this out of her system. She'll realise it's not as great as she thought it was anyway.
All you can really do is keep being an awesome friend and support and comfort her when she makes mistakes. I now that sucks, but its really all you can do without pushing her away
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Two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex. I started my period on Wednesday. But, it's been going off and on every other day. This is unusual to me. I have been feelig really light headed. Could I be pregnant? (link)
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I would definitely get checked. The light-headedness could just be from you stressing out over it though, so getting tested at the very least will put your mind at ease.
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Hi... this may sound really lame but I need some advice. Background:
I am a junior in HS
Overweight
Unhappy w/ my life
I just want to be my old self.. I don't wanna be the big girl anymore.. I have tried dieting but I give up with the lacking results.
I have considered skipping breakfest and lunch and only eating supper. One meal. But then again I thought that's crazy I shouldn't have to starve myself to get results... but i would just like some imput... what to do once you have had a bad day.. motivation anything.. I don't wanna hit "rock bottom " I just wanna be happy again
16/f
C.D. (link)
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OK I just have to say this first.
DO. NOT. SKIP. MEALS.
It's actually really unhealthy for you, especially if your not used to it.
Set yourself small, achievable goals. Like, only eating three meals a day and not snacking in between, or giving up fizzy drinks. Just start off small. When you achieve these goals, you'll feel better about yourself, and then you can start on your next small goal. It takes a while longer but is so much easier to do long term. After a while you'll have cut a whole lot of crap out of your diet without even realising it.
And when you have bad days (which, trust me, you probably will) and you really just wanna down a whole packet of fudge brownies (mmmm by the way) the thing that helps me is going for a walk and listening to some loud music. (And maybe shouting a whole lot about how I'm not suppose to be eating them) but I dunno, that's just what works for me.
Hope that helped :)
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Movingg on is something I need to do!
One night I was with this other guy, I was smiling, laughing, and I was happy(: But then the radio was on and mine and my exes song came on and I started crying. This guy had no idea why I was crying so he just kept hugging me asking me what's wrong, and I told him I wasn't ready to move on and I'm sorry. So he left. He started dating one of my old friends, and Me? I was stuck on the ex. Me and that girl became friends again because we talked about our problems. Now theyy aren't together anymore but she's in love with him, and I'm finally ready to move on! and I feel like he's the only guy I could move on withh! What should I do? (link)
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If she's still in love with him, to be honest, it's probably not a good idea.
I guess you just have to ask yourself whether being with this guy is worth losing your friend. (Which most probably will happen).
If he is, go for it.
But if he's not, or you simply don't know, maybe you should just wait a bit and see what happens. You don't wanna lose a friend over something your not sure about.
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I feel like my vagina is ugly.
when my legs are together my inner labia sticks out of my vagina lips, is that abnormal ? why does it do that ? how do i make it go away ? (link)
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Honey, I'm pretty sure all vaginas are ugly. I know mine isn't going to be winning any beauty contests anytime soon.
Honestly there is nothing to worry about!!!
As long as you have a hole boys can stick there willy in I'm sure it will never ever be a problem. haha ;)
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 6 months. he treats me good, and were like best friends. only problem is, he is not like romantic. Hes never done anything really cute for me... he hardly ever takes me out on dates, and i have to like nag him to like go out to dinner or a movie and he never wants to pay.Besides that though he treats me really good, and its the first guy i can actually trust. He just doesnt know how to be romantic and do cute things for me, and when i try to tell him i need more, he'll ask how or what i want him to buy me, and i dont want to have to tell him, thats rude, his sisters husband says shes the same way, so it must just be the way they were brought up.
I've already told him he is not romantic and i need more, but he just doesnt get it, and its nothing like worth breaking up over but it would really make him so much more perfect. Plus, he hardly says i love you cause he says it was over used in his last relationship, but he still shows he loves me in his actions.
any advice on what i could doo? (link)
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If he's not taking the hint, maybe you should just tell him! The kind of romance your looking for isn't something that comes easy to some guys. So you can either be annoyed that he isn't doing enough cute stuff for you, or you can tell him what you like and make it easier for him to understand.
Also do you do things for him that he really likes or enjoys? Maybe if you do he might be more eager to please you in return. :)
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