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Hey everyone .
I love giving advice to friends and
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feel free ... this may be hard to keep
up with but im gonna try ! just no rude
and unexpected comments please =)thanks
guys !! x0 love aways . becky
E-mail: pinkxice143@yahoo.com
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Location: Im from New Hampshire
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Age: 13
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i have really frizzy curly hair and for the last year i have been straightening it everyday which gets rid of the frizz aswell as the curl but this summer i really don't want to be straightening my hair everyday i want to enjoy my time in the sun but without the frizz i have tryed loads of different frizz shampoo's but i can't find one that will make me have cute natural curls (like i have) but without the great frizz,
anyone know anything i can try?? (link)
They have this new straighener thing and it for really curly hair and i was watching the example on T.V and it works wicked good it makes you hair perfectly strait ! go to a salon and ask them about it im sure they will help !

good luck


Hi in my opinion i look nice the way i am...but the thing is that my arm has like a flub there and i just want to get rid of it. what can i do to get rid of the flub? any exercises for my arms? it's on my upper arm and it's just disgusting! please help! (link)
it could be muscle lift wiethes it sre will help!

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My dog won't sleep on my bed anymore. Do you think it's possible that he is annoyed that I wake him up when I have to get up for school at 6:00 A.M.? Is there a way I could teach him that it's o.k. to sleep in my room on the weekends? (link)
Yea but him a dog basket thinging it will work !

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Ok. Just yesterday I got my driving permit, and I'm a little nervous about driving on the bigger roads. Afraid I'm going to forget to look for signs, miss turns, etc. Anyone got any ways I can just chill and do everything I've learned without /over/doing it? Or maybe I should just start small for awhile, drive around in college lots or my own neighbourhood?

~fellow Advicenator (link)
dont be scared just chill when your driving becz if your all nervous there is a possibility your gonna mess up !


So I went out with some friends and they played spin the bottle and I was dared to kiss this kid. I was so effing afraid to though, Im such a prude. even my best friend (whos a guy) had to kiss this girl and he did and I thought he was the same as me. I really wanted to, but im so afraid somethings going to go wrong. Anyone ever have this problem that could give me some advice? rate you for anything...seriously... (link)
its only a kiss ... lol dont be scarded you cant like get pregnant !


My eyebrows are really hairy! I have super long hairs and I look really bad. My mom won't letme get them waxed..I have asked her many times and she won't let me. I've tried plucking them but they hurt! I don't know what to do because I'm about to be a junior in high school and it's really getting to me! Any advice would be greatly appriciated! Also, don't tell me to sit down and talk to my mom-it won't work..Also, peopple that give crazy answers that want attention, please don't answer! (link)
Use ice and then pluck i hear it works very well

good luck !


can u get pregnant from giving bloow jobs? swallowing sperm>? help. (link)
Nope lol ... but if you doo you can get all iffrent kind of infections like STD and all that!


I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =) (link)
I dont think you should becz what if you guys have " sex " and you get pregnat he can go to jail and hate you and also how would your sis. feel ?

good luck


Okay this is really effed up and totally embarrasing but last night i had a dream. Im a 15 year old girl and it was about me and my father. We had just married or something and we were both in my room together..okay..and so i took everything iff except my underwear and he was fully clothes and he was laying on top of me and i was really horny but he didnt take off my underwear and then all he did was kiss me on my lips like you know a dad would usually do if he was going to work or something, anyways and in my dream all he did was tell me that he loves me. I'm really grossed out and scared and i dont know wehat to do, and i dont ever wanna go to sleep again because im afraid il get another dream! Plz help! (link)
Maybe your mistaken mayebe it was a kid you like not your dad . i hope!


My boyfriend and I went out for six months, we were inseperable. Before that we had been best friends for little less then a year. We were so close, always with each other. He would always say to me "I love you. Someday we'll get married, we can be forever. Run away. Just you and me" he's romantic like that, but the I love you really stuck with me. Only a few weeks after he dumped me (He didn't even tell me why) He has a new girlfriend. His girlfriend always smiles at me when I walk by her in the halls, that bothers me so much. She's always giving me looks if I look at my ex. I like him so much, and I feel my heart drop to the ground whenever I see him! I've noticed though, he watches me. Whenever I walk by, or I'm talking with another guy- he's watching me. He says we can be friends, but he blocked me online and won't return my emails. I'm completely heartbroke and crushed,I just don't know what to do.
I'm 14 by the way

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Everypne says that they love you .. maybe he got sick of you becz this is what happens in mst relahinships the boys gets sick of you =( yea it sucks but you 14 and you have a long life ahead of you .. Good Luck !


ok so I have this friend who I can't stand. (she isn't really my friend) She is so screwed up and I can't stand her. 1. She is a patheloical lier and 2. She snjoys screwing peoples lives up. So anyway my best friend recently started dating her and I can't fiure out why. She's mean, ugly, dramatic and really hurts people. No one likes her. So we were at a concert and he had his arm around me and I turn around and he was making out with her! How do I tell him how I feel about their relationship? Thanks. 14/f (link)
Well its really his choice not yours .. but if you too are really best-freinds maybe hell listin to you ! good luck =D


I just got this really cute shirt last night and I put it in the washer for my dad to wash and it just came out..The shirt SHRUNK like crazy! There's also a big bleach stain on it!! What can I do??? I'm soo mad! (link)
Go out and buy a new shirt ! dont relay on your dad all the time ! lol

good luck !


Ok, I just wanted to thank me ppl for their advice. I found out the she is having a relationship behind my back. This is the new one. I just went to our senior prom and met this girl. She is the bomb, I mean everything about her is perfect in my eyes. I almost hooked up with her and found out that one of my friends like her,but she doesn't like him that way. I'm in some trouble on this one. LOL. What should I do on this one. Arrrrgh, why do my friends and i like the same girl.
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yea i have this problemm all the time.. after a while one of you will start liking someone else and it will all work out .. trust me !

good luck !


i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him

i really don't kow what to do (link)
shes not a nice person att all ! dont be frineds with her if shes doing that to you you really like him so tell him how you feel tell him all that was you but shes sayin it ! well hoped this helped !

good luck


Okay, I liked a kid, and he liked me, but we never got together or anything. Now, I'm bored with him, and am slowly ridding all thoughts of him, just not interested anymore. Problem is, he's still really into me, and when I explained what I was feeling, he got really mad. Then I realized I didn't want to make him go through such pain, so I'm pretending basically to like him. We're still not going out, but whatever..that's good for me. You see, we talk everyday on AIM & sometimes phone because we go to different schools..and only see each other SOME weekeneds. But, everytime I'm on AIM I have stuff to say to everyone, but when I talk to him it's like the most boring conversation you could ever be in. What does this mean? He said he feels that way, too, like never has anything to say to me..then why is he acting like he loves me? I want to let him go, but I want to be friends. I don't think we can be friends, with his attitude..and it just sucks. What can I do?

Thanks (link)
I bet in his mind he has tons of stuff to say but he just cant ! like this kiid i like he probley says the smae thing you do about me ! its hard it really is but the guy should be the one making the convo not the girl ! talk to him and tell him how you feel without making him mad ! hoped this is gonna work

good luck =)


So it seems no one cares that its right to wait untill marrage to have sex (in the chrsitian religon) and now to me it seems seroiusly wrong, but later on it probubaly wont. I just wanted to know at what age do most people lose it? Since im in 7th now, and next year is supposibly the year everyone starts. Most likly the guy I marry wont be a virgin, right? 5's for anyone who is reasonable. (link)
Well i know most people start doing little stuff when they are in 8th grade like fingering and stuff, but when you get into High-school you start having it then. But if you do make sure your on Birth control but make sure you dont like do it everyday becz you can still get pregnat while on it ! and i dont think your gonna wanna kill your baby or drop out of school .. right ?

well good luck !


how do you get a girl that is a pussy to tell you stuff to tell you how she really feels...cuz its getting pretty annoying...

(P.S. my guy friend asked this question...not me--no, not a lez) (link)
Ummm you ask her how she really reals make her feal comfertable not uncomfertable tell her its okay if she tells you !

well good luck =D


do most girls shave their pussys? (link)
haha yes they do . only for like sexuall stuff like if a guy asks to finger you and stuff lol i know this is gross .. E-Mail me or I/M me and ill tell you more .


In our school we have Microsoft Word, and on my computer i only have microsoft works word processor. I need to bring a saved essay to school on a disk but it doesnt open in microsoft word because its microsoft works. (gets confusing), so i need to download microsoft word on my computer for free so i could bring my essay to school and work on it. Does anyone know any sites they will give me so i can download microsoft word for free? I tried searching on google but i need specific sites cuz im dumb. Anyone who helps..thanks alot!!!! (link)
Go to Micorsoftword.com

good luck !


school is full of bitches, i know....this one girl who is my 'freind' walkes around wispering to people. she yells about how she and her bf are on 3rd base. then she critisizes you. she should not be talking...(this is gonna sound soo mean) she is so fat that she takes up 2 bus seats. no boy will go near at her in our school. i think she makes it up. she is acting really bitchy to people w/out boyfreinds, (or people like me who keep them secret) when she found out about my bf. she started being nice to me. she wants me to walk around and.....u kno. i want to get rid of her, but she followes me around. she also asks deatails about my bfs kisses. i really hate her. how do i rid myself?
ps: i am 13, and she is almost 14.. (link)
Maybe she is just using you becz she wants to be popular and wants him to like her ! tell her that she is soo mean to you and she needs to stop following you around .. I/M me if you need more help ! good luck ! =)




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