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hey im tay..i luv sinqinq nd` dancinq nd` wow its amazinq lol i luv qivinq advice its ko0l yu control the persons move like f yu say wut they should do maybe..qo into a trashcan its their fait yur control wierd l0l
leave 1 nd` ill qet bak 2 yu :)
x3 tay

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i really wanna be a singer when i grow up but im kinda shy and dont like to sing infront of alot of people. can you please help me and tell me how i could get over that ?

Hey, well im rockng that same boat, but im not shy, listen to get over your fear, you need to be more presentable, try talking to diffrent people in yur school, try out for the school talent show, i know its hard, i started singing in 2nd grade for every talent show i got, and now im not shy. i know it seems wierd but just try it.

hope it helps.
♥ Tay

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13/f Ok i get like really scared and my mom thinks im too young to babysit. I want a job so my mom will let me get a cellphone (my mom is so mean i should hav one already!). Well since i get scared i think about stuff like....What if i was babysitting and someone called and said "Im coming for you" or something like that or if someone came to the house. I know there's a REALLY big chance that wouldnt happen but i cant help it i hav a very wild imagenation. Is there any other good job i could get? or anything that would keep me busy from thinking about stuff like that while babysitting?

I rate!

awww same same..lol wut yu do is just lock all the doors shut the blinds nd` play with the kids..i usually stay upstairs 2 avoid going downstairs..or go with some of the babys lol their wine can be heared miles away.. jp but the chances of some1 coming in a window on the 2nd story is highly unlikly,f yu feel that insecure then just keep a phone handy nd` the babys in bed unless they r hungry :)

hope it helps
-tay

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hey i can't for the love of me figure why we have so many different social relationships. i don't even understand why goths r considered scary i mean i have friends who r goths and they r awsome...help me out!! thnx :)

interestinq...i think ill switch it
instead of qivinq yu my opinion ill let a "qoth" qive yu the answer thouqh hurr advice is jus as qood as ne 1 elses so listen carfully thx jodi lul :) - Im not really sure y we have all these groups its just the way people r these days and the way they act and stuff like that

hope it helps
jodi nd` tay

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well you see . theres this guy i really like and i have for like . hmm forever! and hes kinda weird and flirts with everything that walks on two legs.

doqs? lol
well just hide yur leqs
nd` run lol jp
qive up
no hope
its a doq :\
throw him in the POUND lol


thx m
-tay

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



oo..same thinq happend 2 my friend
14-18
they waited nd` a few weeks ladurr it was off
she did tell hurr dad it to0k gut kuz the both
told hurr dad 2qether...true luv :)

hope it helps
-tay

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He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am?

f he truly likes yu nd` yu truly like him then tell him this

'{HIS NAME} i like yu alot..i dun relli think nows a qood time furr me 2 b in a relationship,but i stil like yu i relli dun want 2 hurt yu..or loose yu as a friend im truly sorry"
or write him a note or sumthinq

hope it helps
-tay

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there is guy who loves but don't want to marry me why

o im srry this qot bak 2 yu so late...
well 1. have yu seen his pic?
yu mite even want 2 hear his voice im not tryinq 2 sound neqative but usually qivinq a person info...is not the best thinq yu dun kno f hes qunna kill yu :( so b carefull nd` f he wants 2 "expand thinqs" mayb he wants 2 c wut he kan do wit yu (not killinq yu) mayb he wants 2 c f yu have wut he needs usually sum quys like better thinqs its hard 2 understand..but just qive him time..over time just casually brinq it up at dinner or sumthinq nd` say "what do you think about marriaqe?" nd` f he starts complaininq just say ok qrab his hand nd` try 2 so0th him
hope it helps
-tay

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I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him?

awwwwwww......i have the same thinq..i luv sum1 ... but he hates me l0l lol lol ne way

just tell him..f he truly doesnt like yu talk it over nd` f yu R ronq nd` he does kuz quys hide thurr feelinqs qood..but ne way mayb he has a lil spark or sumthinq furr yu still...nd` soon that spark mite bkum more l0l

hope it helps
-tay

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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

1. f yu never found that person..y would it say thers somebody out thurr fur every1 l0l but ne way....yu usually kan tell when alllll yur thouqhts r round him,everythinq yu think of either beqins or ends wit him or his name nd` when yur away from him the only place yu want 2 b is wit him!
-hope it helps

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well i have a friend and these are her problems: B.O., dandruff, doesnt brush her hair OR teeth, has a big belly AND doesnt know about any of this. how can i help her without being really mean???? please help! ill rate 5s for answers that dont piss me off!

ummm..touqh..take hurr shoppinq nd` qo 2 lyke a perfume store .... nd` say omq i luv this smell we shud qet it! nd` wear it 2 skool monday...nd` kum on hurry we qotta qet this awsome shampoo
(have this planned b4 yu do this)

hope it helps
-tay

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this guy likes me, hes nice, but i dont like him and he thinks i do? how do i give him a hint?

just say "yur a nice friend but its not thurr furr me rite now srry..kan we still b friends"

hope it helps
-tay

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Justin and I dated for like, 2 months and one week. We broke up because he said I couldn't trust him, he cheated. But he admitted it to my face.

Now, we both like each other again, after being broken up for about a month and still talking and stuff. He called me a couple nights ago just to talk, which he's never done before when we weren't together. He wants me to ask him out this time though, because he asked me out last time.

Should I do it? Or wait for him to? I mean I'm pretty sure he likes me, he's said it and he even purposely got kicked out of class so he could come see me (I got kicked out of class too, lol.)

awwww..puppy luv is alive lol just b4 yu do ANYTHING sit down nd` talk it out ... make sure hes qunna b commited this time nd` trust worthy..but make sure not 2 turn him off

hope it helps
-tay

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My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice?

awww darlinq lol...its a the "cat nd` mouse" a second the cat is yur friend next hes tryinq 2 kill yu l0l but yu have 2 explain even f it makes thinqs a bit diff..sometimes yu qotta do wierd thinqs 2 kno who truly luvs yu..yu mite not no...she mite still luv yu 2

hope it helps
-tay

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theres this guy who likes me and i like him. at lunch he was trying to like get his leg up against mine (according to my friend, she said he was sitting awkwardly and thats what it looked like, but shes only like 95% positive) anyways, he kinda kept kicking me so i was like "you keep kicking me" like playfully and he just kinda smiled and was like "sorry" so now i kno what happened and i feel RETARDED for saying hes kicking me! should i like never bring it up again or what.....becuz i'm not for sure if he was trying to play footise or anything, ahhh i feel so dumb! what do i do!

first we all do it
second its no biq deal...write a note sayinq "im so sorry for sayinq yu were kickinq me yesterday...i was scared,nervious nd` shy i relli like yu nd` i think it would b kool f yu liked me 2..keep this hush luv yu -yur name-"

hope it helps
-tay

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Well, this is probably one of the most random questions I personally have ever asked. I love Panera's French Baguette (sp?) it's basically a long loaf of french bread. It is by far the best bread ever. But, getting to my question, I buy the bread when it is nice and fresh so it's warm and soft. After about 2-3 days, the bread gets hard. Is there any way to prevent the bread from getting hard? I had to put it in the microwave just to make it soft enough to bite into! I can't bite into hard things because I have braces and they might break off. But can anyone tell me as to how I can keep the bread from getting hard and virtually unedible? Thanks!

hm..like um.. EAZIFRESH or how ever yu spell it..sumthinq that locks nd` seals in stuff lol srry i kant qive a better answer im not the best at this stuff srrii ;[

hope it helps
-tay

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i've been living with my best friend for about a month (on and off), my parents are getting a divorce and they've been fighting a lot so we desided that i should stay with my best friend. (we've been friends for 4 years), lately me and her have been fighting a lot, but over nothing. i dont' what to do cause i don't wanna go home but i dont' know if i should stay at her house... i'm a 15 year old female... please help...
- friend in need.

hun...(i kall eveyr1 that) lol
its normal i fauqht endlessly wit my cousin when she stayed at my house..its onlii kuz yur not used 2 it...yu fite wit yur siblinqs even thouqh yu r used 2 it bkuz yu NEED SPACE explain this 2 hurr nd` make sure yu both understand that it isnt so much the time as the attitude..yu both will have 2 sit down nd` settle thinqs each time this happens nd` trust me its alot..over the dumbest thinqs like hair in the comb or make up out..just fiqure thinqs out

hope it helps
-tay

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Well I like this guy and he likes me 2 but he wont go out with me cause of my age and it hurts really bad 2 know a stupid thing like that keeps him away from dating me..(He`s in 8th I`m in 7th) and like I said he likes me I like him and its just a 1 year difference..Any Advice??

hm..touqh 1 but hurr qoes nuffin-
ask him y does aqe matter...since we both r in the same skool..we still will c each other at the dances nd` all nd` we kan qo 2 the movies nd` kall each other....
just bascly say how yu quys wud keep in touch
how yu kant qet him out of yur head
nd` how yu LOVEEEEEEEE him lol

hope it helps
-tay

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I'm sorry it's long..

I know it seems generic, but I've liked a guy since 6th grade (I'm now in 8th) It's hard to say anything because he's been out with one of my friends, and I don't really want to chance our friendship right now.. I sorta want to wait until highschool. But anyway.. my friend is always obsessing over guys, and their relationships.. and when I told her at first that I liked him, she was ok with everything.. but I told her that I knew that he didn't like a few people and she freaked.. she told me to stop being obsessive over his love life and to move on with mine.. It makes me mad to think I could have shared this with her, and now I don't feel like I can share anything else with her.. like I've lost the will to. She's always saying things like that to me, so.. when it's mine turn it's not ok? *sigh* it's not like I can just, pick up and stop liking him.. this is a three year thing, just told her about it a month ago.. I don't know where to go from here.. I still like him, but I'm starting to hate my friend and it really makes me mad that she can be so selfish like this.. I just need some advice.. thanks..

omq same same same l0l well b4 ne way just keep it on the low nd` make sure he doesnt find out or it will bak fire on yu
hope it helps
-tay

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My friend just "decided" to like the same guy that I do. I didn't go out and tell her that I like him before, but it was really obvious (i.e- everyone was telling us to go out, we were flirting a lot) Now today, she decided she can't figure out who to like, but she thinks she's going to go with the person I like, and she was crying like some little kid at the end of the day because she doesn't know what to do and.. Do I have a right to be mad at her?? I mean, now, if he ever asked me out, I couldn't say yes, because a friend is more valuable than a boy.

h3ll ya...srrii but i hate when ppl do that...i do understand where yu r kumminq frum thouqh..that oddly happens alot..the onlii advice is 2 email or write hurr a note nd` hopefully let it fizzle down l0l

hope it helps
-tay

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Im going out with this guy i really like but when ever we talk on the phone theirs nothing to talk about. I dontknow wht to do it can get akward. Im not shy im far from that anyone would say that but its just i cant think of anything to say can you help?

omq qirl i kno how yu feelinq heres wut i kan qive


start off by sayinq how happy yu r 2 have him nd` f yu truly luv him or like him say how yu kudnt bear 2 loose him
then mayb brinq up sports like the super bowl nd` ALWAYS SIDE WIT HIM like wit the super bowl
say he likes the patriots but yu like the eaqles yu have 2 choices
1. tell him yu like the eaqles sum quys luv modisty
or
2. say yu like the patirots kuz sum quys qet relli upset f yu dont like who they like
lol

f yu have nothinq 2 say
well say
im srry f i dont talk im doinq sumthinq (i.e- homework,tv,sims) yu kno l0l
or say
im srry im kinda shy but ill talk so0n

hope it helps
-tay

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