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I'm sorry it's long..
I know it seems generic, but I've liked a guy since 6th grade (I'm now in 8th) It's hard to say anything because he's been out with one of my friends, and I don't really want to chance our friendship right now.. I sorta want to wait until highschool. But anyway.. my friend is always obsessing over guys, and their relationships.. and when I told her at first that I liked him, she was ok with everything.. but I told her that I knew that he didn't like a few people and she freaked.. she told me to stop being obsessive over his love life and to move on with mine.. It makes me mad to think I could have shared this with her, and now I don't feel like I can share anything else with her.. like I've lost the will to. She's always saying things like that to me, so.. when it's mine turn it's not ok? *sigh* it's not like I can just, pick up and stop liking him.. this is a three year thing, just told her about it a month ago.. I don't know where to go from here.. I still like him, but I'm starting to hate my friend and it really makes me mad that she can be so selfish like this.. I just need some advice.. thanks..
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Sometimes friends have a way of saying the wrong things because they are hurting themselves. Your friend's love life is probably in the dumps and she is expressing it like this. At the same time she may be helping you because she has gone through the same thing and doesn't ewant you to get hurt if this guy doesn't like you. There's nothing wrong with liking someone but if you are not going to do anything about it then you need to be open to other options. If you obsess about this one guy you may be losing a chance with someone better. Just take that into consideration. Talk to your friend though and get that cleared up. Friendship is worth more then some crush. Just find out if she was helping you or hurting you when she said that.
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omq same same same l0l well b4 ne way just keep it on the low nd` make sure he doesnt find out or it will bak fire on yu
hope it helps
-tay
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i think you should keep liking him i mean you have liked him since 6th grade so you must care for him and find something about him attractive but you need to just try talking to that friend and tell her you really like this guy and if she forgives you and you become tight again, maybe you can move onto talking to the guy. it might be hard but i bet you can do it! hope everything works out girl and tell me what happens. my column is crazykellie2009
♥ kellie ♥
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