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I am 15... and i have been helping my friends with their problems for years...their problems consisted of pregnancies and breakups to failing a class and not doing well socially.
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When my boyfriend is playing with my nipples, they dont always stay erect, sometimes they just go flat. I think it looks funny. Is this normal? They just kind of go flat like they usually are unless im cold.
This is normal....if you dont like it tell him to play with your nipples using ice..that should help.
Hi guys. This is probably meant for the older columists, but I'll direct it to all of you.
The only sex position I've done is Missionary. I'd like to try out other styles, but I'm worried about it. Like me being on top, I want to, but I weigh about 5O pounds more than my guy, so would it still work? He's pretty built himself and I can hold him, so yea.. Also, he wants to try doggy, do you guys like that? And are there any others that are fun and kinky? I'll rate. Thanks SO much!
It doesnt matter...as long as you can support yourself on your hands you being on top isnt a problem.....Guys love having the control in doggy and it would help in this situation. As for fun and kinky go to like a chair or something....try new places. Youre welcome
My foreskin maybe too tight. So I need to see a doctor do do a minor incision. No its not circumcision. But when I stretch my foreskin ''outward'' beyond the head of my penis, I can feel something like a line connected to god's know where. Anyway, do you think it will be wise if I take an enlargement pill assuming that the pill works? Plus, do other guys' penis' foreskin retract naturally when erected or you had to be circumcise?
Most men's foreskin retracts when they get an erection....go get the operation
Does sex feel the same for the guy and girl?
or does it have different feelings?
No not at all..the girl is being penetrated and the boy isnt he might get hard off of the foreplay and you might get the most pleasure out of the actual sex.
Goodluck
I had sex for the first time yesterday. And now I'm really happy. And yesterday night I was with my boyfriend afterwords and I didn't want to let go and I kept telling him I love him.
1. Do you think thats a result of having sex with him? 2. Do you think he hates it and thinks its annoying?
Totally off topic but..
3. Does sex stop hurting after awhile?
4. How protective are condoms?(from pregnency)
5. Where would I get birth control from?
6. And can I get it without my parents?
Ok
1)Telling him you love him after having sex is ormal because he gave you pleasure and you loved it
2)No he doesnt hate it. He likes to know he pleasures you
3)Sex doesnt STOP hurting but you get used to it
4) Condoms are 98% effective but make sure it doesnt fall off and that you ALWAYS use one
5)You could get it from your doctor if you are under 18
6)You could but it wouldnt be smart to
okay. it's kind of starting to freak me out ((i'm 18 female)) but i've been having some CRAZY dreams. a couple weeks ago me and my ex where arguing about how i was with this new guy. well that night i had a dream that me and him had sex, it was a detail dream. the thing is i've NEVER had sex with him. well last night i had another dream but it's like i was having sex with someone i didn't even know, it was also in detail. if it helps me and my now boyfriend had sex last night but then i had a dream about some other guy...is this normal? has anyone ever expericed something like this before? does anyone know what it means?
There is nothing significant about these dreams...they are just dreams....if you want to have sex with other boys this is probably what these dreams are trying to tell you but it doesnt mean you have to follow through with them
So im the type that always gives all my friends advice and now im the one in need.
My boyfriend and I had a fight 2 days ago.
And he emailed me saying he loved me and he was sorry.
And i dont want to lose him.
But im scared maybe this might be it.
what do i do?
I need him.
The only thing you can do is apologize back and then kiss and make up....haha...and accept his apology
Goodluck
There's a boy that I started going out with last April, and he's the greatest boyfriend I've ever had. We couldn't of been more happy. But, he ended up breaking up with me 4 months later and he did lie sometimes. He's had 2 girlfriends since then and I've kinda been scared to trust him, but he's made a promise to himself, friends, and family for his new years resolution that he will be more responsible with his relationships. We both have started to like eachother again, but I know a lot of my friends will get mad. One side of me doesn't care, and one does. This time I won't make any promises to him or anyone else, and I know how to deal with things now. Should I date him?
Go on a few dates but dont get into anything serious until you know he is serious
alright, well I asked this kid out a few days ago. Last night he said yes, so we're sorta "going out" now.
In the beginning of a relationship everyones just all happy, giddy & stupid. But I want this relationship to be a good one. I don't know where to go from here. It's going to be weird just going into school on Monday and seeing him. We're both really shy people. I abosutely HATE talking on the phone, because (no lie) I sound like a 3 year old.
The question is, where do I go from here? how do I get my relationship going? =/
Go somewhere with friends...it helps...then go to dinner and talk...dont rush yourselves
how exactly do you do that? i dont want to play TOO hard to get incase the guy gives up but i dont wanna be so easy that he loses interest
-15/f
Ok so heres what you do...when he is around your friends and his ignore him a little then if he says HI say,,"oh hi" in a cute voice..then take things from there.
Goodluck
There`s this kid and I'm not sure if I should tell him I like him or not. I think he MIGHT like me, at least a little, but I dont know if he'd go out with me. I also dont want to ruin the friendship if he doesnt feel the same. I would seriously be suprised if he didn't feel the same though, because I flirt with him all the time, and he definately flirts back. We have a pretty close bond already I think. I have his number, but have never called him yet. I'm thinking that maybe next weekend I will call him and talk to him about it, but I'm not sure. Could someone please help me out? Thanks.
Be agressive...call him...if he doesnt feel the same that is fine but if he does youll know sooner
Hey there.
I'm pretty confused as to what the song
"Welcome to the Black Parade" is supposed
to represent. Someone told me its a religious
song having to do with Hell and sins.
But I'm totally lost as to what its supposed
to mean. Can anyone fill me in?
OK.. that song isnt about religion....its about social issues.....people have problems like being beaten...and this is what the song portrays
I'm having a really big problem with a certain advicenator that gives horrible advice, puts people down, and makes fun of the questions that people can't answer... I know it's not my place to say something but this person is VERY rude and makes people feel like crud, I would know. I really want to say something.. This one girl said "Im 150 lbs and I need help losing weight" and the advicenator said "Who cares you're the f**king fat a** not me im only 112 and taller than u, fat a**" thats just rude so help me please... thanks alot
Just ask her if she is going to be an advicenator then they need to be nicer to people and if they dont report them.....i hope this helps.
Goodluck
I heard that you can use nupercainal ointment like Benzocaine, if having sex for the fist time is extremely painful. Is this true??
If it hurts stop
I'm seeing this guy that I really like, and I stayed over at his house for the first time the other night. Everything was fine until it came to the moment where I knew it was my turn to reciprocate the attention (for the first time)...and I panicked. I don't know why, I've never before panicked in that situation, but I properly freaked out, and just couldn't do anything.
It didn't seem to matter that much to him that I couldn't do anything, which was nice, but I feel so bad about it. For some reason, with this guy I really felt like I had no clue what I was doing and whatever I did I was going to screw everything up.
I didn't quite know where to put this question but still - how can I improve my confidence so I don't panic again? And any ideas WHY I panicked? I just don't understand.
Thanks x
Let him navigate where he wants you to go...or just sit on his lap and then open his legs and pull down his pants if their not there already...and then move your mouth down his body onto his..you know and then just go for it
Good Luck
at my school a lot of people have already lost their virginity. not just regular sex, but from oral and other stuff. i know that theres one guy that would be willing to but i don know if i should. i dont just want to be a follower but i also dont want to be the loser.
IF and only IF you find the right guy and your ready to have sex then do it. But having sex because everyone else is is not the right way to go.
ok so what exactly should you do if youre going to shave "down there"
because ive tried it many times.. but it never works out.
i use conditioner and shaving cream.
wen i shave the same direction as the hair there is still stubble. then if i shave in the opposite direction it cuts me and i get red bumps. i put on aloe vera or deoderant (i heard it helps with the bumps) after. but it doesnt help. is there a way to shave it all off without getting the red bumps or cuts?
please help because im seeing my boyfriend tomoro and i think i might go to 3rd with him
You dont need to shave if you want to get to third. And if you do want to get rid of the hair...WAX IT...itll hurt at first but trust me it works.
13/f
ok so theres this guy that ive been friends with for about 5-6months+! we can tell each other ANYTHING. but anyway...hes the sweetest guy but lately hes been acting a little different. everytime i talk to him it's "ooohh please dont fuck me like u did last night" but hes only kidding bcuz i never had sex. im a virgin. but then he started immitating all the moans and noises i would make if we did have sex...does it sound like he wants to have sex with me? but then the confusing part is he'll turn around and act normal again...off and on. should i be worried about him wanting sex from me? i mean...he just hit puberty so...can't really blame the guy for being curious right?
and i wanna have sex with him...dont get me wrong im not a slut!
...but should i do it?
thanks in advance
Do it....if you like him and he likes you do it and see if you like it if not try foreplay like oral sex or fingering...i hope this helps
When guy and girl are having intimate relations what do girls like the most when your trying to pleasure her...
Girls love to be eaten out....i know but it feels reallygood for them and they will like it and depending on the girl...FINGER HER she might like it
Ok so my boyfriend and I just started having sex regularly and I doesn't feel all that great. I always thought it would be something amazing but I don't really feel anything. Please give me some advice on what I could do to make it feel better for me!! thanks =)
OK, if you want to have sex try sexual things like you giving him a blow job or you being eaten out and figered....IT WILL FEEL BETTER FOR YOU