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I had sex for the first time yesterday. And now I'm really happy. And yesterday night I was with my boyfriend afterwords and I didn't want to let go and I kept telling him I love him.
1. Do you think thats a result of having sex with him? 2. Do you think he hates it and thinks its annoying?
Totally off topic but..
3. Does sex stop hurting after awhile?
4. How protective are condoms?(from pregnency)
5. Where would I get birth control from?
6. And can I get it without my parents?
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well you can get birth control pills by telling your mom that its to lessen your period by making it less and less days but really your using it so you dont get pregnat
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1.Love is not a result of having sex. It may bring you closer together but you can be in love without having sex.
2.I do not know him personally, so I cannot answer that.
3.Usually, sex does stop hurting after awhile.You are not as "tight" as before.
4.Condoms are pretty affective from pregnancy, and reduce the chances a great deal. Also,Condoms with spermicide are even more effective.
5.You can get birth control from your doctor. Tell your mom your peroids are irregular and you have very bad cramps. They will give you birth control.Also you can get it from planned parenthood.
6.Yes
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1)Telling him you love him after having sex is ormal because he gave you pleasure and you loved it
2)No he doesnt hate it. He likes to know he pleasures you
3)Sex doesnt STOP hurting but you get used to it
4) Condoms are 98% effective but make sure it doesnt fall off and that you ALWAYS use one
5)You could get it from your doctor if you are under 18
6)You could but it wouldnt be smart to
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It's a good thing that you enjoyed your first time, and that it resulted in you loving your boyfriend more, and getting closer with him.
I don't think he hated it. Usually guys love it when you tell them you love them after sex. It's reassuring that you're not just there for the sex. I doubt he finds it annoying.
Sex does eventually stop hurting. It's going to hurt the first couple of times though because you're still tight. It'll more likely hurt for him to get it in, and then it'll feel good once he keeps going.
As far as I know, condoms are 98% effective against pregnancy prevention. It's good to hope you're not in the unlucky 2%.
I believe they have birth control at planned parenthood. I'd find out their number & call them because they'd be able to answer your last 3 questions better than us.
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It's wonderful that your first time was so enjoyable to you, and inspired such feelings. And it's not surprising; sex releases all kinds of hormones and endorphins into your system, and that combined with the intimacy and physical contact with your boyfriend is naturally going to bring all those good, loving feelings to the surface. It's one of the reasons people enjoy sex.
Now, to answer your questions...
(1) Yes. And there's nothing wrong with that, because the sex didn't cause those feelings, it just brought them to the surface with more force than usual.
(2) If you kept telling him over and over for hours and refused to let him go even when he had to use the restroom, then you were probably annoying him. But even if he was a little annoyed by it, he was probably also very pleased that he made you feel so good, that you love him so much, and he was probably feeling similarly. After a while, you will be able to feel such things but be a little less "clingy" about it. Since this was your first time and it was great, you were a more than a little overwhelmed. I'm sure he'll forgive you. :)
(3) Yes. The first time, unfortunately, is painful for women. After a while, you will be able to relax more and it will hurt less, until it doesn't hurt at all. (note - if it does continue to hurt after a dozen times or so, see a doctor. Actually, you should see a gynecologist anyway now that you're sexually active.)
(4) Condoms, when used properly, are around 99% effective. Common problems with them include: using expired condoms, trying to put it on the wrong way and then flipping it over instead of discarding it, failing to put it on soon enough (there should be NO contact from penis to vagina until it's covered!), and contact after it's been removed. In other words, practically the only times they fail are due to people making mistakes.
(5) If you're talking about pills, you'll need a prescription. That requires a doctor's visit. If you need condoms, you can buy them in any grocery store or pharmacy. Make sure you have them whenever you think you might have sex - don't depend on your boyfriend to supply them.
(6) Again, assuming you're talking about the Pill, I don't know the answer to that one. Consult Planned Parenthood. However, it's not a good idea to take prescription medication without your parents' knowledge. They may be in a position to make a medical decision for you someday, and as such they need to know what you're taking. It's also a hard thing to hide for long, since you do have to take them every day and every parent knows what they look like. I imagine you're hiding from your parents the fact that you're having sex; don't create other things to hide from them too. Finally, the Pill is just not as effective as condoms (it's more like 95%) so you run the risk of pregnancy even with them.
One more thing: if you're under 16, you are too young, not only emotionally but legally (your boyfriend could be charged with statutory rape even if you were totally willing).
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1] Yes, it is. Sex makes people a lot closer.
2]If he loves you back, he'll be glad to hear you love him. It probably doesn't annoy him.. but if you are worried it bugs him. just ask. you guys should be in an open relationship where you can talk about anything if you both felt ready to have sex.
3]Yes - there is no set time that it will stop hurting. it depends on your body & how much you have sex.
4]Condoms are said to be really protective. but there are always risks in using them. they can break and they don't prtect against AIDS or STDs.
5]You can get birth control from your regular doctor or you can go to a planned parenthood clinic and get them there. (it's a good idea to get birth control) and just because you may be on birth control, don't think that it means you don't have to use condoms anymore. even with birth control you should use a condom.
6]Your regular doctor will have to tell your parents if you get birth control. but at planned parenthood, your parents will never know... they never call your house, or anything. plus it's cheap.
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