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heyyoull never meet anyone like me. never, ever
i smile alot and im usually happy
i hate bitches and backstabbers and liars
if you havent danced in the rain then you havent lived
i dont think im better then anyone else
im not conceited
music is my obsession
i like any kind of music exept country
rap is my favorite though
my favorite band is panic at the disco
i laugh all the time dont ask me why cuz i dont know either
you can love me or you can hate me you chose
either way i dont care
you can talk shyt about me all you want but atleast tell it to my face. i hate when girls stand 3 feet away from you and start whispering about you when you are right next to them how gay is that?
i love boys who couldnt
my friends are the best people and if yhu break there heart i break yhur face
i will die for my friends i love them so much ill do anything
i dont trust people easily and i have my reasons theres about 3 people in the whole world that i actually trust
i cant hold grudges at all. i can only stay mad for 2 hours then i act like nothing happened
thats just how i am
i go to western hills. drama is what some people call fun there
drama suxx so dont bring it to my page or anywhere near me
when i first meet people im kinda shy but if i like you ill talk alot more
im not shy around my friends at all im so loud and they know that
if your gunna judge me before you even meet me then fuck off because i dont want nuthin to do with you
im not here to steal your boyfriend, the Retarted store just called, they want there drama back.
boys, dont try to give me pathetic lies and say you love me when you dont
if i tell you i love you i mean it
yes kissing in the rain is so romantic
i would say im a prep. i mostly wear only abercrombie and fitch and hollister and stores like that
i dont care what you think of me becas of that
i love coach louis vuitton and d&b and all that stuff
sometimes im reely nice one minute and bitchy the next
but ill always be nice to you unless theres a reason not to be
i cant live without my cell phone. fact
i love soccer ive played forever
i fall in love easily thats not always a good thing
i like to meet new people
so if you wanna get to know me then please do so
if you want to know more about me then message me .
i dont want people getting the wrong idea of who i am
you probably didnt learn anything about me from reading this
if you havent met me,you could read this over and over again for the rest of your life and you still wouldnt know anything about me
so dont message me saying you know me when you dont and dont tell me that we are alike because we are most likely very different
reading this was probably a waste of your time
can you motha truckas please get over your selfs?
kaythanksbye =]
advice
Is there a limit to how much you should mastubate.. is it bad to do it every night?
There's really no limit and you can do it as much as you want as long as it's not interfering with your life.
PLEASE HELP IS NEEDED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
14/f- lives with mom, aunt, grandma, grandpa, dog.
today i went over to celebrate my 2 month anni with my boyfriend. we were going to go swimming and then out to dinner at the mexican resturant guatalajara. my mom dropped me off about 11am. about 2pm we get a phone call at his house saying that my grandpa was mad and wanted me home at 5:30. i asked if i could stay later so we could eat dinner. he said flat out no and that he was going to pick me up right away. i was lke then can you wait til 5:30. he said no. my mom came to pick me up from his house in tears. he had pushed her out the door to pick me up. once we got home, we yelled an cussed at he which led up to him hitting me, my mom, and my aunt, who had to separate me from my grandpa. he hurt my aunt and broke 2 of my mom's fingers. the reason he is so mad is cuz i was out with a boy. just that. nothing else. he yelled at me and told me to move out. like he wants me out on the street without a home.
does he have the right to hit me like that? why would he be so mad that i was out with a boy? what should i do? should i tell someone that he hit me, enough to possibly cause a bruise? what should i do?
Thats not right at all. Why would he hit your mom and aunt if he was mad at YOU for going out with a boy? It makes no sense because he would just hit you right? Well, anyway abusing people is wrong and the fact that he broke 2 of your moms fingers must mean he did it pretty severely. I would call the police and have them check this out. You,your mom and your aunt will have to be witnesses and say that he hit all 3 of you. The police might send him somewhere else to live. I wish all of you best luck.You shouldn't have to live like that. You deserve better.
naturally_sadie
is it bad to suck in your stomach like all day? can it cause damage to your lungs or anything?
No, it's good for you because it makes your abs tighter.
since i'm going to highschool in september i'm very curious how ppl. are judgemental.
1)i'm a girl and i waz wondering in school dances if i am grinding with a girl... would that be considered as being bi..because i'm NOT.. so is it o.k to grind with a person the same sex as you?
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2) say i'm grinding with a guy would i be considered as a slut or a hoe or skank or trick?
1. I think you would be considered bi grinding with a girl. Even if you arn't, people could easily get the wrong message. If you say your female friend dancing with another girl, wouldn't you be thinking ew??
2. I don't think you would be considered a slut if you grinded with a guy. It's only dancing so who gives a crap?? I think the only way someone would think its kinda skanky and slutty is if you grinded with every single guy you saw. If you're going to grind with guys only grind with a few if you do it with tons then people will think ew, whore so watch out, you don't want to send out the wrong message. I would only grind with 1-3 guys no more then that.
Well, those are my opinons.
naturally_sadie
Well, tonight was my fourth time having sex. It hurt a little at first but then it kinda felt pretty good. It hurt very bad the first 3 times.
It felt like i wanted to like scream [in a good way]
I was wondering if this is normal? cuz i always heard it hurts until the 10th time. But, maybe a myth? hah.
Well, thanks =]
That's deffinitatly a myth so it's not always true. It varies from person to person. If you've already broke your hymen from sports or something, sex might barely hurt at all or for some people it hurts all the time. It depends how much pain you can take and if your hymen is already broken and how big the guy is. Its very normal to feel good the 4th time. On average, it starts to be less painful on the 3rd to 7th time. There's nothing wrong with you so you don't have to worry haha. You're lucky it doesn't hurt anymore because for one of my friends it didn't stop hurting until like the 12th time!
naturallysadie
when someone is like tense and stuff or whatever, why do people say "he needs to get layed."?
People say that so the person who is tense can get comfortable and relaxed.
naturally_sadie
Hey!
Im 14/f
I have this prolem where people keep pointing out that i have rather large boobs. It is really embarassing and it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I am a 34B.
So i guess i want to know if there is any way to appear smaller or make my breats less noticeable.
I wear a lot of polos and dont really like very baggy clothes.
Thanks so much!
I'm 13 and 34b and no one says anything to me. 34b actually isn't big at all so if people say that you have big boobs take it as a compliment not an insult. They are just jealous that you're not flat. If someone says that to you just say, atleast people don't mistake my chest for my back!! In a few years, you'll be glad you actually have boobs. Be happy with the way you are and don't try to hide what you have because girls would kill to have a chest. Just don't wear any padding and you should be fine.
naturally sadie
Ok well i have a myspace right.There has been hella lotz of girls asking me for my codes.At first i was okay with it but they kind of started taking advantage of it and one girl nearly asked me for my whole page!!!lol Then i have stuff that has my personal quotes and stuff and some girl asked me for the code to the letters and kept what it said!I seriously dont know how to tell them to not ask me for my codes because im not going to give it to them.I dont wanna sound rude or mean eigther tho....so wut should i say next time?
I think you should put in huge letters on the top of your page "DONT ASK ME FOR MY CODES IM NOT GIVING THEM TO YOU AND I WILL JUST IGNORE YOU." I know alot of my friends do that and no one bothers them. It's not rude either because no one likes people taking your ideas and stuff. If they ask you even after you put it in big letters, tell them to look at the top of your profile where it says not to ask, tell them you want to be orignal, or just ignore the question and don't answer it. None of those are rude.
Hope I helped,
naturally sadie
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My boyfriend likes to grab my butt when were standin upp and kissing.. he later told me that it makes me kiss more when he does that.. [ there was a joke involved but you wouldnt understand] anyways.. i sorda wanna get him back.. so where should i touch him that he'll kiss more? =).
You can squeeze his butt and rub it to get him turned on. Also, touch AROUND the private but not on it and he will get really horny. Kiss his neck a lot of guys love when you do that.
Good luck! =]
What are some of your favorite songs? I need lists, I just bought an iPod and I don't have many songs just yet and I have no clue what to buy/put on from CDs. Also, I know tons of songs but I can never remember the name or the artist. Any help is appreciated!
Hey.
I'm not really sure what type of music you are into so you might not like a lot of the songs because these are my favorite songs.
London Bridge - Fergie
Show Stopper - Danity Kane
Ain't No Other Man - Christina Aguilera
Promiscious - Nelly Furtado
Any songs by Panic At The Disco
Call Me When You're Sober - Evanescence
A Public Affair - Jessica Simpson
Deja Vu - Beyonce
Chain Hang Low - Jibbs
Do It To It - Cherish
Sexy Love - Ne Yo
Dani California - Red Hot Chili Peppers
Bossy - Kelis
About Us - Brooke Hogan
Snap Yo Fingers - Lil Jon
You and Dat - E-40
Shoulder Lean - Young Dro
I Know You See It - Yung Joc
Life Is A Highway - Rascal Flatts
Savin' Me - Nickeback
It's Goin Down - Yung Joc
Unfaithful - Rihanna
Invisible - Ashlee Simpson
Pullin Me Back - Chingy
Gallery - Mario Vazquez
It's Okay - The Game
Say Goodbye - Chris Brown
Honestly - Cartel
Me & U - Cassie
The Kill - 30 Seconds To Mars
Candy Man - Christina Aguilera
Bout It - Yung Joc
Animal I Have Become - 3 Days Grace
Fix You - Coldplay
All The Small Things - Blink 182
Rent Soundtrack - If you like the movie.
Dane Cook - He's a comedian and he's wicked funny you can buy his stuff on itunes!
The Suffering - Coheed and Cambria
Hot Hot Heat (It's a band.)
Bow Wow {good rapper)
A Little Less 16 Candles - Fall Out Boy
Call 'N Return - Hellogoodbye
Ignition Remix - R Kelly
Gone So Young - Amber Pacific
Beauty In The Breakdown - The Scene Aesthetic
That's all I could think of, you may not like any of this music it's basically all rap and some rock and alternitive. I'm not sure what you liked so I tried to put all kinds of bands! I hope I helped.
I love feedback! Good or bad.
[naturally_sadie]
ok whats the difference between making out and french kissing?...i always thought they were the same thing...thanks
Honestly, they are the same thing.
well im 13 and wanted to know what are good jobs that higher at that age if any.
Honestly, I don't think there's really any jobs that hire people at such a young age. I'm 13 as well and I was looking for a job too, and I haven't found anything yet.
But, you could always have your own little "business" haha.
Babysitting - You make A LOT of money and if the kid is good, then it's pretty easy. Also, free food!!
Lawn mowing - Everyone needs someone to mow their lawn! Might be pretty boring though, but if people you know like your neighbors hire you then you'll make good money.
Bake sale - Bake cookies and cakes and pies and stuff like that and sell them. It's a pretty easy thing to do but once I tried it and no one came so I sat out in the hott sun for 3 days and made NO MONEY!! Haha, but you might have better luck.
Lemonade stand - Classic! Had to say it because I used to love lemonade stands. Maybe try learning how to make frozen lemonade and you will get more customers.
Yard sale - Any old toys or clothes or any junk around your house you could sell. Put up signs so people know, maybe even an add in the paper?! Even if the stuff is crap, remember another man's trash is another man's treasure.
Rake leaves - Only good in the fall though.
That's all I could think of so I hope that is good enough.
naturally_sadie
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my friend doesnt change her underwear for like, 2 weeks, and besides being incredibly gross, is it harmful?
I believe it's very harmful for you, because all of the bacteria down there is building up and it's very un-sanitary. Also, she must smell down there too, yuck. Let her know that it's not good for her and she should change her under wear minnimum once a day, but I think even just once is a little gross. If there's a reason why she doesn't change them alot, like if she doesn't have a lot of underwear, then go buy a couple of packages with her so atleast you know she has underwear to change in. You might want to remind her to change them too, haha.
[naturally_sadie]
Me and my 2 friends are all 13, and were going to the mall on saturday alone, like without a parent or nething. We all are probbly going 2 go into JC Penney's and get push-up bras lol so i was wondering if stores alow young people (like minors) to buy push up bras without an adult or older person there.
Haha, yeah you can buy them. Nothing wrong with that.
Okay so I have this friend who I horseback ride with and she's three years younger than me. Well, you wouldn't think that would matter because she acts more mature thatn she really is and it's almost like she keeps me in touch with my innocnet side. (at our age, 3 years is a big difference). However, every time I mention her, my best friend goes, "Ew, you're 5th grader?!" (going into 6th)So my question is is the age difference okay?
Age is just a number. If the younger girl is a good friend who you can trust and you know won't hurt you, then who the hell cares how old she is?! Your other friend is the one ACTING like a 6th grader! Tell your friend that she needs to learn that you don't judge people by how old they are, you judge them by what kind of a person they are. So if she's never even met this girl she shouldn't be talking crap like that. She may be jealous so make sure you give her extra attention and if she keeps making fun of you and you're younger friend, tell her that she should respect that you have other friends besides her.
naturally_sadie
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How far do you think is too far when it comes to changing for your boyfriend? Is it the hair, the clothes, the attitude & friends?! I need to know.
Hi.
You shouldn't have to change at all for anyone. If you're boyfriend doesn't like you the way you are now, he never will. You should just tell him in a nice way that theres no reason to change for him and he should just love you for being you. He can't tell you to change your clothes and hair and the way you act around your friends. Thats just crazy. Be yourself. If he wants you to change your personality and looks, then he doesn't love YOU he only loves who you're going to become if you change for him. Wait for the guy who respects who you are now. Guys that constantly want you to be different, arn't worth changing for. If he doesn't like the way you are now then a relationship can't work out. If you change who you are for him, then hes just going to keep telling you to change things and he'll never be happy with who you are no matter what even if you do everything he tells you to. Only change yourself for you, not for others because in the long run its not worth it. I'm sure you are great the way you are. And if your boyfriend doesn't notice that then he's not worth your time.
Any other questions, just send them to my inbox.
[naturally_sadie]
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this might be a stupid question but i want to ask you since you are like my fav columnist..when someone has sex..does that person stop growing ..breasts size and height size..?..thank you..
Hey!
Aww, thank you. I'm glad to know people enjoy my advice. I'm going to make this short and simple. No, you will NOT stop growing when you have sex. All that will happen is that you will lose your virginity, if you haven't already. You're boobs won't stop growing until your around 18-21 somewhere around there. And you will stop growing in height around the same time as your other family members did. You can easily ask your mom or someone else in your family when they stopped growing in height and it will be around the same for you.
So the answers to your questions are no and no.
Make sure if you have sex you're using protection!
[naturally_sadie]
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i just got finished with my period..like a dayago and today my boyfriend came over and he fingered me really hard..it felt good ..but then blood came out andi felt really dizzy..could it be he popped my cherry?..or could it be my period wasnt quiete finished yet..please help because i cried for hours not knowing what to do..i seriously do not want to lose my virgenty im 14/f
Hunny, you did not lose your virginity. You can't lose your virginity unless you have sexual intercourse. You're hymen can break from horse back riding, masturbation and tampons but that doesn't mean your not a virgin. He probably just popped your cherry, but if you didn't have sex then your ARE a virgin. Also, maybe you weren't done with your period. Either one, you have have nothing to worry about. Wait 2 days and if you're still bleeding then, then you should be concerned and you should see a doctor. If her popped your cherry or not, you're still a virgin.
Hope I helped.
[naturally_sadie]
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i change my braces every 6 weeks what color should i have only 2 colors or 1?
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14/f
Hey, my friend has braces and she usually has 2 colors which looks really cute!! You don't have to pick a color thats "not noticable" because whatever color you pick even if its not a bright color people can still tell you have braces so you might as well pick a color you like. Alot of people have braces these days almost all teenagers so it's not something to hide or be ashamed of. Good combos are pink & orange, pink & green, and light blue and navy blue. One color is nice too, it depends on what you prefer.
[naturally_sadie]
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ok soooo i heard somewhere that guys always brag about gettin oral sex n blowjobs w/e bc alot of girls dont like to do it bc they dont see the appeal in it & think its gross [thats how i am, ha]. so is that true or is somethin that like alot or most ppl do?
Yeah, well some people like oral sex and some are like you and don't. It's normal either way. Don't let people push you to do anything you don't want to. If you feel like you have to give oral sex, then you're wrong because you don't have to do anything you don't want to. People who do give blow jobs are usually whores and you don't want to be like them. Don't do anything until you're ready. It depends how old you are. The older you are, the more people are going to be more sexually active. If you're grossed out about it then deffinitely don't do it.
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