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Heyy, just call me Tara.I've lived in Ontario all my life.Im sweet sixteen and Im just starting my junior year.I like to joke, hang out with my friends and enjoy every bit of life.My friends mean the whole world to me.You mess with them, you mess with me.Im a very dramamtic and emotional person.Im oppinionated and wont let down a good fight.Very friendly down to earth person and easy to talk to.I absolutely love psychology.In the future when I get to university Im going start my years of being a psychologist.=) Im on a hiatus for now.Just Dealing with a break up with my long time boyfriend of 1 year.I wont be on giving advice again until im fully recovered and inspired to give advice again.Thanks for your time.Buh bye.
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If you're wearin a condom and you cum and it goes into the woman is it possible to get pregnet?
If there was a hole or there was a possibility that the condom broke then she could get pregnant but if you checked the condom right after sex and it had no holes or anything like that.No she wont get pregnant.
okay. i am 5'8". do you think that is too tall for some guys. the guys that are about my height. i mean. i would prefer a taller guy. but it doesnt really matter. are taller girls a turn off for guys?
Noo I think thats pretty average.It all depends on the guy.Some guys that are shorter perfer taller girls or girls shorter than them a and same goes with taller guys.
When i reach a orgasm i feel sick is this normal?
Ya that can happen.Some people just get lightheaded and some people dont.Its normal so I wouldnt worry about it.
Ok so heres the deal. I've heard that you can't get pregnant from anal sex...while obviously...but I've never done it before and like it seems kind of gross...I mean, a certain body part going into the place where...poop comes out of?
I just don't get it. Is there something that I'm missing?
Some people find pleasure out of it.Its really risky and you cannot get pregnant from it.It can cause complications going to the washroom.And well its not the cleanest thing to do.It can also tear tissue and such.And I believe its very painful.
i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help
I was just like that when I first went into highschool too.You usually overcome that fear.I find the best way to strike up a conversation is in class.And the best way is at the beginning of the year.New people, new friends, new guys.They dont know you, you dont know them.They dont know that your shy.Ask for help on something and then start to get into a conversation.Or if you have to go into groups, just ask a guy to be in your group.I always find that easy. :\
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hope everything goes well
what are some things I can do for a guy to make him feel special and aren't overly gooshy?
Tell you love him how much you love him.Some guys like that.But I guess that can be "overly gooshy" if you make it seem that way.
Can feeding ur cat grass help it? i heard it can.. what can it do to it?
When cats eat grass it help there digestion.My older cat used to eat grass all the time because of her hairballs and when she felt sick.It helps it to get it out of her system.
i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom?
If you've both been checked for any kind of stds.Then its alright after 1 month(your first cycle/pack of pills).Thats what my doctor told me :\.But you should also use a condom, because the pill isn't 100% effective.But thats your choice.
okay well, im 14 years old and my bf does foreplay, where he sucks my breasts. and i was reading a magazine somewhere and it said that one time a girl did the same thing, and she started producing milk because her body thought something needed it, because her boyfriend was sucking it. im so scared im going to start producing milk, please help!
As far as I know that can't happen.Unless your pregnant or you have too much of one kind of hormone in your body that cuases you to produce breast milk.LoL I wouldn't worry about it.Im sure it's happened before but its less likely to happen to you or to anyone else.Im sure its very rare.
Ok so there a guy i've known for a year and he's gonna be moving like 2 hours away...anyway soo im in love with this guy and we have done other things but i got a urinary tract infection which obviously has nothing to do with your "other" parts...But ya so anyway do you think i could still have sex with a urinary tract infection cuz im going to the doctor to get antibiotics but this guy will be gone for good by then.
I'd talk to your doctor on that one.IF I were you I wouldnt just in case.It might be painful for you.Also if you are on birthcontrol antibiotics make it less evective, but you never mentioned that so...LoLBut If you talk to your doctor about it he/she will be able to tell you its safe or to stay away from it.
hey my boyfreind and i want to have sex..
but we never talk.
its like getting sexual is an exuse not to talk because its awkward so we do that instead..
should i dump him?
Well only if you feel you need to.But maybe you guys arn't ready yet if its going to be such a big deal.Maybe if you leave the topic alone.I dont think you should dump him over that.But if you guys arn't having the greatest relationship and you guys can't even talk, then maybe its time to end it.
Hey. well i am 13, and last night i was at my boyrfriends house, with all his friends. my bf is 18, and all his friends were about 17-19. There were 10 of his friends. we were all drinking, and doing drugs, etc. we all got a little too drunk, and i ended up having sex with my b/f, and all 10 of his friends. it was really fun, and stress relieving. but anyways, now my bf is mad because i had sex with 11 guys that night. how can i explain to him i couldnt help it?
oh by the way.. i am 13. and a female...
HELP
Your probably not going to like most of of what I have to say.But I could careless if you rate me low.Im just telling it how it is.
What in your little mind drove you to do something like this?? Drinking?? Doing Drugs?? I mean its totally your fault that you were doing stuff like that in the first place.You were practically asking for it :\.You COULD have helped it by not even have done that in the first place.When I go to a party and drink.I stick with my b/f at all times.I would be mad too if i knew my b/f went and had sex with 11 other girls.How do you even know if those guys had some kind of std's.You should have thought before you even done this.13...wow.Thats pretty harsh.Like I understand what you mean when you couldnt have helped it.I mean if you were doing drugs and drinking as much as you said that could fuck up your judgement. I just wish you thought a little bit more responsiblity about the whole situation.
If I were you i'd go to your doctor right away and make sure everythings ok.But thats kind of heartbreaking just knowing that some drunk 13 yr was having sex with guys that were 17-19 years old.Im sorry but thats sickening.They could go straight to jail.Wow honestly...I wouldnt blame your b/f being mad at you...id be absolutely be hurt.How would you feel if he did the same to you with a bunch of your girl friends??Well I hope everything goes well for you.
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Alright, i just got a puppy, and hes 7 weeks old, hes a golden doodle mix (golden retriever/poodle), and he humps his blanket...and other random objects...hes only 7 WEEKS old...is that normal?
any advice you have, i'd appreciate!
thanks
ya thats prefectly normal.Once you get him fixed(if you are)the problem will usually go away.My dog did the same thing really young.It's just an intinct in male does, very common.
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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few days ago in the shower. I happened to notice some blood trickling down the drain. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough to concern me. Is that normal? Please tell me!
Ya thats normal.Some people tend to bleed the first time they loose there virginity because your hymen breaks.In other cases it could break too.Some dont bleed at all there first time some people do.
Wearing a thong will make me feel sexy around guys i know im only 13 but just about everyone wears a thong in my school that my age. Should i just go off and buy one or should i tell my mom i want one. Im afraid shell think im a slut because she dosent want me to date yet but i do behind her back.
At first when I started wearing thongs I was scared what my mom would think.I thought the same thing.I decided to go and buy one behide my back but I did my laudary and she saw it and said it was ok to just ask her instead of just going behide her back.I dunno, I would ask your mom and see.Certain moms getting kinda ...well they dont really feel your old enough and other moms do.
I'm 13 years old and I really want to have a BF. However, I know that most BF/GF relationships usually begin by being friends 1st. How can I become friends with boys?
They dont have to start out as friends first.Me and my b/f just met each other and a few days later he asked me out.I mean if you want to meet guys ya its a good idea to make friends with a couple of guys.Just talk to some guys :\ I dunno.I think thats the best way to become friends.
This is weird, but Im TERRIFIED of sex. Im 14. But, I hate to think about which is weird because I masturbate all the time..but to think of something actually going in there is scary to me. Ive tried to put tampons in before and even that KILLS..I only get half way and I stop. Can anyone tell me if sex really hurts? On a scale of 1-10? Is there any pain sex compares to? Is it worth it?
When I lost my virginity it didnt hurt me at all.But everyones first time is different.It could hurt like a ten or it could hurt like nothing or no pain at all.I dont know about being worth it, I guess it all depends on the person.I wouldnt do it if your scared tho...your obviously not ready :\ give it a few years and you'll be ready.I was scared when I was younger about it to.You get over it when you become familar with it
Im really nervous to have sex with my boyfriend even though we've been dating for a long time. I want things to be perfect. How do I prepare myself for sex? I shave everything in that area and I know about protection, but I want to know some ways that girls get ready for sex, or any opinions of what guys like. If he gives me oral Im scared that it will like taste funny down there...are there ways that I can make sure its okay? Any advice is apprecitated. Thanks
Well if your so nervous maybe you arnt ready.You cant just say.Ok im doing it...so how can I get ready for it?If you feel comfortable and you are ready then thats the perfect time.Dont think just because you guys have been going out for a long time means you guys should have sex, it all depends.A lot of girls think that a guy giving them oral is like...omg why would you wnat to do that it tastes disgusting.I've heard from alot of guys that its not that bad but theres tons of girls that think the same way you do.But if your unsure still you could always have a shower right after you guys have sex or you guys can used flavoured condoms.Its not just a benfit for us giving guys oral but also have sex with a flavoured condom also makes us taste good too LoL :P.You could also try flavoured lubricant too...im pretty sure they have that.
next week, it'll be me and my boyfriend's two year anniversary and i feel like he's losing interest in me. what are things i can do to gain his interest back?
Try doing something like re-living your first date.It would bring back memories of how close you guys were.Do something that you both can bond over.Did you ever ask if he was losing intrest in you though?? maybe it might seem like it but maybe really he isnt losing interest.I mean you guys have been going out for two years.Why would he want to throw that away?
I hate my eyebrows but im scared to shave them [w/ an eyebrow thingy] how can i make them look better without screwin them up using that thing?!
DO NOT shave your eyebrows.Go to a pro and get waxing .They could shape them for you perfectly.Then ask then how you could continue on from theer and keep them that way.Other than that id stick to plucking, it isnt all that bad LoL same with waxing.