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Im 18 years old.I love giving advice to people.I try the best i can. Im going to be having a baby very soon.I love spending time with my friends and chatting online.Also writting in online journals, going to the library and spending time with my boyfriend and family. Also enjoy fishing and going to my lil bros baseball games , and going to the movies
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Anyone know any good quoets or phrases that like ya mum says nown and then not like MSN name type ones but like "Nothing like a good fire to warm the bones" and things like that.. becuase I need them for my stroy lol thanks x
search google or yahoo ,, i know thats not the greatest help but you can find phrases and quotes all around on the net.
firehotquotes.com has quotes
I have cuts up my nose.. im not sure how but probably becuase i kept picking my nose everymorning because I had a bag cold i didnt want to go to school with giant greenies hanging out my nose! Now my nose feels like ive been blowing it for ages you know that feeling right? But how do i make my cuts up my nose heal? BEcuase you cant really put any creams up there to stop them hurting and to heal up really.. so ya any help guys sorry if you find it sick and that you find nose picking is sick but we all do it and its better than walking around with a clogged up nose and yes i do pick my nose AT HOME in PRIVARTE lol im not THAT sick thanks x
dont touch it anymore. those types of things happen to everyone. You just shouldnt touch it anymore. you should let it go it will heal its self .
Im a teenager and I have scoliosis and Im under the impression that exercise will help. If someone out there has information about phyisical therapy for scoliosis please take a minuet to answer my question. thanks!
They say Yoga is a good way to exercise. There are some yoga books for it. http://www.ctds.info/scoliosis.html
go to that site and they explain somethings and they have people who wrote about how they worked with it. I hope that helped a little. *mDezzy
hi um, i have heard a bunch of words in school, and i dont know what they mean. can you help me?
they are:
mingle
goatee
fingering
fugly
saprophites
ratastrophe
-thanks
Saprophytes?? means a plant living on dead decaying matter
there isnt a word ratasrope. Theres Catastrophe. which that means - the final event of the dramatic action. specially of a tragedy.
I have a friend and she is one of my best freinds and she is really nice when hanging around me but when she starts hanging out with one of these popular girls at school she starts calling people retards and idiots and gay. we hate this one girl at school and we talk about her because she gets on our nerves. after that, the next day right after she has talked about her she goes behind my back and hangs out with her how do i get to know if she goes behind my back and talks about me and just hangs around me because she wants to tell people what i say and stuff that i do????
Most of the time if a friend says things about someone and hangs out with the person they ran there mouth about then , they probley do it to all there friends. She probley is that type of person , a person who talks about other people and her friends to make her self feel better.
does size matter or is that just some shit ppl say cause mine is 6 inches long and girls tell me that is small but does it really matter
Well depends on how old you are. Its not always about size , not all girls are about size. Some are because they like them big. You shouldnt let a girl get you down. You have what you have. Its true if you were worried about it you could get a penis pump .suppose increase the size. I dont know if thats true. BUt if your young, then im sure you'll probley grow some more .
mDezzy
I've been have very vivid dreams about an old flame for the past 6 or 8 months and its starting to drive me insane. The twist to this story is that we we're childhood sweethearts from the age of 8 to 14. I'm now 19(20 next week) and we haven't spoken since 8th grade graduation. I can't shake this feeling lately that I still have feelings for him. As innocent as out relationship was being infatuated with someone for that long isn't something to easily let go of. There are so many reason I can't explain that make me feel as though we are soulmates. I've westled with the decision of whether or not I should contact him but have decided against it. I know that part of my recent obsession with him is my loniness and depression. As much as do feel like he's my soulmate its likely we'll never see eachother again. At this point I'm more concerned with forgeting him and stopping the dreams that make me dread going to sleep at night. What can I do to get over him?
I think you should put your mind on other things. Maybe you need to start looking at other guys and trying to be with someone else. You could be dreaming about him , because maybe u want love in your life right now? You want to be with someone and you want a love like when you were a kid back . Maybe you need to trry and get a hold of this guy and see what hes up to , and where is now. Maybe hes single , maybe you can see him and maybe there might be something there.He could be a soulmate. I believe everyone is ment to be with one person and i believe you can find them at any age. You can leave them for years and then come back to each other , because you know no one will ever take the place of them. Or maybe you need to see him once more to get over him? I gave you the best advice i could think of, i hope i atleast helped you out the least bit.
mDezzy
Okay well I really like this guy, we were supposed to hang out tonight, but he told me at like 8 o’clock tonight he couldnt, even thought weve had it planned for like a week. WE also were supposed to hang out wendsay but he said he couldn’t go because of his mom, like he had to wai tfor her to get home then he said he’d call me, yet he never did. Should i keep trying to get this guy, or should I just let him go? He seemed interested a couple of days ago and he still seems to , we talk on the phone like evry night, but I don’t know what to think, and if you’re a guy please tell me what this means!! thanks
He could be shy? Maybe he doesnt know how to act around you ? thats a possiable reason. Maybe you should tell him hey , listen i thought you wanted to hang out with me. I was looking forward to it. Is everything ookay. There could be a possiablity he likes someone else to and doesnt know what to do . But you should try and find out. Ask some questions hun. Its probley hes shy , and scared. There are some guys out there like that . good luck.
i have been dating my b/f for one month now and i cant stop thinking about him! it's crazy, i'll be watching tv and then for no reason i will think of him. or if i'm listening to the radio, a song will remind me of him. i mean even when i'm shopping or eating. he is constantly on my mind! nd i have been totally crazy about him for a year, and he said he has liked me since he first met me. he tells me all the time about how he cant get me outta his mind either. we'll be on the phone for hours and it will be 2 in the morning nd he's so tired but we never hang up. he says its bcuz he wants so hear my voice and as soon as he hangs up he misses me. i think i love him, i always get this excited crazy feeling when i just think about him and i smile all the time for no reason, i feel like a dork.
do you think i love him?
It could be love or it could be you just really like him . You shouldnt ask us if we think you love him.We dont know how u feel . But i will tell you , when its love you will know its love because its like nothing you've ever felt before. So you have to answer this question your self.I dont mean to sound meean and if i do im sorry . But honestly we cant tell you if u love someone. you know what i mean.
how early can you tell if you are pregnant? I am 16 and i am on the patch, i got off my regular schedule of the patch a month ago or so. The past three days i have had nausia and stomach aches, and they feel different than i have ever had. I also just have a gut feeling i might be pregnant, i jsut bought a pregnancy test tonight, and i plan on takeing it toamrrow morning. IT is one of those 5 days before your missed period, and today is fri and i should be getting my period on sun,mon, or tues. I can't wait though, im really nervous. and i am wondering if it does come out negative tomarrow, if it could be wrong just because of how early it is?
now also, do i tell the guy i'm sleeping with? because i am afraid he will not like me ne more, and i am pretty sprung off of him right now. i mean i know that if i am pregnant its early and i could probably take a pill, but either way i am not haveing a baby so is there even a need to let him know? he is jsut gunna get all worked up about it and upset, and he ahs a lot going on right now as it is.
I had the same problem. i had taken a test though , and my test came back negitive and it was wrong. there is a certain amount of days after having sex, for it to show up. I knew i was pregnant because i felt so differnt. I didnt feel the same. i told my boyfriend i was pregnant and he told me i was just worried. finally a week later i went to the doctors and got a test from them and they told me i was pregnant.But i took 2 test from the store and they came back that i wasnt. I was so freaked out. So if anything. Take the test , and it may come back negitive. I still got my period when i was pregnant . But only when i first found out i was pregnant .If you feel your not sure if your pregnant i'd say go to the doctors.Infact , you could go to planned parent hood for a test . Sorry i know its not reassuring. But i hope that everything works out for you.
i'm currently a senior in high school (counting down the last few days before graduation!) and over the last year, i've met an incredible friend. i met him last august, but over the last nine months, we have grown to have the most complex friendship i have ever had in my entire life; we immediately connected, both having similar interests in literature, music, opera, coffee, etc. he is a year younger than i am, thus when i leave for college, he will be in his last year of high school.
he is currently going through a lot of emotional pain and stress in his life. i admire him him so much for all he does; his parents have just recently separated and he takes care of his two younger sister. i see how he takes charge, takes on more responsibilities than either of his parents do. in addition, he has grown to be an extremely central part of my life.
i'm going to be a good five hours away from my friend next year. he isn't very close with many other kids in our school, or even outside of school, thus i know our separation is going to hurt him (as well as me!). i keep telling him i'm going to come back and visit, that i want to see him and i'm looking forward to seeing him in the school musical next year.. he insists that once i'm gone, i'm not going to come back; he insisted the other day he feels as though he is inferior to me (which i don't understand, considering he is extremely smart, did much better on his sats than i ever did, and has a musical gift).
i have seen how he has lost a lot of people in his life; he refrains from expressing much emotion around me because i believe he is afraid to let me in, afraid of losing me.. how can i assure him that i will keep in touch, that i will come back, that he won't lose me? i tell him constantly that he means to much to me, that he is unlike anyone i have ever met.. but i fear i tell him too often and it all sounds so fake..
Well its hard for someone to believe what you say , so i say to him you'll see. Call him keep in touch with him ,make some suprise stop bys . Tell him 5 hours isnt that long and tell him how he means to you , and you wouldnt want to lose him .
It's that time of year again. We're going to sign eachothers yearbooks. I'm sick of writing Cya in ___ (whater grade yor going in nxt year) and have a good summer. I was wondering what are some cool "quotes" to write in?
good site-firehotquotes.com
Whenever my parents go out to "buy" me clothes, that's when the problem starts. They always buy me things like plaid skinny leg pants or big, oversized T-shirts, and that just isn't my style- I prefer jeans and a nice, form-fitting tee. Is there a way to tell then that I don't wear things that I used to wear as a little girl without hurting their feelings?
Tell them how you feel. Tell them your growing up and u want to start choosing your clothes. tell them you dont want to hurt there feelings but , every parent has to go through that point where there child grows up.
this is driving me crazy...all my friends have bf's besides me..yet im not the prettiest girl in the world..but every where i go someone says something about their bf's or how they hate being single..and i am 15 and never had a bf...can someone help me?
Dating is a hard.SPecially when your friends are all dating and your not. I had that same problem . Are you a shy person ?Maybe you should try and open up more and be more noticed. You dont have to be the prettiest girl in the world to have a boyfriend. Believe me on that. YOur prince will come .
I am going to the beach in 3 weeks and i was wondering, what are some ways to tone up your stomich area? I am not realy confident but i love my bathing suit and i want to feel nice in it. I am 5'3 female that weighs 120pounds, Im 13 in 7th grade. i do cheerleadin in the summer but that doesnt start till the 22nd of next month!!!
I just want some simple stuff to do like before bed.. like quick exercises maybe a website or two! Thanks!!!
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You could do some sit ups before bed. thats good on your stomache. even if u jog a couple times a week for alittle while it will help.
ok if i have unprotected sex(stupid and dumb i know)...but the guy cums in my mouth and not in me....can i still have gotten pregnant?? i need serious SERIOUS help!
Yes you can get pregnant its right. They call it Pre-cum. And he can do it and not even know it.
how does birth control work? should the guy still have a condom on if your on birth control? and how much does birth control cost?
Depending on what birth control you get its between 80%-99% . Honestly yes the guy should still wear a condom , just because your on birth control doesnt mean u cant get pregnant.YOu have to take the pill everyday the same time and u cant miss doses. Birth control im not sure how much it cost but if you have insurence some insurences cover it. you can look up birthcontrol right online. Even Plannedparenthood.com has stuff about birth control on it.
Im in chorus at my school. I love singing and the class is sooo fun..my teacher is the best and i love singing at concerts. We just did The Phantom of the Opera and it was fun! I know that sounds corny but i really like it. I love being on stage. Well we had to sing for the graduates this yr and i felt embarrassed. We had to wear these lame chorus shirts and blue skirts. Everyone was laughing or snickering why we were singing..i felt soo embarrassed. All my friends make fun of me and im tired of it. Should i just quit chorus or what?
You shouldnt quit something you love to do .If your friends can treat you with respect then why bother with them.Honestly dont give up something you love to do because of your friends. Make friends in chours , you shouldnt let them get to you.
So me and this other guy whos in two of my classes exchanged yearbooks to sign... I dont really know him that well so i was just like have a good summer!
but when i got mine back- he was like you are so awesome we should totally hang out sometime and he gave me his email, sn, home and cell phone #s!
i was like..um ok..i dont want to be mean to him but i want to show him that im really NOT interested...
any suggestions???
Just because he thinks your awesome doesnt mean he likes you more then a friend. SOme guys can want to be friends. if infact he does like you more, then explain to him your not intrested you think of him more a friend type . DOnt lie to him about it.
i'm with this guy that i really care about and well, i've never had a serious boyfriend before and well, i'm not exactly sure what to do about people spreading rumours and stuff. i haven't been telling alot of people but alot of people know i'm going out with somebody they just don't know who, and i'm not sure if i should just let everybody know so they'd all shut up and stop bugging me to tell them or not tell them and let them find out for themselves. thanks
Do you want people to know?thats the big question . Dont let people talk about you.IF u dont want them to know then dont tell him , its not there business. If u dont care either way then just say im with "this person" . you dont need to share your personal life.