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I've been have very vivid dreams about an old flame for the past 6 or 8 months and its starting to drive me insane. The twist to this story is that we we're childhood sweethearts from the age of 8 to 14. I'm now 19(20 next week) and we haven't spoken since 8th grade graduation. I can't shake this feeling lately that I still have feelings for him. As innocent as out relationship was being infatuated with someone for that long isn't something to easily let go of. There are so many reason I can't explain that make me feel as though we are soulmates. I've westled with the decision of whether or not I should contact him but have decided against it. I know that part of my recent obsession with him is my loniness and depression. As much as do feel like he's my soulmate its likely we'll never see eachother again. At this point I'm more concerned with forgeting him and stopping the dreams that make me dread going to sleep at night. What can I do to get over him?
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i thkn you should call him. find out what he has been doing. catch upon stuff. tlak about good times. but #1 find out if he has a girl friend!! youll fell better if you talk to him!!
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I don't think you should worry yourself too much at all. When we have no love interests we quite often go back to thinking about people we used to like and the more we think the more we picture them as being an ideal boyfriend/soulmate. If I were you I wouldn't worry about fancying him and thinking about him all the time - carry on thinking and dreaming and just dream up ideal storylines that make you feel great! If you want to contact him then go for it! I foyu were such good friends before then what's the harm? Just a friendly email asking what he's been up to and telling him what you've been up to. Maybe you've created this ideal person in your head and your scared about finding that he isn't in real life and it will burst your bubble?? Hope I have helped a little
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i think it means somethings going to or has happened between the two of you that needs tobe soleved find his house call him its never too late to restart a friendship(execpt maybe in my case but thats my problem) as for getting over him you need to date other guys
Solemnstar
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I think you should put your mind on other things. Maybe you need to start looking at other guys and trying to be with someone else. You could be dreaming about him , because maybe u want love in your life right now? You want to be with someone and you want a love like when you were a kid back . Maybe you need to trry and get a hold of this guy and see what hes up to , and where is now. Maybe hes single , maybe you can see him and maybe there might be something there.He could be a soulmate. I believe everyone is ment to be with one person and i believe you can find them at any age. You can leave them for years and then come back to each other , because you know no one will ever take the place of them. Or maybe you need to see him once more to get over him? I gave you the best advice i could think of, i hope i atleast helped you out the least bit.
mDezzy
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