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Ok I have a news flash for ya
I'm better than you.
It seems that in this politically correct society, no one wants to say they're better than the next guy.
They're just different.
Different must mean worse, cuz I'm better than those people too.
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my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo
SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME??
tell her it bugs you.
My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?
It is one thing to talk to him about it; it's another thing to badger him about it. Try compromise. Tell him not to drink or smoke around you, because honestly, it isn't your place to order him to stop. Also, it's normal for 15/16 year olds to experiment. It isn't a problem unless he is CONSTANTLY doing it.
I have a yeast infection and I'm okay with it because I've had one before. The only thing that worries me is that I had sex for the very first time last weekend and I'm scared that it happened from that. I'm very sensitive "down there" and if every time I have sex, its gunna happen then thats not a good thing. Can you get a yeast infection from sex or an STD?!?!
Yes you can get a yeast infection from having sex. But no, it won't happen every time! It's usual for a girl to have irratation after losing her virginity, but just to be on the safe side go to get tested for an STD. Don't worry, almost all STDS are treatable :)
I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up..
No, not every girl bleeds. Some girls say it hurts, some say it doesn't, some bleed, some don't. And it's not uncommon to have the first time be short or awkward. It sounds short, but sex (the first time) only lasts about 30 seconds. Trust me, it gets better and longer :)
hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help?
Girls are complicated, it depends on the girl really. Here are some tips, but they might not work for her :
SHE'S FLIRTING IF-
1. She gets upset if you talk to other girls and says things like "you like HER?!"
2. She touches you in a flirtasious way, such as lightly touching your arm or your leg.
3. She talks about how you were a great boyfriend and she wishes she could find another guy as great as you.
SHE'S NOT FLIRTING IF-
1. She gets excited when you talk to other girls and says things like "Oh my gosh I HAVE to set you 2 up! you're perfect together!"
2. She punches or hits you in a friendly when you tell jokes.
3. She talks about how you are such a great friend.
If all else fails, just ASK HER BEST FRIEND :)
well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child..
Some parents have a tough time expressing emotion when it comes to their children. Don't hate him for it though. You should see him again, but try writing him a letter so you can get all of your feelings on paper and give it to him. That way, you know you've said everything you're feeling. Then allow him to have a few minutes to get his thoughts together and see what he wants to say. If he isn't understanding, try family counseling. You're guidance counselor at school can provide you with a list of clinics in your area.
hey .. ok well im 13 years old and weigh 120 lbs and am 5'3" . i get made fun of a lot because of my weight, but over this past year i have already lost 20 pounds. so even though i feel good about myself, my self esteem goes down pretty badly everytime that somebody makes a comment, considering i am an extremely sensitive person. do you have any tips i could use to get in shape or lose some weight before school starts up again ?? thanks ..
by the way you're really pretty !!
ps : what is the proper weight range for my height and what is your weight and height ?? :)
thx soo much !! xoxo
120 is a very healthy weight for your age, you aren't fat! It's good that you took intiative to lose weight, but the most important thing is that you feel good about yourself. People are always going to make comments about eachother, the trick is to ignore them. I know that it's hard to just ignore comments people make, but if they don't get a reaction out of you, they'll shut up. As for losing more weight, I have a few suggestions :) :
1.Running will get your heart rate pumping & it will tone up your whole body in addition to losing weight.
2.SWIMMING! it works every muscle in your body, with all the benefits of running.
3.Try renting a pilates or yoga video, or taking a class. It's an easy way to tone up your body and work on flexibilty.
To answer your height and weight question, that depends on your frame. I did a little research in this is what I came up with:
If you have a SMALL FRAME (you're tiny all around, not an athletic figure), you should be between 111-124. If you have a MEDIUM FRAME (a figure such as a soccer player), you should be between 124-138. If you have a LARGE FRAME (big-boned), you should be between 131-147. So, you're perfect for your height, right in the middle of the small frame!
I'm 5"5 and weigh 124 :)
Thanks for the compliment!!
Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!
It isn't damaging if you do it proporly. Don't curl them so much that they are bent backwards, just curl them enough to give your eyes a full look. It is a good idea to give your eyelashes a break every now & then, maybe use a curling mascara a few days instead of curling them. A few suggestions are Maybelline's Sky High Lashes, Physicians Formula LASH-IN-A-TUBE, or Mary Kay Classic Mascara. Hope this helps :)
hey i have this friend and i dont really like her and she annoys me. well she considers me her best friend and all and always wants to come over. i always make up some excuse so she doesnt. my mom doesnt like her either and doesnt want me to hang out with her. i mean that would be fine and all but we dont only go to school together we also have dance together which is EVERY day of the week. so i cant really get away from her. i dont want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at me (or her mom mad at me) cause than at dance it could be a problem. wat should i do ???
This girl obviously looks up to you, you should be flattered. I know that sometimes those tag-a-long friends can get REALLY ANNOYING, but the best thing to do is say that you don't really want to hang out outside of dance class because you have too much homework, you're grounded, etc. Eventually she'll get the hint. I don't usually tell people to lie, but if you talk to her about this, you're going to really hurt her feelings & embarress her. How would you feel if someone you really like told you to f*ck off or go away? Put yourself in her shoes, and handle the situation delicately.
i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18.
You did the right thing by being nice about it. He probably just doesn't take rejection well. Call him up or drive to his house, sit him down, and tell him how important he is to you, but you just can't be "with" him. He seems really shy because he is 18 but he still couldn't bring himself to ask a girl out, so he probably is just upset.
im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do?
You need to move on. You sound like a sweet, romantic girl, but if you have been chasing him for 2 years and he isn't taking the bait, he obviously isn't interested in you romantically. You deserve a guy that chases YOU, not the other way around. I know that love hurts sometimes, but I promise that once you start looking at other guys, you'll feel better.
I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring..
If you have had acne for a while, you may have a severe acne condition. Try Proactiv, you can get it online and from infomercials. If you have tried it already, go to your mom and ask her to make an appt. with a dermatologist, he can prescribe you a stronger medication, such as accutane or retin-a-micro. And I know acne can cause people to feel bad about themselves, but just use a good concealor & DON'T PICK YOUR SKIN! Everyone gets zits sometimes, just hold your head high
am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't.
You aren't fat, but if you are unhappy with yourself, try working out. But you are by no means overweight.
ok...me and my friends have been doin pot since we were like 11 and now im 14 and i cant stop. i was sick for three months, then i went to rehad for 7months and it sucked. now its been about 5 months since i was in rehab and i think im addicted to it again. i dont wanna go back to rehab bcuz that place sucks. ive tried everything i can and i just cant stop. i know that this seems like a serious problem to be puttin on a random site but my girlfriend said that i gotta do sumthin. my names gordon and my s/n for aim is a2020zipdrive. so if u got ne suggestions, let em loose baby. thanx!!
instead of going to rehab, try a counseling program at a nearby clinic or at your school. you do need some form of guidance. good luck
i dunno what a yeast infection is! its probably a stupid question, but what is it?
It's not a stupid question :)
Yeast infections can be caused by an STD or vaginal irratation. You CAN be a virgin and still get a yeast infection. If you think you have one, here are some symptoms:
1. A funny discharge, usually yellow or clear. And it smells like HELL.
2. Any form of irratation down there...itching, burning, etc.
You might want to make a gyno appt to get checked out every now and then.
Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help!
When you were born you were most likely tested for HIV because if one of your parents have it, chances are you have it as well. You should get ALWAYS tested after sex, for all STDS, and it's a good idea to go and get tested BEFORE sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend to prevent getting an STD. Also, if you are using narcotics or sharing needles, you should get tested ASAP. And if you are planning on having sex, use a condom or diaphram. :)
are you a virgin
nope, but I don't have casual sex either. I don't sleep around.
im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way?
When I was younger I was exactly how you are now; even the slightest comment would upset me. You may just be shy, in which case you could maybe try self-help videos or books to gain confidence. However, if you find yourself upset almost to the point of paranoia, you may have an anxiety disorder. These can lead to panic & anxiety attacks. If you think that you may have an anxiety disorder, speak to an parent, relative, or teacher about it. Otherwise, (I know it's cheesy) just look yourself in the mirror and say "My name is ____ and I am a good person, no matter what anyone says". It really does help :)
Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free?
Try www.photobucket.com and www.picturetrail.com.
Photobucket is good if you want backgrounds, friends only banners, icons, etc. for greatestjournal, livejournal, or deadjournal because it offers URL's, IMG's, and Tags. Picturetrail is great for pictures of yourself and your friends, and offers you a guestbook & customization :) Hope this helps.
my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!
What you described is family abuse, probably stemming from anger problems. AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (before your injuries fade) show your parents what he's done to you and explain how he acts when they aren't home. If they don't respond well to the situation, speak to your guidance counselor at school & try to get him in an anger management class.