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i have a few extra pounds around my stomach area and inner thigh area. how do i get rid of it? , then how do i tone the rest of my body? (link)
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to start off i would go on a diet...stick to low calorie foods but make sure everything is balanced..try to cut out food like chips and fried food also bread as it is full of carbohydrate which will bloat you...theirs a number of excercises that you could do but swimming is very good for your legs well its good for all of your body really...swimming will burn calories and tone your body at the same time so your killing 2 birds with one stone...just stick with swimming and a good diet and you could see results within as little as 1 week! good luck x
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like most people, after some time our jeans stretch out and aren't as perfect as they once were.. Is there any way on how to shrink my jeans? Its so stretched at the waist/hips and so it doesnt hug me anymore..
Thanks..
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try putting them in the tumble drier...if this doesnt work then i think that the end has come to your jeans! x
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17/f
i recently posted a question about this guy i like and how we had a thing for a few months and all of a sudden he ignores me for 4 weeks.. well someone here on advicenators gave me some helpful advice. my mind has been very occupied with him and i've been constantly trying to find ways to talk to him. but i think the advicenators person was right.... i need to move on because he's not worth it. its not worth it because its obvious he doesn't like me as much as i like him. and any relationship with a guy like that, isnt worth it. i want a guy who adores me and is obsessed with me and loves me and can't stop thinking about me.. and its pretty obvious this guy isnt what i'm looking for... but then again, why am i thinking about him all the time???
how do i move on? and how do i stop thinking about him because now i know he's not the guy for me..?
ps: i have a boyfriend, so dont say "look for other guys"
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hiya! sorry i tried to private message you but wasnt sure how to..in time it will go away honestly i bet within another couple of weeks you turn and say"what was that all about" keep yourself busy and spend as much time with your current boyfriend as possible...the reason your thinking about him all the time is because you really like him...to be honest theirs not much you can do apart from what i have mentioned...these feelings will go away! dont worry! heres my email lozzytee@hotmail.com...if u want to speak then you can email me and i will speak with you when i can! x
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hi 18/m
i bought a weight bench a while back. It used to be in the lounge, but it was an eyesore, and took up too much space. Then i put it in the garage, but i never use it, because i cant be bothered to go out into the garage in the freezing cold to work out. I would ideally like to keep it in my bedroom, because it would be convenient.
My question is, would it be ok? the bench itself weights 16.5kg (as far as i can remember), plus the weights themselves. Will the ceiling collapse through or anything?! will it be too heavy? The house was built in the 70's i think, maybe a little earlier if it helps?
thanks folks.
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my friend has a weight bench in his room...his dad built like a stage, block kind of thing and it goes on their.....so it doesnt fall through...if that helped
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I am a 19 year old. I know this is a fairly common question. But I am getting a bit concerned for my health. A few weeks ago my fiance and I had sex, during ovulation. Couple weeks passed, and I was due for my period. My period never came after a few days, so I tested one evening and it was a negative. Felt a little iffy, but relieved for the most part. Couple days afterwards I got a pinkish discharge. The next day I was discharging blood like a regular period. Was a little lighter than usual but I shrugged it off. Then a couple days ago, the discharge completely stopped. Today, still nothing. So my bleeding only lasted for a day. I have been waking up with some nausea, sore breasts, and still feeling tired even though I slept in today. My stomach feels a bit bloated, for the past few days at least.
Weird thing is my period always lasts 6-7 days, not 1 day. I usually get bad cramps but that's it. During that day until today, a little cramping but not much.
I have no medical insurance and I won't be able to get to a clinic until tomorrow or Friday to get tests. But in the meantime, I wanted to ask what it possibly could be, and what I can do until I head to a clinic.
My stress levels are also fine. I haven't been stressed out or depressed. I get some mood swings though. My periods are always regular.
I also posted this on Yahoo! Answers, but didn't get a lot of help from it. So if anyone could offer any decent advice that'd be great.
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ok either you are or your not pregnant..your symptoms do sound as though you are pregnant, however the bleeding on the other hand could you be spotting...do not worry at all and take a test in another couple of weeks..you will get a better result then and make sure you take the test first thing in the morning as your urine is more concentrated...if the test is still negative then i would say go and see your doctor...but give it time first xx
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I notice before i get my period and even during it i get pain down below it's pretty painful and i'm not sure what's causing it iv'e already visited my gynecologist..
Does this happen to anyone elese?
Can anyone give me a explaination to why
it's happening?
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yes i get this aswell my periods are REALLY painfull about 3 days before all the way through and carry on till 3 days after..sometimes they can be sharp stabbing pains and sometimes it can ache and cramp...best thing to take is 2 paracetamol and 2 ibuprofen at the same time(depending on how old you are over 12 you can do this) take paarcetamol every 4 hours and the ibuprofen every six...works for me! xx
its normal!
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17/f
gahhhh i'm about to rip this guys head off because he's soooo confusing!!!!!!
so me and this guy had a thing for a while (a few months) while i was dating my boyfriend. ( i know i know.. that was a mistake and its wrong, dont need the lecture) and all of a sudden he stops talking to me... everytime i try to text, he wont answer. he wont pick up my calls. sometimes he even picks up and then hangs up right away. i tried inboxing him on facebook but he wont respond. i checked his wall and he's on sometimes and he talks to his friends. one time i even saw him post this on a girls wall "hey we haven't talked for a while, you should text me sometime" WTH!!! then today i just checked his page and it wont come up on search pages... meaning he deleted his facebook account. i searched his other friends and checked to see if they were still friends with him, and they aren't.
I have NO clue what's going on... its so sudden. I have a slight idea that maybe he's busy with college classes and work and family.. but why would that be an excuse as to treating me this way??
what do i do?? i still really really really REALLY like him... like i can't stop thinking about him and checking my phone to see if he responded. gahhhh he's soooo confusing!!! HELPPPP. thanks (link)
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sorry i have just been trying to fugure out how to private message you...as for moving on i split up with my ex of 4 and a half years 6 weeks ago...i dealt with it by blocking him out of my head keeping myself busy..and thinkng positive about it...i mean why would you want to be ith a guy who is IGNORANT and doesnt care about your feelings..just think positive because their will be a guy out their who likes you and wont do this....if you need anything else you can message me! x
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I've been stressing out because I can't lose weight at all. I know I shouldn't worry about it because I'm only 14 but I am freaking out. I've been running 30 mins a day for about two weeks but I've actually gained 2 lbs! What the?! I guess I did grow a little in those two weeks but I really want to reach my goal. I don't eat that much, either. I am currently (almost) 5'0" and I weigh 125 lbs. I'm not fat, I'm actually really skinny but I'm rather muscular because I used to be a dancer. I want to be 110 lbs. Any advice? (link)
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MUSCLE weighs more than fat like you probably know...so running may be strengthening your muscles and their getting BIGGER thats is most probably why! try eating a balanced meal and do carb burning workouts like an excercise dvd or something x hope i helped you
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i have brunette hair, and i want to use non permanent hair dye the color is light auburn, do you think that it will ruin my natural hair color if i use it?
and what does it mean by non permanent? (link)
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non permanent means that after around six weeks the dye will start to fade from you hair but with me it usually took about 3 months...if the dye you want to use has a tint of red in it then thats the hardest bit to come out..its the dam red lol....it wont ruin your hair colour you just need to give it time to go back to normal if you want it too x
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how can u get a job at 14 (link)
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try your local pubs because when i was 14 i used to wash dishes in a lot of pubs and got quite good pay for it :D
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i'll try to keep this short:
me: 19/f/asian, i consider myself a decent gf/gf material.
i want to know exactly why i get screwed over by guys all the time. i get responses like, "we've grown apart" or "i think we should stop talking for a while, i need to focus on myself". i've been hurt over and over and i'm starting to think something's either wrong with me or every guy i meet just finds a way to hurt me.
so, now, i met this new guy (23, cute, asian, etc) and he's very sweet to me, jokes around, got pretty comfy with me fast. how do i know he won't hurt me like the others? (link)
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its life hun! men can be like this..strange breed lol..i have a kind of similar situation apart from the guys that seem interested in me and have my number act as though they want a relationship or a date when really they want sex and they give me all the "im different" crap...but trust me just take your time and you WILL find a guy who likes you and wants to stick with you..their is NOTHING wrong with you at all you are your own person and you will find a guy who likes you for you...even you could question this guy that your seing at the moment see what he says..but i wouldnt worry too much about this...hope i helped in some way! good luck x
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18/f
so my boyfriend and i are planning on having sex underwater for the first time. I was just wondering if condoms would work? Are they waterproof. I really dont want to end up pregnant. And, when we have sex underwater, will water go into my vagina? Is that bad if it does? Water with chlorine or something. Is it safe?
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i would advise you not to have sex underwater...i did once and it gave me realy bad stomach ache...condoms wont work either and yeah water will go into your vagina more than likely...plus if its in a pool then yeah theirs chemicals like chlorine that could go inside...on the other hand you could try having sex in a shower??? not quite the same but hey lol x
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my life has been really hard lately just around father's day of last year my best friend died and then this Thursday my Granny died and now the guy that I was seeing broke up with me about 3 days after I found out my granny died I just don't know what to do anymore please help me. (link)
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im so sorry to hear that you have had a hard time...i have been through similar situations and i felt at my lowest point...you have a few options that can help you....
cousiling-go and speak to your doctor, dont be scared i went to my doctor and i cried to him and everything but they can be so suportive..and they can refer you to cousiling and the coucilors are really nice and share otherrs experiences with you.
2.confide in a really close family member or friend because your not the only pesron going through the loss of your granny.
3.if you feel really bad and that you cant go on like this then ask your doctor for some anti-depressants..they really worked for me.
4.if you feel your at your lowest point and things couldnt get any worse...well things could only get better for you
hope i helped in some way...good luck and you can email if you want to talk..lozzytee@hotmail.com take care xx
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19/female.
I guess I just want to know what turns a guy on?? Bascially I know that just touching them can turn them on but what are things that guys really like?? I'm not going to lie, lately i've been so horny haha and I need to do something sexual, but I want to be sexy while doing it and before. I guess i really never make the first move and just wait for the guy to do it and if he doesn't then nothing happens. Me and this guy have been so attracted to each other and I just want to do something that will really turn him on. I pretty much just want to flirt with him first and get him excited and then whatever happens, happens but I dont really know what to do?? I'm the girl who is scared to make the first move because I don't know how a guy is going to react and if they flirt with me or touch me first I know how they feel but i'm done waiting. I recently bought these really cute lacy black booty shorts with a cute bra and I want him to see me in that, but the thing is I need to get to that point and I dont know how!! (link)
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this sounds like me..i dont have the confidence to make the first move(sober)..well..lol on the other hand when i have had a drink its a different story..everything depends on the guy if he is interested in you then he will make some sort of sign or gesture..always wait for the gesture because their have been times when i have made a gesture and it has gone wrong!...so like i said the guy has to show hes intersted first.kissing a guys neck i find they like so maybe go in for a kiss and if your not confident enough then why not do what i do have a drink first..so yeah go in for a kiss and if you dont feel confident after that they guy will take charge..and he will go from their..and dont be scared to ask the guy what turns him on.all guys are different....dont know what else to sugegest really maybe somebody will come up with a better answer than me but hope i helped somehow :S x
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could facebook actually tell you who views your profile? or is it just a scam? (link)
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i wondered this myself...i think facebook just makes up the people on your friends list so they havent actually looked on it...their just picked out at random x
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Should a girl use lubrican the first time she has sex? (link)
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it wouldnt hurt as much so it would be a good idea..you dont have to though because your body makes its very own lubricant when you get aroused x
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Hello, Its my birthday party tomorrow and my cousin will be coming so will a few of my friends. My cousin has never met my friends before so i guess when they meet they will be talking a lot. And One of my friends went to QLD, a place in australia during the holidays and me and my cousin went there a while back. I told my friends i went to 2 theme parks there when i went to one. Im scared incase my friends find out im lying if my cousin and they talk about it. And theres other stuff ive lied about I dont know why i did it, but what do i say if they do find out? (link)
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this sounds like what i used to do just say pointless white lies..if a friend says to you "i thought you went to 2 theme parks" "just say i only ended up going to one but i wanted to go to two, thats what i was meant to say"...so just try and twist things..i know its bad but its better than you being called a liar...also try and stop with the little white lies..because one day you could end up really embarassed by it..good luck xx
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this may be lengthy, but please i have never shared this with anyone and NEED help.
When i was 13 years old i got my period in September for the first time in 8th grade. shortly after this, i realize now i went anorexic. i hardly ate anything, and i lost weight rapidly. my period never came back again a second time. i got extremely thin to the point where by ribs stuck out and my face looked sickly. the sad thing is, the whole reason i did this because i wasnt happy with my body. i was thin, but i had no boobs. i decided if i didnt have boobs, then i would get really skinny instead. its sad that i didnt know that i had no boobs because my period had just started and they had not started growing yet. so i was basically anorexic for about 7-9 months when i realized i was too thin. i started eating normally again and very slowly gained weight. my period return about 2-3 months after i had started eating regularly again. i was still very very skinny. in 8th grade during the height of the anorexia, i was 90 pounds and 5'4. at the beginning of my freshman year, i was 5'4 1/4 and around 100 pounds. my boobs were very shrunkin and little, however i didnt realize this was because i went through anorexia. i gained weight rapidly, by the summer between my freshman and sophmore year i was about 110-115 pounds. my boobs still remained very small but did not appear shrunken or anything anymore. i maintained a weight of about 110-115 throughout my sophmore year and into the summer of my junior year. i am now in my junior year. i am 5'4 and 1/2 and weigh around 123 pounds. i have gained about 35 pounds since my anorexia, but i am not sure i am recovered. i cant tell. i am appear and am physically healthy again and have been for a while now, but i have gained a sufficent amount of weight and my breasts have not grown. they look healthy at least, but are still very small. they haven't really grown at all. can anyone who has any kind of experience in this area please tell me, is there any chance i am still recovering from this? and is there a chance my breasts will still grow?
also, since i have had my period back it has never been regular if that helps at all.
i appreciate any help. once again, thank you. (link)
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im sorry i cant answer all of this for you but il tell you what i can answer..i dont know how old you are currently so i dont now if theirs time left for your breasts to grow..when i was 13 i had none at all and when i turned 17 they just went whooosh and now im a bra size 32f...which at 13 i was a 30aa...if thats any help to you so if your around 16 or 17 now i would say be patient because they can surprise you!! xx
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hi i'm 16 female. i have this friend who this year became more involved in my life. the beginning of the school year was great we were getting along. starting around november she began acting differently. she's been giving me HUGE attitude and treating me like crap. i didn't do anything wrong that i know of and if i did do something wrong that i didn't realize i did it definitely wasn't anything terrible enough to be talked to like this. it's like that vibe you get when you know someone doesn't like you and has been talking about you behind your back. some days we talk nicely and civilly and then the next day she's really mean. i don't get it. she's not like this to everyone, just me and maybe a few others. she will tell secrets in front of me and if i ask what they're talking about she'll just say nothing and giggle. i swear she acts like she's in middle school. i'm a high school junior and never before in my high school career have i come across someone so immature. i haven't been reacting to it because i've been just blowing it off and acting civil and polite. so my question is, what can i do to end this treatment once and for all? i'm a human being and she is not superior to me and i need to be treated fairly and nicely. i will not put up with this any longer. by the way she is not confrontational at all she will do anything to avoid talking about it, like if i ask what's wrong she'll say nothing with an attitude but it's obvious there is. she will do anything to avoid confrontation. please help. (link)
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ok im not an expert but this is what i would do...invite her out or to your house or somewhere and be firm and get staright to the point with her..if she wont come to your house (alone) or anywhere then just keep trying or wait for the right moment when shes alone make sure theirs no other friends around so she can just walk off from you and ignore what you want to say..speak to her and say look your my friend and i like you i just want you to answer me and ask you why do you treat me like crap..i dont deserve it and its really hurting and upsetting me...am i your friend or not?..if your my friend you wouldnt speak to me like this...just make sure she cant walk off anywhere thats why im saying at your house or somewhere..i know cutting her out of your life isnt an option but when you speak to her if she just replies "nothings wrong" just say ok go and i wouldnt speak to her to be honest because shes not a friend she sounds like a bit of a bully and a nasty piece of work..so yeah just get to the bottom of it and if she wont explain herself then i wouldnt be friends with her..try and make some new friends and just ignore her when shes around..eventually maybe she will realise what she has been like (i had a friend like this onece) good luck xx
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ok I have recently been having really shap pains in my abdomen. I mena it really have been hurting me. What could this mean I mean I am 14 and I don't know what to think. I have missed my period and I was suppose to get it on the 3rd here we are on the 19th what could this mean. please help. (link)
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also i dont now whether you have had unprotected sex or not or whether you have ever had sex...but if you have i suggest that you take a pregnancy test aswell..im me if you need anything xx
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