Member Since: January 9, 2010
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Last Update: January 10, 2010
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4+ months now...it doesn't seem like that long, but it is for me. We have had sex, but I don't regret it. I don't feel like sex makes 2 people closer together, it just seems like a fun thing to do with someone you love for me, so I don't really know if our problems are related to sex or not. The main problem is that he's changed. He used to be so sweet to me...once he told me I was like God to him. The first time we had sex was a couple days after Christmas break began. I was about to leave on a 2 week trip and I really just wanted to have sex and have fun before I left...now don't get me wrong, this wasn't a spur-of-the-moment decision. I had thought about it before and we had talked about it a lot. We talked about our concerns with sex changing us and I knew I was ready. I don't regret having sex with him at all. Well after we had sex, and I was gone for about 2 weeks, he would be texting me all the time and saying how much he missed me and loved me. Then I got back, and he was just SO happy to see me and I loved it and everything seemed perfect. Fast forward to now, a couple weeks later. He is hardly ever sweet to me any more...our conversations seem to have no substance whatsoever...he randomly gets mad at me for the smallest things...we never go on actual dates anymore, he only cares about sneaking out with me so we can have sex. I brought that up to him and he said it's just easier to sneak out because he doesn't have to think of a place to take me, he doesn't have to ask his parents for permission, and he doesn't have to get money...I just don't think he really cares about me any more, or he just doesn't appreciate me? Is there anything I can do to save our relationship? Please help me out, I put off posting this for the longest time, thinking I could handle it on my own, but now I'm not so sure. Give me an honest answer, what do you think I should do? (link)
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Give him time to miss you. When you were away he missed you so keep him at a distance without ignoring him. And don't have sex with him all the time; if he gets mad at you for not wanting to have sex then thats all he wants. It seems to me that he feels he doesn't need to make an effort anymore since you already gave it to him and guys like the chase; saying its easier to sneak out and just have sex isn't a good excuse to not take you out on a date... think about it. He can sneak out take you somewhere romantic. right?
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18 f
Hey guys sry if its long but I'd appreciate the help !
So about 2 months ago I was in the train and I saw a gorgeous guy
He started looking back at me and we exchanged glances and
Even a couple of smiles. Then like 10 mins later he comes a little
Closer and says hi my name is nate and he asks for my name
And was just a total gentlemen and looked really sweet.
Then when he was about to get of asked for my number to keep
In touch. I was so excited because he was a total cutie.
Btw, before he left he invited me to a club. Now that isn't
Something I normally do. I'm a total romantic girl I love going
Out to dinner with my guy or going to watch a movie.
So the next day he called and asked me to email him a pic.
I said sure then he said a sexy pic?? I was a little confused and just
Sent him a normal pic but he kept asking me for a pic and to
Put on some shorts. I told him that I'm not that kind of girl
And that I need to get to know him. So he said ok. Btw he's 20 yrs old.
Anyway the next day he invited me to go clubbing again. I said I couldn't
And I called him the next day and invited him to the movies.
He said he hates the movies and would rather me to go over to drink??
I don't drink. I'm a total good girl, haha. So anyway we haven't spoke
Lately and idk wat to do. He's so cute but I don't club. Or drink.
I feel like we live in 2 diff worlds. He was a total gentlemen
When I met him. I guess I just want him to like me becuase I have
This huge crush on him and I can't stop thinking about him. I tried
But it didn't work. I guess I just wanted to give him a try and see if
It could work out but we have 2 diff interests. I wanna hang out with
Him but don't know what to say when I call him. Any ideas or advice about
The whole situation?
Also I've been trying to contact him like I text his other phone once and
He didn't reply. I know he likes me he told me he could see myself
With him, but I guess I just want advice on how to tell him
That I really can't stop thinking about him and I want
To have a serious relationship with him. Help ??? Btw I don't wanna
Just say it, it might sound weird and desperate haha. What do I do?. I seriously can't stop thinking about him. ! (link)
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You don't know him enough to know that you guys live in two different worlds. Him just asking for a sexy pic the first day he met you sounds a little iffy. I don't know if I would trust him. Before you let him know how you feel go on a couple of dates and get to know him better, your feelings might change. Right now all you're really thinking about are his looks....
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17/f.
to make this very short, my best friend is really jealous of me & gets jealous of anything i say & do, she makes up lies and always tries to one up me. its getting on my nerves so much. its getting worse & worse. i tried to confront her about it, and she gets better for a few weeks, and then its back to her old ways. i just don't know what to do. (link)
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I had a "friend" like this and guess what? we're not friends anymore. She had done so many things to me behind my back but I was always in denial and took her side because "friendship and love conquer all" but not when its a one way street. Try telling her something while she's doing it, don't let her do it! She knows she can take advantage of you or at least that's what it seems like. And how do you know she's "jealous"?
P.S "No one can hurt you with out your permission"
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