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confusing boy part 2
17/f
i recently posted a question about this guy i like and how we had a thing for a few months and all of a sudden he ignores me for 4 weeks.. well someone here on advicenators gave me some helpful advice. my mind has been very occupied with him and i've been constantly trying to find ways to talk to him. but i think the advicenators person was right.... i need to move on because he's not worth it. its not worth it because its obvious he doesn't like me as much as i like him. and any relationship with a guy like that, isnt worth it. i want a guy who adores me and is obsessed with me and loves me and can't stop thinking about me.. and its pretty obvious this guy isnt what i'm looking for... but then again, why am i thinking about him all the time???
how do i move on? and how do i stop thinking about him because now i know he's not the guy for me..?
ps: i have a boyfriend, so dont say "look for other guys"
THANKS!
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Well its hard the guy you're thinking about will be on your mind from time to time...my exes and hook-ups pop into my mind from time to time. You just have to realize that you're better than this and that you can do better. I don't think you want someone who is obsessed with you (when I think of obsessed I think of someone creepy with like a picture of my face on a pillow...kind of creepy don't you think? haha). I've liked a lot of guys who treated me badly or didn't care as much as I did and when that happened I was upset but then I realized they were missing out. And life is too short to worry about some "Joe Smoe" that didn't even impact me or any part of my life. When you get older you're probably not even going to remember his name...live in the now enjoy the time with your boyfriend who cares about you. Forget the guy whose missing out!
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hiya! sorry i tried to private message you but wasnt sure how to..in time it will go away honestly i bet within another couple of weeks you turn and say"what was that all about" keep yourself busy and spend as much time with your current boyfriend as possible...the reason your thinking about him all the time is because you really like him...to be honest theirs not much you can do apart from what i have mentioned...these feelings will go away! dont worry! heres my email lozzytee@hotmail.com...if u want to speak then you can email me and i will speak with you when i can! x
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