im a laid back chic, that a lot of people come to when they need help, or if they just need someone to talk to .. im easy to talk to .. and i try to keep my friends .. and i will let them make a mistakes to a certain point .. but i love giving advice .. im the type of person that has been in a lot of peoples shoes, and if i havent, then i can try to put myself into their shoes .. *
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Hey! okay well heres my problem! School starts in like 10days so i dont have alot of time!! i originally was going to get homeschooled cuz i get teased alot about my weight n etc... but then my mom said no!! I was then going to attend a boarding school in Fresno, Ca.. but that was too expensive.. now I'm stuff with a public highschool or a private school.. im gonna start working on my weight once school starts bu i was htinki9ng fo to highschoo (my reg. one) in 10th n shock alot of ppl!! lol .. but now, should i go to a Private school or what is there any other ideas, alternatives, suggestions??? Thanks alot!! Also, if you go to a private school.. do u think I'd get judged more there or what??!?!?!? Thanks Again, xOxOxO (link)
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you dont get as judged more in a private school because there are a lot of people there that are like you. there will be people there that is over weight. do what you feel right about
if you go to a private school,. you wont get judged on the clothes you wear or anything, because you will mostlikely be in a uniform.
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All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!
Sorry about the long question...I rate! (link)
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no, you shouldnt tell cora. jarrod is just mad because you threatened to break a promise to him. just tell him that you only said that because you thought that it would be best if he told her, because you never know, cuz something could happen between them two.
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I know the subject is wrong... anyways, over the summer i got a lot of freckles on my face and I never really noticed it until someone mentioned it today. How can you make them disapear, besides massive makeup? (link)
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they will go away after it is not so hot out. they're called sun spots/freckles.
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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.
I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings? (link)
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you hsould tell her. just be like hunn, i dont mean this in a mean way, but you gained a couple of pounds.
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is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help! (link)
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its easier to wear a tampon, that way when you move around to do jumps and stretch out, you dont have the risk of leakage
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Ever since i could remember i'v always had low self esteem. I feel weird when i'm around guys like im the uglyist person there so i always shut up and keep quiet unless someone says something to me but i make it breif. I'v made a little progress with the talking in groups of people this year but i still don't like myself. I feel that i hate everything about me,but im not suicidal. What could i do to make myself possibly like me more? (link)
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take yourself to a spa, that way, you're pores are clensed, adn you feel better about the way you look. look at yourself in the mirror when you get home, and dont think about anything negitive. think about all your good traits. think positive. this should help you.
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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani (link)
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tell your boyfriend to come to your game, because you have a surpise for him, and have a couple of your team mates help you make a sign that says i love you ((name)).
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What does shady mean. like when someone says thats pretty shady or ur shady? (link)
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liek when someone says thats shady, it means that that is messed up like what you did, and when someone says that you are shady, it means that you are mean or cruel
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Is it normal to hate yourself and your life?Like really hate yourself.I mean i would never commit suicide or anything.I'm eating next to nothing lately or nothing.i9'mnot really sure what to do anymore. (link)
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yes, it is normal to hate your life. you are jsut going through that stage where you want nothing to do with anything. have you ever thought about it not just hating life, but also being depressed? i hate life a lot, well not as much i used to, and i found out that i was depressed. so go talk to your doctor about it, and see if that is the case. ((and no, being depressed is NOT your fault, so dont let anyone tell you it is))
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
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it is not wrong at all. my boyfriend and i ahve been going out for two years now, and i feel the same way. it is normal to love someone more than you love your self, or have a tear come to eye everytime you think of losing him. it is called love.
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Okay, I just moved to a new school and things are going great! I have plenty of friends and there are a few guys that like me. One in peticular! He's a sophmore (like me) and I know he's a sweet guy and I really like him but I'm not sure what to talk about w/ him! Right now we're just passing notes back and forth but happens when we go out? He's gonna call right? Then when do we say! Talking in person isn't so much the issue! Its the phone! What do I do? (link)
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jsut talk about your day, movies, school, music, etc.
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Hey guys! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this guy I think is sooooooo hot! We had never talked before and I didn't have any classes w/ him but he was friends w/ my newest best friend! He walked up and was talking to her but he smiled at me a lot! Then he was like "ur (my name) right?" And I was like "Yeah how did u know?" He said "o i went into a class after u and I saw ur name on a sheet u had signed!" and he was like grinning all big and stuff! Well then a few days later my best friend came up to me and was like "Omg omg omg! I told (Him) that u thought he was kinda cute and he said u were really really pretty!!!" And I wrote him a letter and gave him my number and everything. And she gave it to him and said he smilde really big when she said it was from me! Do u think that was okay? And do u think he likes me?
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he most likely does like you, and its not like giving your number to him makes you a whore or anything. for anyone else knows, you could just want to talk to him, and get to know him.
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When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ? (link)
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midol. a heating pad. hot liquids ((hot chocolate, tea, etc.)) and soup.
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Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?! (link)
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it doesnt matter if you're her best friend or not. you could be an extremely close friend, but not her best. if you know most of her secrets, and everything else, then you most likely are her best friend
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ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~ (link)
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talkt o him, you promised himt aht you wouldnt break up with him no matter what. if he didnt want anypart of it, and the girl came onto him, then dont blame him. find the chic, and beat her ass though
*my cousin was here and was the one that was typing, so dont mind anything harsh for this*
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I've been with my guy for over a year and a half, but we broke it off about 3 months ago because I moved about 30 minutes away. We tried to keep things going, but I was so used to seeing him every single day. It was basically like we lived with each other. He always spent the nights with me at my apartment and what not. I sort of lived on my own and I didn't have a job or anything, so he was the one who made sure I wasn't hungry or sick or feeling down or anything. I guess I was so used to seeing him everyday that once I moved away, that it hurt me a lot that I would only get to see him only once or twice a week. I'd complain to him about how I felt, so he decifrf to break up because he said that he doesn't want to hurt me. Him and I, we still keep in touch, I tell him I love him still and he as well. Well, I've grown accustomed to him not being able to see me all the time, so I guess that now, it's okay when we don't see one another much. We still act like boyfriend and girlfriend; the only thing that hurts me now is that I know that we're not. I still treat him the same as when we were together and a lot of times I beat myself up about it. I feel like.. I'm a whore or something, giving out my love to someone who isn't even my boyfriend. I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if I should hold on to what we have and continue on, or should I just say fuck it? I know that in time, we are definitely going to get back with each other.. so.. until then, should I just keep giving him my love? (link)
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tell him how you feel, and if he says he doesnt want to hurt you, just be like, by not being with me is hurting me even more.
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OK so theres this new boy at school and like i talked to him before i talked to him at school online... and hes really nice n stuff and last nite we had our first football game! and then afterwards there was this party at my friends house so i invited him to come... he did and we had soo much fun, but i think he likes my friend Michelle, like followed her around n stuff... and like talked to her the most but hes just sooo great and perfect like he got up and danced in a cirle and he doesnt even like know ne one.. like hes the new kid! i love his confidence and how he acts and i dunnno but then my x boyfreind was there and he was like sorta mad at me for like being with the new kid... and my x is like my best friend... but he broke up with me! but i really really like the new kid a lot! so how do u think i should deal with this? (link)
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ask him if he likes your friend, and if you're friend michelle likes him. if they do like eachother, than tell them to go for it. if they do go out, then never talk to michelle again, adn be like i thought you were my friend! then shoot her in the head. tehn you can tell how much of a jack ass this new guy was
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I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do? (link)
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talk to him about it. and if that doesnt work, gouge your eyes out, adn tehn try to scrape otu the memories witha spoon.
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is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad... (link)
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dude.. its a dream boat.. you're parents will buy anything to buy your love, and if they dont, always say kinda quietly, but so they can ehar it, well, you know, mom/dad would buy it for me. ((depending on who you're with)) ride the gravy train.
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hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not? (link)
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very abnormal.... you freak.. it means you cant get a woman
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